Your vibe attracts your tribe?

"Your vibe attracts your tribe." Sounds food, right? But its not always true, because sometimes your vibe also attracts sociopaths, lite-dimmers and border-crossers that come to steal your light. If you needed that lesson, then I suppose its okay to call them part of your tribe, but if you didn't, then its fair to say that your vibe also attracted an abuser. I have known many who bought into this bouncy 'new cage' quote and let the wrong people through the door. Perhaps a grounded re-frame would serve us.. " Sometimes, your vibe attracts that which doesn't serve you. And sometimes your vibe has nothin to do with any of it. Sometimes, a predator walked in your direction just because (s)he wanted to." - Jeff Brown