YOU deserve to be treated with love and respect. If someone in your life makes you question yourself, your value as a person, your ability to parent your own child, your sanity, your contribution to society, or if any person ever tries to define your reality for you (tell you what you are doing, thinking, feeling etc) that is NOT ok. Nobody can know what's happening inside of you, except for you. I hope you all are hearing this. You can not tell a person what they are thinking, feeling, intending etc. You can't know. Only they know. We all need to stand up to this behavior and talk about it more openly. - Alina B.