Some people are so busy pathologizing themselves and others, that they don’t know what healthy is. This happens to therapists all the time- they spend so much time analyzing the human shadow that they can no longer identify healthy behavior. They can’t see when the soul is at work. The therapeutic tools of the trade are not to be taken so far that we can no longer see the light or the essence of the other. There are so many things that influence behavior and choices- childhood history is only one of them. The soul has something to say about who we have become, too… - Jeff Brown