Monday, November 28, 2016

"People are complicated. Societies and cultures are really complicated … This is not mathematics; this is biology and chemistry. These are living organisms, and it’s messy. And your job as a citizen and as a decent human being is to constantly affirm and lift up and fight for treating people with kindness and respect and understanding. And you should anticipate that at any given moment there’s going to be flare-ups of bigotry that you may have to confront, or may be inside you and you have to vanquish. And it doesn’t stop … You don’t get into a fetal position about it. You don’t start worrying about apocalypse. You say, O.K., where are the places where I can push to keep it moving forward" -Barack Obama.
Here’s What President Obama Told Sasha and Malia After Trump Won the Election

Saturday, November 26, 2016

Friday, November 25, 2016

Federal Judge Blocks Obama Administration's Overtime Pay Rule
Benjamin Barber on Holiday Capitalism
Stephen Colbert Mocks Trump’s Petty Tweets: Can ‘Dish It Out But Can’t Take It’
Roland Martin just ended white supremacist Richard Spencer's 15 minutes of fame
Hipster Santa Is Back at Pioneer Place
UK House of Commons Members Spectacularly Humiliate Donald Trump
Seth Meyers Compares Trump to Saddam: ‘A Bullying Authoritarian’ who ‘Receives Gifts of Gold’

Happy me, happy Gabe.

“Most of my life has been spent trying to shrink myself. Trying to become smaller. Quieter. Less sensitive. Less opinionated. Less needy. Because I didn’t want to be a burden. I didn’t want to be too much or push people away. I wanted people to like me. I wanted to be cared for and valued. I wanted to be wanted. So for years, I sacrificed myself for the sake of making other people happy. And for years, I suffered. But I’m tired of suffering, and I’m done shrinking. It’s not my job to change who I am in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. I am worthwhile. Not because other people think I am, but because I exist, and therefore I matter. My thoughts matter. My feelings matter. My voice matters. And with or without anyone’s permission or approval, I will continue to be who I am and speak my truth. Even if it makes people angry. Even if it makes them uncomfortable. Even if they choose to leave. I refuse to shrink. I choose to take up space. I choose honor my feelings. I choose to give myself permission to get my needs met. I choose me” ~Daniel Keopke
When I chose to let you go, there was no great moment of triumph. There wasn’t an earth-shattering epiphany that changed my life, where music played and the universe conspired to bring everything together for good. There was no conflict, no turmoil and no struggle. No internal argument. No weighing of pros and cons. No decision to be analyzed to death—even by me, who cannot make a decision without weeks of obsessive thought over every possible outcome. There were only two words, when I chose to let you go: No more. No more will I measure my worth against your opinion. No more will I be pressed into the shapes you carved for me. No more will I tell my heart to quiet down, ashamed of its clatter. No more will there be blood on my feet from the eggshells I walked on as I tried not to give cause for your disapproval. No more will I anguish over the ways you misunderstood me. No more will I fight to justify the intention of my heart. No more will I beg for you to see me, the real me—to know me, to love me. No more will I live my life for you. When I chose to let you go, there was no holy encounter. The stars did not collapse from the sky and cascade into the oceans. There was no ferocious wind that rattled the walls or blazing fire that consumed all within its destructive path. There was only quiet resolution, the silent death of leaves that drift to the ground as frost begins to waste them away. And there I found myself, in the barren ground where you once stood; I came to understand there must be winter. Winter in all its loss, its grief, its letting go. There must be a time for old things to die, that new things may be born. When I chose to let you go, it was for me. I learned to love myself even when you made me feel I deserved no love. To honor my own needs, my own heart and my own potential. To walk my own path, not yours. To not be pulled back into your confines while my spirit yearned to be free. When I chose to let you go, I made coffee, ate toast, and folded clothes. I went to yoga and collected my mail and paid my bills. There was nothing out of place on the outside of my ordinary life—no visible change, nothing new or different. There was only surrender. One moment. One breath. I chose to let you go. And in doing so, I chose me. ~ Author: Kathy Parker

Thursday, November 24, 2016

Be a Decent Human Being and Don’t Go Shopping on Thanksgiving
California workers won't be getting double pay for Thanksgiving Day duty
The Story Behind Jared Kushner’s Curious Acceptance into Harvard
Tweets detailing Trump's meeting with NYT reporters emerge as total WTF moment
'Fufu' Diplomacy: How Food Is Helping Chinese See Immigrants As More Than Foreign
Golden Years, Iron Bars: Japan Sees Rise In Crime By The Elderly
How to fight amazaon.com, Best buy style.
How to talk like you are from Portland
United has created a new flying class that’s even worse than economy

Give thanks to what I have.

’ve learned a lot this year … I learned that things don’t always turn out the way you planned, or the way you think they should. And I’ve learned that there are things that go wrong that don’t always get fixed or get put back together the way they were before. I’ve learned that some broken things stay broken, and I’ve learned that you can get through bad times and keep looking for better ones, as long as you have people who love you. — Jennifer Weiner

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

"Be patient and tough; one day this pain will be useful to you" - Ovid
“It takes more courage to examine the dark corners of your own soul than it does for a soldier to fight on a battlefield.” - W. B. Yeats

Monday, November 21, 2016

You deserve to be deliriously happy.

Every fulfilling relationship begins with how you see your partner
The Path of Healing
How Boys' and Girls' Brains React Differently to Stress
Why Most Narcissists Devalue And Discard Their Partners
Dad Of 4 Refuses To Sugarcoat Parenting With Hilarious Instagram Posts
What If Everything You Knew About Disciplining Kids Was Wrong?
Discipline: Teaching Through Love Instead of Fear
What Happens When the Narcissist's Bubble Bursts
Why I Stopped Lying to My Daughter
Pessimism May Be Bad for Your Heart
Post-Election, Overwhelmed Facebook Users Unfriend, Cut Back
Quit Social Media. Your Career May Depend on It.
12 Things No One Will Tell You About Having A C-Section, But I Will
One of the best feelings is finally losing feelings and your attachment to somebody that isn’t good for you. - Unknown
Breathe. Exhale. Repeat: The Benefits of Controlled Breathing
I would rather be alone with dignity than in a relationship that requires me to sacrifice my self respect. ― Mandy Hale
If you want to be a better person, find something to do outside of work
I hope you don’t accept anything less than what you deserve. Run away from average love. Run like all hell. You deserve someone who will make your blood stir and cause your heart to dance. You deserve to be deliriously happy. It’s okay to be patient. It’s okay to wait for that. You’re waiting for the best and that’s nothing to apologize for. - The better man project

Giving spirit in Vancouver

4 places in Clark County with free Thanksgiving meals
Trust is built in very small moments in which one person turns towards their partner when they are in need. - Dr. John Gotten
In every disagreement in marriage, remember this one important truth: My spouse is my partner; not my enemy. We will either win together or we will lose together. - davewillis.org
The goal of communication in marriage isn't agreement, it is understanding. - Glen Sharkey

Saturday, November 19, 2016

Carl Sagan - You Are Here (Pale Blue Dot) [Sagan Time]

League of nationalists
Hate Didn’t Elect Donald Trump; People Did
‘Vote shaming’ Trump supporters is fair. What they have done is shameful
Jeff Sessions as Attorney General: An Insult to Justice
Obama May Jump Into Fray as Democrats Counter Trump
Jeff Sessions, Trump’s Pick for Attorney General, Is a Fierce Opponent of Civil Rights
In Depressed Rural Kentucky, Worries Mount Over Medicaid Cutbacks
WHEN STEPHEN COLBERT SPOKE TRUTHINESS TO POWER
This Shopping Spreadsheet Is A One-Stop Way To Boycott The Trumps
Talk of a registry for Muslims has Japanese internment survivors asking: 'Can’t they see what’s wrong?'
None of This Is Normal. All of It Is Un-American.
Normalizing the Abnormal: NPR Begins Its Whitewashing of Breitbart's Racism
'We're Not Going Away': Alt-Right Leader On Voice In Trump Administration
From Hate Speech To Fake News: The Content Crisis Facing Mark Zuckerberg
In A Family's First House, A Lasting Lesson: You Can Always Give
SpaceX exec quits to fight Trump 'nightmare'
Obama to Anti-Trump protesters: Don't be silent.

Monty Python-The Meaning of Life

Live Life wth kindness

Your “Ideal Partner” Will Always Create Problems
Romantic Relationships Take a Dive After Baby Arrives (According to Research)
Don’t Expect Toddlers To Behave Consistently — They Literally Can’t
6 Obstacles to a Relationship With a Psychopath
Why Crawling Like a Toddler Might Be the Best New Exercise Trend in Ages
An unsung hero in the story of interracial marriage
14 Things I Don’t Give a F**k About As I Get Older
You don’t cheat on someone you love. Period.
Fathers Need To Show Mothers Love Through Their Actions
Why I Can’t ‘JUST’ Go To Bed
Let your children feel their feelings
Why Is It So Hard to Tell If Someone Likes You?
“Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.” – James Baldwin
Teaching Children Respect
On Teaching Tolerance and Inclusivity in Early Education
6 Rules to Live By When You Discipline Your Child
5 YouTube Shows Kids Love And Parents Hate
Spanking Young Children Declines Overall But Persists In Poorer Households
The Velveteen Mother
Boundaries Empaths Should Set to Protect Themselves and Stay Mentally Healthy VERY VERY IMPORTANT... don't be someone's doormat
DNA Is Not Destiny When It Comes To Heart Risk
I Will Never Tell My Sons To ‘Man Up’
20 things to say to your child instead of “Don’t cry”
The Mommy Guilt Is Never-Ending
64 Ideas For Self Care When Life Gets Hard
15 Questions to Replace “How Was School Today?”
Could You Be Shaming Your Child Without Meaning To?
Raising an Empathetic Child: 10 Little Things You Can Do Right Now
The Lesson You Never Got Taught in School: How to Learn!
Raising Kind Kids — Because The World Needs It
How To Get Your Child To Sleep Through The Night in 2.5 Years and 24 Steps
How to Be a Better Forgiver
11 Easy Acts Of Kindness To Perform This Weekend
How To Help Your Baby Become A Math Genius (Or Not)
"getting your kids to bed: if at first you don't succeed, try, try, try, try, try, try, try, try again." - Daniel F.
The Importance Of Being Honest About The Messy Sh*t In Life
20 Parenting Hacks We Wish We Knew the First Time Around
Creating an Emotionally Supportive Home Environment
Dear Lonely Girl —
The Big Stall
What makes a language difficult?

Friday, November 18, 2016

In loving memory of Tasul, 1984-2016.

Zoo mourns Tasul, one of world's oldest polar bears

I got this. Happy Friday! Can't wait to hold my cuite pie tonight. :)

This letter is to you.
This letter is to you. The you that’s had a rough week. The you that seems to be under constant storm clouds. The you that feels invisible. The you that doesn’t know how much longer you can hold on. The you that has lost faith. The you that always blames yourself for everything that goes wrong. To you. You are incredible. You make this world a little bit more wonderful. You have so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way, so please hang in there. You can do it. – Jodi Ann Bickley

Thursday, November 17, 2016

A 12-Step Program for Responding to President-Elect Trump
There is no such thing as a good Trump voter
Federal Reserve Chair Throws Cold Water On Trump's Economic Plan
Korean mother awaits son’s deportation from Washington state to tell him ‘how sorry I am’
In ‘Loving,’ an American story about a marriage worth fighting for
Republicans are suddenly realizing the economy is actually in good shape
Trump’s not Republican — but GOP will ‘reap the benefit’ when he breaks the government
Bullying in the Age of Trump
Clinton in an emotional speech, implores supporters to keep believing in America
Kennedy Family Writes Anti-Trump Op-Ed In Washington Post That EVERYONE Should Read
‘Is It Safe?’ Foreign Students Consider College in Donald Trump’s U.S.
Seattle police will support mayor’s ‘sanctuary city’ commitment, chief says
There's another type of rural/urban divide in America: Teens having babies
Research says there are ways to reduce racial bias. Calling people racist isn’t one of them.
Trump Staff Shake-Up Slows Transition to Near Halt
Ex-Breitbart Executive Brings Alt-Right Ties To The White House
Washington state elector in 'Hail Mary' bid to unseat Trump
Love. Courage. Hope. Hard work. - Kathleen Saadat

Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Let's all be nice and humane to each other.

Let's all be nice and humane to each other.- M.R.
Let John Legend’s New Video Be The Message Of Love You Need Today
"It is time for us to stand up again, and to press on with renewed determination. So hold your heads up high and carry on, turning your fear and anger into clearest resolve." - George Takei
George Takei: The Challenge Ahead Under President-Elect Trump
The Bold Ultimatum the ACLU Gave Donald Trump
The Best Of The Obama-Biden 'Brotus'
Alarmism saved my family from Hilter: why I won't tell anyone to clam down about Trump "People are scared. They have every right to be. Trump’s words speak of an intent to violate fundamental liberties; Trump’s words inveigle violence; Trump’s words abrogate a social contract that says that we should quietly respect election results."
Spike In Minority Students Reporting Harassment After Trump Win
Hate Like This Is Spreading Across the Country
Tell Donald Trump to reject hate and bigotry
I looked at 2 years of front pages. Trump's Muslim ban got far less attention than Clinton’s emails.
20 Things Donald Trump Said He Wanted to Get Rid of as President
Joe Biden is everyone's favorite Trump troll
Chomsky: Trump’s win puts government in the hands of the ‘most dangerous organization in world history’
Dark days ahead: American professors on Trump presidency
American Christianity Is Dying
Modeling virtue
‘They Broke It. America Bought It.’
LAPD will not help deport immigrants under Trump, chief says
Trump: Four women protesting against the President-elect
Catholic vs. Protestant Heaven, According to the Simpsons

How Forests Heal People from Nitin Das on Vimeo.

“When you realize the value of all life, you dwell less on what is past and concentrate more on the preservation of the future.” - Dian Fossey

Monday, November 14, 2016

Wyman

可惜我是水瓶座 野孩子 那誰 地平線 你沒有好結果 & 活得比你好 最佳位置 歡樂今宵 痛愛 我這麼容易愛人 再見露絲瑪莉 明目張膽 小團圓 末日 我的驕傲 活著多好 好心分手 木紋 漩渦 小玩意 心淡 芳華絕代 浮誇 活著多好
I’m Arab and Many of Us Are Glad That Trump Won
Trump says mass deportation of 'terrific' undocumented immigrants can wait
Trump Camp Mounting Disinformation Campaign That He Won The Popular Vote
Donald Trump Says He'll Deport 2-3 Million People Once In Office
Rachel Maddow Comes To Tears While Ripping Mike Pence’s Senseless Anti-Gay Record
Ana Navarro: It’s hard to give Trump a chance when he staffs his White House with racists
With Bannon, The KKK And White Supremacists Now Run The Country
McMullin slams Bannon appointment
Glenn Beck: Steve Bannon Is a ‘Terrifying Man’
The Republic Repeals Itself
Hillary Clinton Apparently Got More Popular Votes Than Any American President Besides Barack Obama
Ryan Plans to Phase Out Medicare in 2017
Trump’s careless ignorance could make him the world’s most dangerous man
“This campaign was never about you”: A former Hillary Clinton staffer on the candidate’s powerful legacy
‘I’ve never seen anything like that': Confederate flags at California Veterans Day parade
“You can never make the same mistake twice because the second time you make it, it’s not a mistake, it’s a choice.” – Steven Denn
“Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet.”― Maya Angelou
"You are personally responsible for for becoming more ethnical than the society you grew up in." - Unknown
It is our own responsibility. Our actions will then influence others.

Brave and True

I will be. Each good deed sets me free. Each kind word makes me strong. I will fight for the right. I will conquer the wrong. - Ashley Asbjornsen

‘Trickle Down Racism’

Reed College Targeted by Racist, Homophobic, Anti-Semitic Graffiti
The Election was Stolen – Here’s How…
‘Trump Nation — whites only’: Trump fans deface Maryland church for reaching out to Hispanics
Your Safety Pins Are Not Enough.
Sorry Trump, the 'New York Times' is actually adding subscribers
When Melania Trump Met Michelle Obama, Their Clothes Did Some of the Talking
"True Christians do not treat anyone differently, talk bad about them or look down on them. God help poor Mexicans, Africans and Cubans who wanted to realize American dream" - Pope Francis
Pope Francis Says He Has Lost Faith In American Christians
Mitt Romney: Donald Trump Will Offer America ‘Trickle Down Racism’
The New York Times Just Gave Trump A Giant F*ck You After His Early Morning Meltdown
Mourning Trump and the America We Could Have Been
Peaceful anti-Trump marchers in Seattle say activism is just beginning
Merkley Denounces Appointment of White Nationalist to Top White House Post
How voter ID laws helped Donald Trump win the presidency

Concert YY 黄伟文作品展 2012

Sunday, November 13, 2016

What Your Facebook Status Updates Say About Your Personality
Why 30 is the decade friends disappear — and what to do about it
17 Ways to Take Better Care of Yourself
Eyes Off the Prize
Childhood Trauma Doesn’t Just Go Away, So I Can’t ‘Get Over It’
What Really Happens in a Controlling Relationship
I’m not going to settle for ordinary love. I want my love to be one of a kind. I want to wake up every morning next to the person I love, and tell them how lucky I am. I want to walk down the streets holding hands, and have people know how much we love each other. I want to be with someone, who sees my worse, but encourages me to be my best. I want to be able to laugh with the person I love, but have a conversation where we share our deepest thoughts. I want a love that’s so special…It lasts a lifetime. - Unknown
What Do Women Really Want?
Love and Attachment
A FRIEND’S PREGNANCY
What’s Going in a Man’s Head on a First Date The Importance Of Being Honest About The Messy Sh*t In Life
He didn’t hit me. It was still abuse.
"Maturity is when you have the power to destroy someone who did you wrong but you just breathe, walk away and let life take care of them." - POP
I learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… That destiny determines who enters your life, but we get to decide who stays… that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. That there are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities. Therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option.- Unknown
Can Men And Women Be Friends Without Benefits?
Your Brain Is Your Most Powerful Sex Organ
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MATURE RELATIONSHIP AND AN IMMATURE RELATIONSHIP
When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to the other. The presence is felt through a held hand, a voice heard and the sight of a smile. Even through a simple touch. Souls do not have calendars or clocks, nor do they understand the notion of time or distance. They only know it feels right to be with one another. This is the reason why you miss someone so much when they are not around. Your soul feels their absence— it doesn’t realize the separation is temporary. ~ Lang Leav
When you see something beautiful in someone, tell them. It may take seconds to say, but for them, it could last a lifetime. - Unknown
CAN READING MAKE YOU HAPPIER?
3 MARRIAGE-SAVING SKILLS THAT CAN HELP YOU THROUGH THE HARDEST OF TIMES
"One of the truest signs of maturity is the ability to disagree with someone while still remain respectful." - Sun Grazing.. TRULY!
18 Non-Toy Gifts for Toddlers
18 Non-Toy Gifts for Children
I think everyone at some point, goes through that one moment where they think “my God, I can’t do this”. But you know what? You can. No matter how close you are to the edge, no matter how badly you feel like giving up, or think it’s best to do so rather than have to put up with the pain – don’t. Don’t lose hope that things will get better. Don’t give up, because there is someone out there who will make you smile in a way no one else ever could. Keep that glimmer of hope alive in your heart, because someone is out there searching for your smile. So wipe your tears and keep your head held high. - Unknown
I’m the kind of person who tries their best not to take life for granted, to live a lot, make memories and to love with everything I have. I’ll never give up for I believe in myself, but most of all I’ll fight for myself. Sure I’ll screw up. I’ll make mistakes but I’ll try to learn from them. In relationships, I won’t trust you until you’ve proven yourself. But I’ll love you with everything I have.- Unknown
I don’t want a perfect relationship. I want someone I can trust and who won’t be cheating on me physically or emotionally. Everyone needs someone who loves them completely and who won’t play games with their heart. Last but not least, I’m a strong believer that when it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is not an option but a priority. Loyalty means the world. – Bns.

Kind of hard to feel good about the proposed tax plan.. tax cut for the 1 % ultra rich.. hmm.. where did I hear that from?

“Non-Racist Trump Voters” Have a Moral Obligation to Stand Up to Hate
Now more than ever: Call out data and visualization bullshit
Can Trump Save Their Jobs? They’re Counting on It
“I FEEL FORGOTTEN”: A DECADE OF STRUGGLE IN RURAL OHIO
An analysis of Donald Trump’s election win and the prospects for his presidency
Yep, race really did Trump economics: A data dive on his supporters reveals deep racial animosity
Who Benefits From Donald Trump's Tax Plan?
Don’t give Trump so much credit, America, sadly, people are teaching bigotry, hate at home, esp. when the leader in your country/ GOP party did not stand up to KKK
Trump and China: America’s Most Important Economic Relationship Just Got Very Complicated
China warns Trump against abandoning climate change deal
An open and shut case

“We shouldn’t blame anyone, we shouldn’t riot in the streets....We should think strongly and clearly about what to do next because we cannot change the past.” - Jennifer Lawrence

The Daily Trump Shitshow Is About to Begin
Anti-Donald Trump Protests Gain Strength Days After Election
Sanders Statement on Trump
Bernie Sanders: Where the Democrats Go From Here
This Hedge Fund Billionaire Is The Biggest Winner In Donald Trump’s Victory
What So Many People Don’t Get About the U.S. Working Class
Why It’s So Hard for a Woman to Become President of the United States
Moby Writes Angry Open Letter on Trump: "America, What the Fuck is Wrong With You?"
LOSING THE POPULAR VOTE WON’T REIN IN PRESIDENT TRUMP
Female Clinton Supporters Are Left Feeling Gutted
Five Reasons for Liberals to Have Hope
How Trump Made Hate Intersectional
Why Females Will Eventually Run The World
After Trump’s Win, White Evangelical Christians Face A Reckoning
11 Quotes From Robin Williams On Money, Life, Love, Sex, And Loneliness
Maryland sidesteps electoral college
Five countries where Americans can easily get a working holiday visa
The contributions of female explorers - Courtney Stephens
The Secret Shame of Middle-Class Americans
Five countries where Americans can easily get a working holiday visa
Are you a saver or an investor?

SNL 11/12/16

Hillary Clinton Sings Hallelujah On SNL Cold Open Dave Chappelle Stand-Up Monologue - SNL 'SNL' Reflects A Nation's Emotional Tone In Post-Election Episode

Saturday, November 12, 2016

Emboldened N.B.A. Coaches Rip Donald J. Trump’s Rhetoric
“Very sad, very frightening, very worrying”: Richard Branson reacts to Donald Trump’s election victory
White flight from reality: Inside the racist panic that fueled Donald Trump’s victory
The people who look at Trump and don't see a racist
This Is What White Supremacy Looks Like
The conversations parents and teachers are having about Trump being elected
ACLU donations surge to record level after Trump victory
What now for Muslims in Trump's America?
Teachers Struggle To Reassure Kids About A Future In Donald Trump’s America
Protests, actions that will actually make a difference
Teaching In The Age Of Trump
Trump Is Proof: Feminism Isn’t Free
Hail to the thief
Portland Anti-Trump Protest Turns to Chaos as Anarchists Smash Cars and Bus Stops
Yes, Trump can boost deportations and gut the Dreamer program for young immigrants
5 ways President Trump could affect your student loans
Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. -- Rumi

#heartbreak

Be your own kind of beautiful

"Perhaps the future no longer depends on a single leader, but on each of us who can quietly dedicate our life to light. Love and healing." - Deepak Chopra
"People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you." "Trust yourself. You've survived a lot, and you'll survive whatever is coming." - Robert Tew
"Here is my secret. It is very simple. It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." - The Little Prince

阿信的故事

Nothing to do but live your best you and know that makes a difference.- S.T.

Friday, November 11, 2016

What matter in human race: Kindness...

I Lost My Mother To Postpartum Depression
Reading This Beautiful Story Might Just Save Your Relationship. Choose Him or Her Everyday.
10 Things You're Teaching Your Baby When You Cry It Out, I believe my baby can learn those 10 things without CIO.
Kurt Vonnegut Turns Cinderella Into An Equation
What Fear Does to Your Brain - And How to Stop It
5 Things That Happen To Your Body If You Don't Have "Me Time" As A New Mom
The 10 Dumbest Things I’ve Said to My Toddlers
Time's Up for 'Timeout'
How Stress Makes You Sick
American Muslims Are Fearful But Resilient About Their Place In Trump’s America
3 Relationship Goals From A Relationship Expert That Are Healthy, Fun — And Realistic
Hey, Baby, Meet Peanuts: How And When To Safely Introduce The Food
11 Bad Habits That You Don’t Realize Make Your Relationship More Difficult Than It Has To Be
I Had No Sex Life
A Protest, A Police Officer, A Yelling Mother: The Story Behind A Photo
What Does Healthy Even Mean?
Those Things You Think Are Making You More Productive? They’re Not.
Weaning a toddler
You don't have to organize today. You can just grieve.
7 Times When I Love My Baby More Than My Partner , I became a mom because of Gabe's father. I got the best job because of him. He just doesn't love me back.
How Obesity Could Age Your Brain 10 Additional Years by Middle Age
The rise of Donald Trump demands we embrace a harder kind of self-care
Husband’s Viral Post On Marriage Will Make You Fall In Love With Your Spouse All Over Again
10 Tips for Raising a Compassionate Infant-Toddler
The Weekend That Made Survival Mode More Survivable
10 Toxic People You Should Avoid At All Costs
Desmond Tutu’s Message on Forgiveness, Healing and Finding Joy
Who deserves to call themselves a “single mom”?
10 Ways to Spot Someone With Little Prince Syndrome.. apparently, I did have a very high tolerant of such people
Dalai Lama: Behind Our Anxiety, the Fear of Being Unneeded
Witness to a Meltdown: There Is a Way to Help
An Open Letter (of Hope) to Parents Around the World
8 Truths Of Parents Who Are Raising A Strong-Willed Child
What Matters In a Friendship
Women need more sleep than men because their brains work harder according to science.
Saying Goodbye To My Boy
8 Thoughts That Go Through A Mom’s Head During A Night Feeding
You’ll Never Be Truly Happy If You Can’t Be Comfortable With Being Alone
Women need a whole year to recover from childbirth despite the 'fantasy' image of celebrity mothers, study claims

I am truly frightened.

When Your Abuser Is Elected President
Women Rush To Get Long-Acting Birth Control After Trump Wins
America was never ready for a woman president
Donald Trump despised the Electoral College in 2012. It just won him the election.
People Share Frightening Images In The Aftermath Of Trump’s Victory
The Original Underclass
Asian Americans Are Now Being Targeted For Harassment After Donald Trump’s Victory
People Share Frightening Images In The Aftermath Of Trump’s Victory
Pro-Trump Swastikas Painted in Philly
“Never doubt that you are valuable, and powerful and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world to pursuit and achieve your own dream.“- HCR
The Single American Woman
This is how the future voted. This is what people 18-25 said in casting their votes. We must keep this flame alight and nurture this vision.
American women voted overwhelmingly for Clinton, except the white ones
Sam Bee rips white women who refused to vote for Hillary and picked the ‘vial of weaponized testosterone’
Many minorities frightened of what a Trump presidency means for them
After Trump’s victory, shock and despair for women who supported Clinton

#safetpins

Bill Maher shocked Sarah Palin might be Trump’s Sec. of Interior: ‘I’m not sure she sleeps indoors!’
The Daily Shot: Markets’ Sharp Reaction to U.S. Elections and Other Developments in 63 Charts
Trump and advisers hedge on major pledges, including Obamacare and the wall
Glenn Beck: Don’t Move to Canada. Talk to the Other Side.
Comey did elect Trump. Here's the data that shows it.
Trump’s administration is looking like it’ll be very white and very male
No, Let's Not Congratulate Him
Pulitzer Prize-winning columnist Connie Schultz on Trump's win: 'Don't ask us to congratulate him'
Patrick Stewart’s Post-Election Tweet Says It All With A Hashtag
More Democrats Should Be Talking Like Harry Reid Right Now
Who Are All These Trump Supporters?
Stephen Colbert Is Your Moral Guide and Your Outrage. This Monologue Is for the Ages.
Trump voters will not like what happens next
Garrison Keillor: Trump voters will see his disasters fall on them—more than anyone else
Scottish Leader Puts Trump On Notice In Model Response To His Win
Harry Reid Calls Trump "a Sexual Predator Who Lost the Popular Vote"
This Post-Election Scene From A School Cafeteria Is All You Need To Know About Trump’s America
Cities Will Lead the Resistance
This HORRIFYING List Is Exactly Why We Can’t Say ‘It Will Be Okay’ Under Trump
How Gary Johnson and Jill Stein helped elect Donald Trump
Donald Trump will be the only US president ever with no political or military experience
Pence Promises Supporters That LGBTQ Rights Will Be FIRST To Go (VIDEO)
Michael Moore doesn't think Trump will actually be in office for 4 years
Morning Reads: Lobbyists Line Up for Trump; Congress Gets Ready to Roll Back Banking Regs
"Let us neither express, nor cherish, any harsh feeling towards any citizen who, by his vote, has differed with us. Let us at all times remember that all American citizens are brothers of a common country, and should dwell together in the bonds of fraternal feeling." - Abraham Lincoln
"The only way to peace and healing is to turn to one another and try to understand what motivates such fear and anger. The anger over inequality and injustice, whether in America or South Africa, is real and must be addressed, for a country is only as strong as its weakest and most vulnerable citizens." —Desmond Tutu
Neil deGrasse Tyson Has A Mission For You: Let’s Make America Smart Again
After Donald Trump victory, Oregonians submit ballot proposal to secede from the union
Trump just completely reversed his policy on South Korea — only 2 days after being elected
Farewell, America
Hillary Clinton’s campaign was crippled by voters who stayed home
I’m a Muslim, a woman and an immigrant. I voted for Trump. She may not be a sexist, or racist, but she voted for one because Obama's administration failed her, she clearly did not live in America in the last 8 years to see the obstruction the GOP had done.
5 Things to Know About Stephanie Murphy, First Vietnamese-American Woman Elected to Congress
As Obama Spoke On Trump’s Win, The Faces Of White House Staffers Said It All
Under President-elect Trump, these policies could replace Obamacare
Trump’s actions on the H1-B visa are still unclear, but they won’t be good for Indian IT firms and students
A Sushi Master’s Lament—and the One Fish You Should Always Avoid
How The Brain Powers Placebos, False Memories And Healing
Bride And Her Dad Floor Wedding Guests With Epic Dance Mashup
This Taiwanese Teacher Has Some Mad Chalk Drawing Skills
This guy photoshops himself into Kendall Jenner's Instagram and improves them a thousand percent.
The U.S. Is Beating China on the Factory Floor. This Is Why.
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Thursday, November 10, 2016

"Progress comes from empathy and inclusiveness. I will try to find empathy for the people who voted for Donald J. Trump. But Trump voters have to find empathy for the people who, with very good reason, fear his Presidency. That is the only way forward." - Michael Schur
‘Parks and Recreation’: Leslie Knope Writes Letter to America Following Donald Trump’s Victory

America Elects a Bigot & a TRAITOR

McConnell: Job 1 Is Repeal Obamacare
This female president ditched diplomacy and was honest enough to say Clinton’s loss is “extremely” sad
How to Channel Your Post-Election Anger, Sadness, and Fear Into Action

Russia confirms it was in 'contact' with Donald Trump's campaign before the election
Finish Your Ugly-Crying. Here’s What Comes Next.
What does Donald Trump’s victory mean for the world?
Russia: We Did Work With Team Trump During Campaign
Donald Trump’s presidency is going to be a disaster for the white working class
Fear is a totally rational reaction to the Donald Trump presidency
Malcolm Gladwell probes sexism and elitism in the U.S. presidential election
The Electoral College Is Hated by Many. So Why Does It Endure?
Donald Trump Win Has Blacks, Hispanics and Muslims Bracing for a Long 4 Years
Uncertainty Over Donald Trump’s Foreign Policy Risks Global Instability
Finish Your Ugly-Crying. Here’s What Comes Next.
One of Donald Trump's 75 active lawsuits has a key hearing today
Things We Can Count On In the Next Two Years
How to intervene in a racist attack On Nov 1st, my son and I were verbally faced with a white women throwing us racial slur in downtown Vancouver, I am truly afraid of our future.
With Hillary Clinton’s loss, the future my husband and I were planning for is gone
Michael Schur, Co-Creator of Parks & Rec, Has the Twitter Post-Mortem You Need
America Elects a Bigot
Here's Everything Donald Trump Has Promised to Do on His First Day as President
What does the US election result say about misogyny?
What Do We Tell The Children?
Left vs. Right
Obama: 'The Sun Will Rise' Regardless of Election Outcome
Note To Readers: Why We’re Dropping Our Donald Trump Editor’s Note
How Donald Trump did it, in 5 images
Even at Berkeley, I Face Threats as an Undocumented Student
What Trump owes his supporters, and now, the country
Donald Trump’s election spells doom for Barack Obama’s legacy
How Trump Won, According To The Exit Polls
Donald Trump’s election spells doom for Barack Obama’s legacy
What Happened on Election Day

Wednesday, November 09, 2016

The land of the lawless, racists and sexist, well the voters had spoken. They voted for the next fascist POTUS. GOP will control the house, the senate, the governors, probably the Supreme Court, and the White House. They are here to roll back the progresses this great nation have worked so hard since WWII. Affordable Care Act, the Defense of Marriage Act, the Dodd-Frank Financial Reform Act, GONE. Roe vs. Wade, GONE! That means they will control your uteruses. Watch out, WOMEN, we will be punished because we have blood coming out everywhere. Gones are your freedom: your freedom of press, your freedom of religion, you know, the Bill of rights. They will cut medicaid and medicare, food stamp, scientific research, domestic spending, privatize social security, and prolonging the oppression and social injustice. Clean Air Act & EPA, what are those? Minorities registries, human-induced earthquakes, eminent domain, waterboarding, lead enriched drinking water will be the norm. And let's not forget coal, We will be filling the air your breathe with this black gold, railing in all over from one coast to another. Oil spill in the Gulf, just extra nutrient for the human food chain. Just keep on digging, mining and drilling. We will be winners because we beat China everyday. We will have beautiful great Wall and don't forget those detention teams are coming for anyone that is non white male. And all these will make America great again!!!! And who are the benefactors: The Russians, the Chinese, The Saudis..and of course, MNC. Roads and pot holes, who cares, poor school system.. no worry... who needs school? The GOP house once wanted to abolished. IRS, EPA and Dept. of Ed. President Obama had been holding the line against Tea-party inspired policies for the last 8 years. This time, GOP's wish list will be fulfilled There are no balance of power when one party control all 3 branches of government. Did we not learn from history? #NEVERAGAIN.

Heart broken night for many of us. I don't want to live in a hateful place. It is a country of fear and heat. That life has begun

Stephen Colbert couldn’t hold it together on live TV
Jon Stewart Joins Stephen Colbert for Final Trump Takedown

Tuesday, November 08, 2016

#Neveragain

Ignore the Trolls: You Definitely Cannot Vote Via Text
German Author Of ‘Dear Americans’ Viral Message Says Rise Of Trump Made Him ‘Physically Sick’
Facebook is full of fake news stories. On Election Day, don’t fall for them.
It’s time for Ann Coulter to go away and never come back #NEVERAGAIN
Ana Navarro gets a standing ovation after The View plays superclip of her greatest anti-Trump hits
Time to take out the trash: Donald Trump’s legacy is vanity, tastelessness, classlessness and men behaving badly
Dan Savage on Jill Stein: Just No
People are lining up to place “I voted” stickers on Susan B. Anthony’s headstone
What I learned reading 4,000 Trump and Clinton tweets
The Art of the Rout: What a Trump Loss Does to the G.O.P.

Yes, incomparable LOVE.

Is it right to train babies to sleep?
Still Have Leftover Halloween Candy? Use It For Science!
Poverty Wages For U.S. Child Care Workers May Be Behind High Turnover
The woman who has been to hell and back is not easy to love.
Single Moms By Choice Don't Need To Do It Alone
Portraits In Single Parenting: Doing One Of Life's Hardest Jobs, On Your Own
Laughing Gas Gives Women Another Option To Manage Labor Pain
Comedian Aparna Nancherla Makes Light Of The Heavy Stuff
17 Powerful Tweets That Remind Us How Damaging Emotional Abuse Can Be
The dog training strategies that work on kids
I Thought I Knew Love — Then I Had A Child, I am also sad that I don't this type of love from Mihai " We have seen each other sick, hungover, crabby, sleep-deprived, sweaty, and stinky. We’ve witnessed some gross habits, and we’ve put up with each other’s annoying quirks. And yet, we still pick each other every single day, even when we fight or drive the other crazy, because we also share all the most important values, even if we don’t necessarily agree on every little thing in life. We can make each other laugh until we cry. We support each other’s dreams, and we do whatever we can to make it happen. We chose this love. And it’s not perfect, but it’s real, and it’s something that grows each day. I know love. I know what it feels like in the depths of my soul. "