Peggy & families: you are in my thoughts!
Endora: Stay in!
Herbert: Congrats on the job!
Ah Mon: Thanks for the comfort! We will do it well together.

We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success. We often discover what will do, by finding out what will not do; and probably he who never made a mistake never made a discovery.

-Samuel Smiles

In the face of "failure" focus your energies by not dwelling on the experience but learning from it.