A GENTLEMAN
who’s enamored with
a particular woman
and interested in
exploring deeper intimacy,
whether it be
long-term partnership,
short-term sexy play
or something in between,
no matter how strong
his desire or excitement,
NEVER rushes or forces things.
Nor does he EVER blindside her with
a completely out of context,
totally un-asked-for
and almost-certainly undesired
picture of his penis,
a.k.a. a “dick pic.”
To a gentleman this is
completely unfathomable.
Not to mention an
incredibly unintelligent strategy.
A gentleman understands
that no woman’s world
revolves around his desires,
his boundaries, his timing,
his feelings, or his pace.
A gentleman understands
that relating with any human,
especially a woman
he wants to engage with
in a non-platonic way
and doesn’t know well,
is an ephemeral, mystery-filled dance
with a rhythm, timing and
intelligence of its own.
A gentleman understands
that curiosity, intrigue, mystery
and the patient and playful building
of desire, longing, polarity and tension
are incredibly potent aphrodisiacs
that can open profound portals of
pleasure, play, connection and satisfaction.
A gentleman understands
that the more a woman feels
safe, seen, respected, understood,
attuned-to and healthily-wanted
and her biology, psychology
and heart are onboard
the more she will
TRULY open up
and share the most
beautiful and delicious
parts of herself.
IF and WHEN it’s
in her pleasure and truth.
That being said,
a gentleman acknowledges
and honors his desire,
while dropping agendas
and attachment
to specific outcomes
and proceeds in a way that
also honors the woman he desires
and the natural unfolding of things.
A gentleman listens TO
and WITH his entire body.
and is totally okay with
yeses, no’s and maybes
A gentlemen knows that,
at the end of day,
it’s always better for
the woman he desires to
DISCOVER
how amazing, beautiful and
potently pleasure-giving
his penis is.
Or, gulp, God forbid,
isn’t for her.
IF and WHEN
the time is right.
And if the time isn’t
going to be right because
things aren't a match,
a gentleman lets it go
with kindness and love.
Because that’s just
what a gentleman does.
At the end of the day,
there are two occasions
when a “dick pic” is okay:
One is when there’s
a clean, clear invitation
and a sexy back and forth.
And the other is when
it’s drawn with crayons
on construction paper.
After all, little boys
love mommy’s approval
and when she hangs
their artwork on the fridge.
Because, creepily enough,
that’s kinda what sending
a random dick pic is like.
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