Letting go is hard to do, particularly when the connection has been a true spiritual engagement. It is so complicated when the soul is involved, to imagaine letting go, but letting go we must, or perhaps, better to think of it as a kind of letting through. Letting the pain throught the holes it leaves behind so it can find its ultimate destination. That doesn't mean you let go of the love, but it may mean that you surrender the dream of being together. Never easy, but sometimes a necessary step on the path to wholeness. Our souls expand when we see a relational adventure through. All the way through to the transformation at their core. To let go is to let grow. - Jeff Brown