Your vibe attracts your tribe. Is that true?

"Your vibe attracts your tribe." Sounds good, right? But its not alwayss true, because sometimes your vibe also attracts sociopaths, lite- dimmers and border-crossers that come to steal your light. If you needed that lesson, then I suppose its okay to call them part of your tribe, but if you didn't, then its fair to say that your vibe also attracted an abuser. I have known many who bought into this bouncy ' new cat' quote and let the wrong people through the door. Perhaps a grounded re-frame would serve us... "Sometimes, your vibe attracts your tribe. Sometimes, your vibe attracts that which doesn't serve you. And sometimes your vibe has nothing to do with any of it. Sometimes, a predator walked in your direction just because 9s)he wanted to. - Jeff Brown, Grounded Spirituality