Let’s get clear on what forgiveness is.
1. Forgiveness is about the past and only about the past.
2. Forgiveness is letting go of resentment towards a person or event. To forgive is just to accept that what happened has happened and cannot be changed, ever. It’s past, it’s gone. And to stop giving your attention, anger, and power to it (once you have processed and healed).
That’s it.
That's it.- Doe Zantamata

Most people think forgiveness means to erase an event from memory and go on with life as it was before. That's not forgiveness, that's willful denial, and can be the cause of getting stuck in some awful places. - Doe Zantamata