No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame thme. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There's only one thing that makes someone chaange; their own realization that they need to do it. - Lori Deschene

Lately my spirit has been telling me to lay low and be patient. Observe and take nothing personally, but take everything for what it is. - unknown

There's a word of difference between insisting on someone's doing something and establishing an atmosphere in which that person can grow into wanting to do it. - Mister Rogers