Friday, December 31, 2010
Groupon Insiders Take $345 Million Off The Table In Latest Funding Round
Actually, Groupon Already Closed Half Of That Billion Dollar Round
The 20 Worst Foods in America, very nasty food and The Truth About Your Weight Gain and those gross beef products!
He Spoke A Few Words, Then Went To His Work
It's Rude! It's Crude! It's Stupid! Just Sayin' -I'm just saying!
A Surgically Implanted Camera And More At New Arab Art Museum, I need this implant.
Iran Spat Pits President Against Supreme Leader
Yoga: A Positively Un-Indian Experience
A Cookbook Is The Latest Weapon In Fight Against Lionfish Invasion, eat up!
Next On Cyber Command's Agenda: Working With Private Sector
So, We're Getting Meaner! What's It To Ya?
Pew Study Hints At What Web Users Will Pay For
China To Go After Internet Phone Services
A Vintage Cocktail That Packs A Punch
Top 10 YouTube Videos For 2010
Goodbye (Again) To The Last Rolls Of Kodachrome Film, bye bye Kodak!
Social Entrepreneurs: Taking On World Problems; Change You Can Invest In: Social Entrepreneurship
Delaware's O'Donnell Fires Back At 'Thug Politic Tactic' It takes a "thug" to know a "thug"!
What’s Your State Good At? So cute!
Actually, Groupon Already Closed Half Of That Billion Dollar Round
The 20 Worst Foods in America, very nasty food and The Truth About Your Weight Gain and those gross beef products!
He Spoke A Few Words, Then Went To His Work
It's Rude! It's Crude! It's Stupid! Just Sayin' -I'm just saying!
A Surgically Implanted Camera And More At New Arab Art Museum, I need this implant.
Iran Spat Pits President Against Supreme Leader
Yoga: A Positively Un-Indian Experience
A Cookbook Is The Latest Weapon In Fight Against Lionfish Invasion, eat up!
Next On Cyber Command's Agenda: Working With Private Sector
So, We're Getting Meaner! What's It To Ya?
Pew Study Hints At What Web Users Will Pay For
China To Go After Internet Phone Services
A Vintage Cocktail That Packs A Punch
Top 10 YouTube Videos For 2010
Goodbye (Again) To The Last Rolls Of Kodachrome Film, bye bye Kodak!
Social Entrepreneurs: Taking On World Problems; Change You Can Invest In: Social Entrepreneurship
Delaware's O'Donnell Fires Back At 'Thug Politic Tactic' It takes a "thug" to know a "thug"!
What’s Your State Good At? So cute!
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Now, I know why everyone at work was talking about W.
Locker leads Huskies to 19-7 win over Nebraska
Then I checked, wow, even Illini won Texas bowl.. impressive!
But Boise State Finishes On High Note With 26-3 MAACO Las Vegas Bowl Victory Over Utah....heehee..
Locker leads Huskies to 19-7 win over Nebraska
Then I checked, wow, even Illini won Texas bowl.. impressive!
But Boise State Finishes On High Note With 26-3 MAACO Las Vegas Bowl Victory Over Utah....heehee..
You Wouldn't Eat a Tiger, So Why Would You Eat Endangered Bluefin Tuna?
Say no to blue fin tuna
Is the Bluefin Tuna an Endangered Species?, Oct 2009
Bluefin tuna fails to make UN's list of protected fish, March 2010
Endangered-Species Status Is Sought for Bluefin Tuna, June 2010
BlueFin Tuna are now an Endangered Species, August 2010
Bluefin Tuna Endangered by Overfishing, Dec 2010
Bluefin tuna in crisis in WWF
severity of decline and its causes
Northern Bluefin Tuna
Is the Bluefin Tuna an Endangered Species?, Oct 2009
Bluefin tuna fails to make UN's list of protected fish, March 2010
Endangered-Species Status Is Sought for Bluefin Tuna, June 2010
BlueFin Tuna are now an Endangered Species, August 2010
Bluefin Tuna Endangered by Overfishing, Dec 2010
Bluefin tuna in crisis in WWF
severity of decline and its causes
Northern Bluefin Tuna
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
What is love?
Is It Time to Leave Your Job?
New Year's resolution: I quit!, how ironic, the leads are starting to show from you know where...
Is It Time to Leave Your Job?
New Year's resolution: I quit!, how ironic, the leads are starting to show from you know where...
Monday, December 27, 2010
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Happy boxing day!
Did you give money and other gifts to those who were needy and in service positions?
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Friday, December 24, 2010
What is love?
Remembering Worry Over Y2K
How Science and Technology Influence Language
On The Horizon: Liquid Fuels Made By Sunlight
A Politically Correct Christmas? Who Cares!
Modern Japan Hopes Ancient Abacus Aids Academics, fun?!
Elegantly Old School: Nostalgia Books On The Rise
Minimum Wage To Increase In 7 States Next Month, OR, WA?
Why Economists Hate Presents, And How Seventh Graders Solved The Problem
Sperm cells created from female embryo
Sarah Palin's 'sarcas-ka'
Holy Kaw! All the topics that interest us, Comparing Facebook and Twitter
BMW Germany Makes Logo Appear Inside Cinema Audience's Eyelids
It's All About Carbon
U.S. Climate Change Plan Is Idea Rich, Cash Poor
Please think twice before you shop for another gadgets. Transcript; After Dump, What Happens To Electronic Waste?
Obama: Do You Like Me Yet? I love you Mr. President!!!!!!!!
Big-Box Retailers Move To Smaller Stores In Cities, say no WM!
Amazon’s Kindle sales to surpass 8M this year?, Say no to Kindle!
研究：地球生物30億年前暴增
Remembering Worry Over Y2K
How Science and Technology Influence Language
On The Horizon: Liquid Fuels Made By Sunlight
A Politically Correct Christmas? Who Cares!
Modern Japan Hopes Ancient Abacus Aids Academics, fun?!
Elegantly Old School: Nostalgia Books On The Rise
Minimum Wage To Increase In 7 States Next Month, OR, WA?
Why Economists Hate Presents, And How Seventh Graders Solved The Problem
Sperm cells created from female embryo
Sarah Palin's 'sarcas-ka'
Holy Kaw! All the topics that interest us, Comparing Facebook and Twitter
BMW Germany Makes Logo Appear Inside Cinema Audience's Eyelids
It's All About Carbon
U.S. Climate Change Plan Is Idea Rich, Cash Poor
Please think twice before you shop for another gadgets. Transcript; After Dump, What Happens To Electronic Waste?
Obama: Do You Like Me Yet? I love you Mr. President!!!!!!!!
Big-Box Retailers Move To Smaller Stores In Cities, say no WM!
Amazon’s Kindle sales to surpass 8M this year?, Say no to Kindle!
研究：地球生物30億年前暴增
Love hurts....
One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.--- Jane Austin
Thursday, December 23, 2010
What can I do?
捨不得你
回頭再看我的最初
尋尋覓覓活在迷惘
多得你引領我 天天你亦為我
令我找到片段亮光
完全怪我要一試高飛
完全是為著令人生更美
珍惜你愛過你 感激你 念掛你
無奈到最後要分離
過去的絲絲記憶擾困我的心
我卻要掙扎離去
我捨不得你 無奈我要創造未來
共你普普通通的去愛
未夠我獨個精彩
捨不得你 無奈我有我的未來
願你找到心中深刻的愛 永不更改
全心我祝福你
放不低
是你故意欺騙 怪在我太過心軟
你的真話就 等於夢囈 與謊言
無奈你說得太自然 令我聽了也能熱暖
甜言蜜語 原來又一次食言
是你對我改變 你別說世界轉變
解釋得混亂 千絲萬段 太多糾纏
誰沒興緻守這諾言
但卻對我再全心詐騙
胡言亂語 任你講足半天
為何永遠放不低 為何錯愛這一位
但求仍然維繫 不惜一切 我為你執迷
為何永遠放不低 任情愛控制身體
任誰關心 仍未可把你代替
(是明知的 仍願將心意白費)
回頭再看我的最初
尋尋覓覓活在迷惘
多得你引領我 天天你亦為我
令我找到片段亮光
完全怪我要一試高飛
完全是為著令人生更美
珍惜你愛過你 感激你 念掛你
無奈到最後要分離
過去的絲絲記憶擾困我的心
我卻要掙扎離去
我捨不得你 無奈我要創造未來
共你普普通通的去愛
未夠我獨個精彩
捨不得你 無奈我有我的未來
願你找到心中深刻的愛 永不更改
全心我祝福你
放不低
是你故意欺騙 怪在我太過心軟
你的真話就 等於夢囈 與謊言
無奈你說得太自然 令我聽了也能熱暖
甜言蜜語 原來又一次食言
是你對我改變 你別說世界轉變
解釋得混亂 千絲萬段 太多糾纏
誰沒興緻守這諾言
但卻對我再全心詐騙
胡言亂語 任你講足半天
為何永遠放不低 為何錯愛這一位
但求仍然維繫 不惜一切 我為你執迷
為何永遠放不低 任情愛控制身體
任誰關心 仍未可把你代替
(是明知的 仍願將心意白費)
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Monday, December 20, 2010
Winter Solstice!
Can you see the lunar eclipse?
Can't see anything @ http://www.ustream.tv/channel/nasa-msfc
Can't see anything @ http://www.ustream.tv/channel/nasa-msfc
Yippee... will find it on youtube tomorrow...Nighty night!
Pink Martini on ‘The Tonight Show with Jay Leno’!
再見我的初戀+痛愛+逃避你+誰來愛我+損友+抱抱+想得太遠+習慣失戀+一拍兩散+心淡
痛愛
仍然難禁看著你這個壞人 有什麼的吸引
殘酷至此更讓我想靠近
心知要換個別人還是有人
如同前世欠下你的吻 還怎麼敢怒憤
已習慣親朋好友問我怎會為你等
學會講只因這種狠深得我心
喜歡你讓我下沉 喜歡你讓我哭
能持續獲得糟蹋亦滿足
喜歡你待我薄情 喜歡你為人冷酷
若是你也發現 你也喜歡虧待我
我就讓你永遠痛愛著我
我願讓你愛上我更加多
和諧甜美永沒有天意弄人 有什麼的吸引
誰待我好我就會不過問
偏偏踫著那壞人全部誘人
全球情侶故事也相近 寧願天昏地暗
要為錯的人傷過恨過 方算是勇敢
長世間不喜歡開心喜歡痛心
Eating brains.
We Seem To Be Zombies
For 'Sole Man' In China, One Shoeless Step At A Time, he is making a really bold statement, he will be getting Clark's attention?
The Worst Ideas Of 2010: Ping
China Aims To Move Past 'World's Sweatshop' Rep
The People Who Mattered In 2010, Onion World
100 People I Hate On Facebook I am the many.. hahaha!
Robert Morris: America's Founding Capitalist
Video Games Boost Brain Power, Multitasking Skills, wow Elliot, that really explains it.
The Root: When Biracial Means Black
It's Public Vs. Private In Upcoming Net Neutrality Vote
Facebook Invasion Robs Sense Of Online Security, this is messed up!
Pop Culture Happy Hour: The State Of Comedy And Fascinating Failures
China: What's Going Wrong? This is an interesting article for 1999.
Study: US water has large amounts of likely carcinogen
Abu Dhabi hotel regrets $11M Christmas 'overload'
I Hate Math! (Not After This, You Won't)
Neurotheology: This Is Your Brain On Religion
Why The iPhone Adds $1.9 Billion A Year To Our Trade Deficit With China
New Software Can Help You Manage Your Life
Tainted Food A Common Cause Of Illness
89款炸焗零食含致癌物
廣東商學院研究：港十年內成二流城市
Dress to Impress, UBS Tells Staff; "Light makeup consisting of foundation, mascara and discreet lipstick"...hm... what's else?
Stop Me Before I Facebook Again, anti-social... hahaha...
But Seriously Folks, The Arab World Is A Funny Place
The Charging Conundrum: How To Feed Electric Cars?
Don't Come to Stockholm! Madame Curie's Nobel Scandal.. I am going!
Yahoo Cuts 600 Jobs, right before the holidays???
A Temporary Solution For A New American Worker
19 Unusual Gifts Nobody Wants
Speed-Freak Football
Twitter use strongest among US minority groups - study
China stood up by winner of 'Confucius peace prize'
Define a Social Media Strategy for Enterprise
Fast Fix: The problem with attacking Palin
America's Tallest Christmas Trees, yay, OR is on the list.
Rites of Love and Math
State Department To Columbia University Students: DO NOT Discuss WikiLeaks On Facebook, Twitter
Food Photo Friday: Gaga For Food Fashion
At The White House, It's All Ribbons And Bo
100 Best YouTube Videos for Science Teachers
China's skyscraper boom buoys global industry
Handling Customer Service – The Secrets
Steele on thin ice at helm of Republican Party
Palin attacks media over coverage of North Korea gaffe
For 'Sole Man' In China, One Shoeless Step At A Time, he is making a really bold statement, he will be getting Clark's attention?
The Worst Ideas Of 2010: Ping
China Aims To Move Past 'World's Sweatshop' Rep
The People Who Mattered In 2010, Onion World
100 People I Hate On Facebook I am the many.. hahaha!
Robert Morris: America's Founding Capitalist
Video Games Boost Brain Power, Multitasking Skills, wow Elliot, that really explains it.
The Root: When Biracial Means Black
It's Public Vs. Private In Upcoming Net Neutrality Vote
Facebook Invasion Robs Sense Of Online Security, this is messed up!
Pop Culture Happy Hour: The State Of Comedy And Fascinating Failures
China: What's Going Wrong? This is an interesting article for 1999.
Study: US water has large amounts of likely carcinogen
Abu Dhabi hotel regrets $11M Christmas 'overload'
I Hate Math! (Not After This, You Won't)
Neurotheology: This Is Your Brain On Religion
Why The iPhone Adds $1.9 Billion A Year To Our Trade Deficit With China
New Software Can Help You Manage Your Life
Tainted Food A Common Cause Of Illness
89款炸焗零食含致癌物
廣東商學院研究：港十年內成二流城市
Dress to Impress, UBS Tells Staff; "Light makeup consisting of foundation, mascara and discreet lipstick"...hm... what's else?
Stop Me Before I Facebook Again, anti-social... hahaha...
But Seriously Folks, The Arab World Is A Funny Place
The Charging Conundrum: How To Feed Electric Cars?
Don't Come to Stockholm! Madame Curie's Nobel Scandal.. I am going!
Yahoo Cuts 600 Jobs, right before the holidays???
A Temporary Solution For A New American Worker
19 Unusual Gifts Nobody Wants
Speed-Freak Football
Twitter use strongest among US minority groups - study
China stood up by winner of 'Confucius peace prize'
Define a Social Media Strategy for Enterprise
Fast Fix: The problem with attacking Palin
America's Tallest Christmas Trees, yay, OR is on the list.
Rites of Love and Math
State Department To Columbia University Students: DO NOT Discuss WikiLeaks On Facebook, Twitter
Food Photo Friday: Gaga For Food Fashion
At The White House, It's All Ribbons And Bo
100 Best YouTube Videos for Science Teachers
China's skyscraper boom buoys global industry
Handling Customer Service – The Secrets
Steele on thin ice at helm of Republican Party
Palin attacks media over coverage of North Korea gaffe
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Saturday, December 18, 2010
愛，像覆水難收
真正的愛，超越生命的長度、心靈的寬度、靈魂的湛深度;
愛的力量大到可以使人忘記一切，卻又小到連一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容納;
快樂要懂得分亨，才能加倍的快樂;
要糾正別人之前，先反省自己有沒有犯錯。
愛的力量大到可以使人忘記一切，卻又小到連一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容納;
快樂要懂得分亨，才能加倍的快樂;
要糾正別人之前，先反省自己有沒有犯錯。
Friday, December 17, 2010
A glute machine
Trainer: I got you a christmas present.
Me: Really?
Trainer: It is this " fun " glute machine.
Me: Where is the "fun"?
Trainer: it was a special gift.
Me: Can I return it for something else?
Trainer: oh too bad, there is no return or refund.
Me: LOL, oh I love it, so I can put in the middle of living room.
Trainer: That's right, you can work on your glute "all" the time.
Me: Yeah, that's is "all" I need.
Me: Really?
Trainer: It is this " fun " glute machine.
Me: Where is the "fun"?
Trainer: it was a special gift.
Me: Can I return it for something else?
Trainer: oh too bad, there is no return or refund.
Me: LOL, oh I love it, so I can put in the middle of living room.
Trainer: That's right, you can work on your glute "all" the time.
Me: Yeah, that's is "all" I need.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Perfect timing!
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
忍
大度忍讓
人之相處，以和為貴，以忍為高。忍也者，胸中博宏之器局，洞明世事人情之泱泱大度，閱盡人間滄桑之圓活表現，有 如明月入懷，心胸開闊明朗，既隱含著禮讓、包容、寬恕之高逸情操，復閃爍著深厚卓越之智慧、涵養、定力。
忍之為義，大矣：「貧者能忍免辱，富者能忍保家，父子能忍慈孝，兄弟能忍義篤，朋友能 忍情長，夫婦能忍和睦。」其奧義又或如俗諺所云：「忍字可以走天下，忍字可以結近鄰。」又或 者：「能忍一時之氣，可免百日之憂。能忍人所不能忍，世間一片祥和，宇宙一片清靜。」誠然， 生活中，誤會、爭執、齟齬、挑釁、誣衊、詆毀、謾罵、欺侮、咒詛、刁難、中傷、誹謗之事，真 是無日無之，但卻又在所難免，偶一遇上，亦唯其能忍始能免吵、息爭、消怨、去恨，化干戈為玉 帛。是以，古之智者，無不視忍為大智、大勇、大福之行為，並常將之比作修身、立命、成事、生 財之津梁，譬如孔子所言之「小不忍，則亂大謀」，周成王之「必有忍，其乃有濟；有容，德乃大」，王安石之「莫大之禍， 起於斯須之不忍」，又或佛家之「六度萬行，忍為第一」，斯所言者，俱是讓之道理，忍之法則，言簡意賅，發人深省。
現今社會，日趨複雜，人之交往，亦唯有學會忍讓，始能避禍就福，旋轉乾坤，捷徑就莫如吸取前人之智慧。中華民族
向以堅忍刻苦見稱，文化風氣所及，忍學典籍也特別豐富，簡明精要教材，俯拾即是。當中，有《勸忍百箴》最為人所樂道。 該書成於元代，以勸人忍性盡禮為話題，匯集了諸子百家之卓見，再加上作者許名奎之親身體會，編成箴言百條，分為言之 忍、色之忍、氣之忍、權之忍、貧之忍等，涵蓋了差不多生活上每一層面，被譽為中國最有系統之忍學經書。我等只須一書 在手，便可盡收前人智慧；神功妙用，說之不盡。有論者甚至言之鑿鑿，謂只消熟讀此書，便可頤養天年！事實是否果真如 此，還恕我未夠資格致評。不過，如果話作者心思慎密，手法巧妙，那我就一定贊同：作者以百忍為數，《百箴》為名，表 面看似湊巧，實則應是有所託寓───古諺“百忍成金”之說，不是已然呼之欲出？另外，作者將言之忍列為百忍之首，也 有異曲同工之妙，同樣是挖空心思之作。須知道，禍從口出，言多招悔，處世待人之第一戒條，正是慎言檢跡。作者之苦心 孤詣，我等真是不可不察。
紛爭之起，錯綜複雜，可謂無奇不有：有私人恩怨，有個人信念，有團體利益，有民族大義，還有社會風氣。我輩年幼
時，社會遠較現時貧困，但卻普遍崇尚堅忍、刻苦，所以我自小就要學習忍耐、吃苦、乃至吃虧（吃虧也是一種美德）。久而 久之，積習成常，忍讓差不多變成了我的恆常習慣。無論別人如何無禮，行為何等荒誕，我都能一笑置之。說來也好笑，有 很多人曾為此而替我感覺委屈，但我反而深感慶幸，能養成這份能耐。自忖，過去我所以能在做事和交友上受益無窮，其實 全賴忍讓所發揮之作用。隨著西風東漸，但見社會上之忍讓文化日漸式微，代之而起的是講求競爭及個人權利文化。忍讓， 或當作懦弱，或看成迂腐，一旦橫逆相加，便不論情理，即大動剛陽，但圖洩一時之忿；小則構怨于一時，大則貽害於終身。 人結果因此而缺少了寬待他人、為他人著想的心，越來越自我，常處於不滿和怪責別人的情緒中。最遺憾的是，高談個人權 益之餘，卻又不懂得以別人之權利為依歸，導致矛盾頻生。於是，生活中，無論是在家庭中，學校裡，社會上，無時不見衝 突發生。同事間、朋友間、夫妻間、鄰裏間，總會為了芝麻綠豆般的瑣事，爭個不休，小則惡言相向，大則拳腳交加，甚至 訴諸法庭，最後弄至兩敗俱傷。正是旁觀者惋惜，當事人後悔。不忍之患，可勝言哉？
凡事各執一詞，互不相讓，便會常陷僵局，如稍作轉圜，反而生機無限。忍讓精神，便是講乎體諒、包容、寬恕，求乎轉圜、生機。歷來相傳，有六字真言，可作轉圜，只要誠心運用，便能應付橫逆，扭轉乾坤。這六字真言就是：裝、忍、讓、 諒、恕、忘。意謂，當有人來犯時，只消裝作若無其事，不動聲色，忍以應之，繼而讓其發洩，但又諒其處境，再恕以待之， 然後忘卻了事。很明顯，這種息爭免吵的方法首重寬恕，其次是忘卻。學會寬恕別人，其實就是釋放自己。恕心養到極處， 人便恬然自安，只看得世間人都無過犯可憎之處，一切擾攘，不外天上雲煙，但隨清風而幻化幻滅。
事物之美，在其拙樸；朋友之誼，在於誠信；相處之道，貴乎和諧；和諧之道，本乎忍讓。此乃千古不變之定律，人之
未察，蓋因未嘗賦予生活一點智慧。
論忍
忍的境界
人之相處，以和為貴，以忍為高。忍也者，胸中博宏之器局，洞明世事人情之泱泱大度，閱盡人間滄桑之圓活表現，有 如明月入懷，心胸開闊明朗，既隱含著禮讓、包容、寬恕之高逸情操，復閃爍著深厚卓越之智慧、涵養、定力。
忍之為義，大矣：「貧者能忍免辱，富者能忍保家，父子能忍慈孝，兄弟能忍義篤，朋友能 忍情長，夫婦能忍和睦。」其奧義又或如俗諺所云：「忍字可以走天下，忍字可以結近鄰。」又或 者：「能忍一時之氣，可免百日之憂。能忍人所不能忍，世間一片祥和，宇宙一片清靜。」誠然， 生活中，誤會、爭執、齟齬、挑釁、誣衊、詆毀、謾罵、欺侮、咒詛、刁難、中傷、誹謗之事，真 是無日無之，但卻又在所難免，偶一遇上，亦唯其能忍始能免吵、息爭、消怨、去恨，化干戈為玉 帛。是以，古之智者，無不視忍為大智、大勇、大福之行為，並常將之比作修身、立命、成事、生 財之津梁，譬如孔子所言之「小不忍，則亂大謀」，周成王之「必有忍，其乃有濟；有容，德乃大」，王安石之「莫大之禍， 起於斯須之不忍」，又或佛家之「六度萬行，忍為第一」，斯所言者，俱是讓之道理，忍之法則，言簡意賅，發人深省。
現今社會，日趨複雜，人之交往，亦唯有學會忍讓，始能避禍就福，旋轉乾坤，捷徑就莫如吸取前人之智慧。中華民族
向以堅忍刻苦見稱，文化風氣所及，忍學典籍也特別豐富，簡明精要教材，俯拾即是。當中，有《勸忍百箴》最為人所樂道。 該書成於元代，以勸人忍性盡禮為話題，匯集了諸子百家之卓見，再加上作者許名奎之親身體會，編成箴言百條，分為言之 忍、色之忍、氣之忍、權之忍、貧之忍等，涵蓋了差不多生活上每一層面，被譽為中國最有系統之忍學經書。我等只須一書 在手，便可盡收前人智慧；神功妙用，說之不盡。有論者甚至言之鑿鑿，謂只消熟讀此書，便可頤養天年！事實是否果真如 此，還恕我未夠資格致評。不過，如果話作者心思慎密，手法巧妙，那我就一定贊同：作者以百忍為數，《百箴》為名，表 面看似湊巧，實則應是有所託寓───古諺“百忍成金”之說，不是已然呼之欲出？另外，作者將言之忍列為百忍之首，也 有異曲同工之妙，同樣是挖空心思之作。須知道，禍從口出，言多招悔，處世待人之第一戒條，正是慎言檢跡。作者之苦心 孤詣，我等真是不可不察。
紛爭之起，錯綜複雜，可謂無奇不有：有私人恩怨，有個人信念，有團體利益，有民族大義，還有社會風氣。我輩年幼
時，社會遠較現時貧困，但卻普遍崇尚堅忍、刻苦，所以我自小就要學習忍耐、吃苦、乃至吃虧（吃虧也是一種美德）。久而 久之，積習成常，忍讓差不多變成了我的恆常習慣。無論別人如何無禮，行為何等荒誕，我都能一笑置之。說來也好笑，有 很多人曾為此而替我感覺委屈，但我反而深感慶幸，能養成這份能耐。自忖，過去我所以能在做事和交友上受益無窮，其實 全賴忍讓所發揮之作用。隨著西風東漸，但見社會上之忍讓文化日漸式微，代之而起的是講求競爭及個人權利文化。忍讓， 或當作懦弱，或看成迂腐，一旦橫逆相加，便不論情理，即大動剛陽，但圖洩一時之忿；小則構怨于一時，大則貽害於終身。 人結果因此而缺少了寬待他人、為他人著想的心，越來越自我，常處於不滿和怪責別人的情緒中。最遺憾的是，高談個人權 益之餘，卻又不懂得以別人之權利為依歸，導致矛盾頻生。於是，生活中，無論是在家庭中，學校裡，社會上，無時不見衝 突發生。同事間、朋友間、夫妻間、鄰裏間，總會為了芝麻綠豆般的瑣事，爭個不休，小則惡言相向，大則拳腳交加，甚至 訴諸法庭，最後弄至兩敗俱傷。正是旁觀者惋惜，當事人後悔。不忍之患，可勝言哉？
凡事各執一詞，互不相讓，便會常陷僵局，如稍作轉圜，反而生機無限。忍讓精神，便是講乎體諒、包容、寬恕，求乎轉圜、生機。歷來相傳，有六字真言，可作轉圜，只要誠心運用，便能應付橫逆，扭轉乾坤。這六字真言就是：裝、忍、讓、 諒、恕、忘。意謂，當有人來犯時，只消裝作若無其事，不動聲色，忍以應之，繼而讓其發洩，但又諒其處境，再恕以待之， 然後忘卻了事。很明顯，這種息爭免吵的方法首重寬恕，其次是忘卻。學會寬恕別人，其實就是釋放自己。恕心養到極處， 人便恬然自安，只看得世間人都無過犯可憎之處，一切擾攘，不外天上雲煙，但隨清風而幻化幻滅。
事物之美，在其拙樸；朋友之誼，在於誠信；相處之道，貴乎和諧；和諧之道，本乎忍讓。此乃千古不變之定律，人之
未察，蓋因未嘗賦予生活一點智慧。
論忍
忍的境界
Monday, December 13, 2010
BS
"I have worked with him for many years, he can drive a guy to drink, hang in there and you can talk to me... "
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Friday, December 10, 2010
Thursday, December 09, 2010
殘酷遊戲
誰能用毅力便換來感情 誰憑施捨可保得住慘勝
你有多大量 亦未敢領我的情
但就算是惡夢 拒絕甦醒
如何用玩命 換來溫柔
如何比她好 一樣不夠
談情像奮鬥 共誰在鬥
沒人道別亦知一早要走
其實自命受苦都只因我能離不離
看著對你愛得彷似愛情又避不避
若能耗盡力氣 去捕捉你
亦能剩下自己可挽救自己
我也知越是幻想不准想你更記得起
我在故意去將苦澀替代寂寞滋味
用殘酷遊戲 製造卑微
自由自在莫非慘過永遠受氣
對你怎麼好 亦無所圖 同情分多少 都也得到
明明避過你 未憑命數 明明極易活得比死更好
我也知越是幻想不准想你更記得起
我在故意去將苦澀替代寂寞滋味
用殘酷遊戲 製造卑微
自由自在莫非慘過永遠自欺
我也知道遠處有人愛惜我 也知做人無求最好不過
我肯知錯也是錯 我想知道也做到
埋頭事業便令大家好過
其實自命受苦都只因我能離不離
看著對你愛得彷似愛情又避不避
若能耗盡力氣 去捕捉你
亦明如何才可釋放我傷悲
若然被嫌棄 也是天理
自憐自虐自討苦吃貴客自理
你有多大量 亦未敢領我的情
但就算是惡夢 拒絕甦醒
如何用玩命 換來溫柔
如何比她好 一樣不夠
談情像奮鬥 共誰在鬥
沒人道別亦知一早要走
其實自命受苦都只因我能離不離
看著對你愛得彷似愛情又避不避
若能耗盡力氣 去捕捉你
亦能剩下自己可挽救自己
我也知越是幻想不准想你更記得起
我在故意去將苦澀替代寂寞滋味
用殘酷遊戲 製造卑微
自由自在莫非慘過永遠受氣
對你怎麼好 亦無所圖 同情分多少 都也得到
明明避過你 未憑命數 明明極易活得比死更好
我也知越是幻想不准想你更記得起
我在故意去將苦澀替代寂寞滋味
用殘酷遊戲 製造卑微
自由自在莫非慘過永遠自欺
我也知道遠處有人愛惜我 也知做人無求最好不過
我肯知錯也是錯 我想知道也做到
埋頭事業便令大家好過
其實自命受苦都只因我能離不離
看著對你愛得彷似愛情又避不避
若能耗盡力氣 去捕捉你
亦明如何才可釋放我傷悲
若然被嫌棄 也是天理
自憐自虐自討苦吃貴客自理
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Sunday, December 05, 2010
Saturday, December 04, 2010
Friday, December 03, 2010
Thursday, December 02, 2010
Wednesday, December 01, 2010
Trial
with a NO attitude sucks! I know it, I will be the roasted beaver again for this new grade tomorrow.
Are they happy to see me?
So they said. November was a rough month... was it preventable? Hard to say.
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