Love will genuinely listen to the heart that is honestly speaking. - Susan Frybort
Love begins with listening. - Mr. Fred Rogers
“Listening: You can convey no greater honor than actually hearing what someone has to say. ― Philip Crosby
Have you ever felt that what you were trying to say was completely invalidated by the other person? Like they did not even hear, never mind accept what you were conveying? Poor listening is often the cause of interpersonal issues and conflicts. People often cite feelings of alienation or being put down whenever they perceive that the conversation is one-sided.
Many think that listening is a prelude for giving advice to the other person. Not so! A good listener mainly pays attention to what the speaker is saying, rather than focusing on what suggestion to provide. Listening to someone does not mean that you have to “fix,” agree, or consent to what the other party is saying, but it does require you to respect the person’s thoughts and feelings.
Offering the other party your undivided attention requires you to put aside anything that may distract you.(Yes, put down that phone.) Most of us would appreciate being heard and being seen, and being validated for what we are feeling. We may not be looking for the “answer.” Sometimes the best answer is ”I don’t have the answers, but I’m here for you as you figure it out.” - Project Happiness
One of the most sincere forms of respects is actually listening to what another has to say. - unknown
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