"Wherever you are, be there totally. If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it totally." - Eckhart Tolle

There is such a pull, based on a lifetime of pulls, to go down the road of pain and blame. And I don't have to. We don't have to. And that's a wow. That's freedom. - Greene Roth