Because others cannot vibrate your experience, they cannot affect the outcome of your experience. They can hold their opinions, but unless their opinion affects your opinion, their opinion matters not at all. A million people could be pushing against you, and it woul dnot negatively affect your unless you push back. They are affecting you unless you push back. They are affecting what happneds in their experoence. They are affecting their point of attraction, but it does not affect you unless you push against them. - Abraham Hicks