I used to spend a lot of time debating whether a love relationship was for me. It was like I had a list in my mind, one that required a certain number of checkmarks before I could proceed. And then I experienced real love, and all the lists vanished. Because real love doesn’t do lists. It doesn’t care about checkmarks. It doesn’t debate pros and cons. The timing may be off, but we never question how we feel about the other person. If we are, it usually means that the love isn’t there. Because if it is, we don’t make checklists. We just know. - Jeff Brown