When people show you who they are believe them, said the great Maya Angelou.

We cannot change others we can only change our response to them.
So trust your intuition and their actions, stop living your life with unrealistic expectations, wish them well, and place your attention and energy on your one precious life. - Barb Schmidt

I think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t necessarily make them good to you.-unknown

Sometimes the greatest test is how you quietly handle those who so boldly mishandled you. - Morgan Richard Olivier