Wednesday, June 30, 2021

We have more possibilities available in each moment than we realize. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Go back and take care of yourself. Your body needs you, your feelings need you, your perceptions need you. Your suffering needs you to acknowlodge it. Go home and be there for all theses things. - Thich Nhat Hanh

”Suffering is due entirely to clinging or resisting; it is a sign of our unwillingness to move on, to flow with life.” - Nisargadatta Maharaj

Simply rest in the felt sense of being. Don't think about it, do it. That is the key. Grasp at nothing, push nothing away. Simpy rest in the felt sense of being. Practice it every day. - Adyashanti

When you think everything is someone else's fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy. - Dalai Lama

Adversity is unavoidable. Suffering is not. - unknown

To be authentic is to be at peace with your imperfections. - Simon Sinek

The more in harmony you are wiht the flow of your own existence, the more magical life becomes. - unknown

Someone I loved once game me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
"Courage, compassion, and connection: Through Brené's research, observations, and guidance, these three little words can open the door to amazing change in your life." ~ Ali Edwards, author of Life Artist

People may call what happens at midlfe " a crisis ", but it's not. It's an unraveling, a time when you feel a desperate pull to live the life you want to live, not the one you're supposed to life. - Brene Brown
Resilience is knowing that you are the only one that has the power and the responsibility to pick yourself up. - Mary Holloway

If you suffer it is because of you, if you feel blissful it is becasue of you. Nobody else is responsible, only you and you alone. You are your hell nad your heaven too. - OSHO

Behavior is at the end of the story. Unsolved problems ( and lagging skills ) are at the beginning of the story. Work on the beginning to change the end. - Dr. Ross Greene

Love is a verb. - unknown

If we remembered everyday day that we could lose someone at any moment, we would love them more fiercely and freely and without fear. Not because there is nothing to lose, but because everything can be lost. - unknown

There is a calmness to a life lived in gratitude a quiet joy. - Ralph H. Blum

So gratefyl for the people who heard me when I was silent and saw me when I was invisible. - Steve Maraboli

The moment you understand the importance of loving yourself, you still stop hurting others. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Joy is the evidence of inner growth. - Maria Montessori

If I want to be loved as I am , I have to be willing to love others as they are. - Louise Hay

When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you'd like them to be. - Leo Tolstoy

Wear gratitude like a cloak, and it will feed every corner of your life. - Rumi

Giving thanks for abundance is greater than abundance itself. - Rumi

Gratitude is a n essential part of being present. When you go deeply into the present, gratitude arises spontaneousl. - Eckhart Tolle
Listen with the inten to understand rather than the intent to reply. - unknown

The greatest thing we can do is to help somebody know that they're loved and capable of loving. - Fred Rogers

Be empty. Be Still. Just watch everything come and go. This is the way of Nature. - Lao Zi

Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset. - unknown

Be that person who roots for others. Who tells a stranger they look amazing and encourages others to believe in themselves and their dreams.- unknown
"Sometimes people say that a child’s experience at school is like an adult’s at work, but that is a delusion. A job might sometimes feel like prison, to some adults, but school is a prison. Adults are not forced by law to work at a particular job, and adults are always free to quit. Involuntary servitude is illegal for adults; it’s called slavery. I don’t know of any adults who would willingly accept a job where they are so tightly micromanaged as children are at school; a job where you can’t talk with your co-workers, can’t leave your seat without permission, and are continuously monitored, tested, and compared with your co-workers in a manner almost deliberately designed to shame. More than a century ago we banned full-time child labor for children, believing it was not good for them. But now schooling has become, in time commitment, the equivalent of a full-time job and, in onerousness, something worse than the kind of full-time job that adults would tolerate." - Peter Gray
I am slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything, it won't amke people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds. Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, do't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're comign from. I am slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what' s happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace. - unknown
When one teaches, two learn. - Robert Heinlein
Spend your time on those that love you uncoditionally. Don't waste it on those that only love you when the conditions are right for them. - unknown

Be strong enough to let go and patient enough to wait for what you deserve. - unknown
They fear love because it creates a world they can't control. - George Orwell, 1984

Warren.. it has been a week...

I promise you can still make a beautiful life for yourself even if you lost many years of it to abuse, mental illness, or trauma. - unknown

Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path. Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem from a lost soul. Pray that they will find guidance. - Elder Wisdom

The people you meet are either reflections of a repeated cycle or guides towards a new start. Norice the difference. - unknown
The most beautiful things in life are not things. They are people and places, memories and pictures. They are feelings and moments and smiles and laughter. - unknown

Stop the glorification of busy. Busy, in and of itself, is not a badge of honor. It is okay to not be busy. Repeat this with me: It is okay to not be busy. - Joshua Becker
There may be times when we are powerless ot prevent injustice, but there must never be a time when we fail to protest. - Elie Wiesel
I wonder how many people I've looked at all my life, and never seen. - John Steinbeck

I don't think anyone is ever ready, but when someone makes you feel alive again, it's kind of worth the risk. - Nikki Rowe

Israeli gov't and settlers reach deal over West Bank outpost, Palestinians angered
Israel asks U.S. to hold off on reopening Jerusalem consulate
Hezbollah leader, Hamas chief discuss recent Gaza fighting
Inaugurating embassy in UAE, Israel tells region: 'We're here to stay'
Hamas wins Palestinian hearts as Gaza conflict threatens broader shift
Israeli ambassador to United States resigns
Israel's new government will make Middle East affairs a lot easier for Joe Biden
Israel Is Sending Robots With Machine Guns to the Gaza Border
Gaza Wants To Rebuild, But Ensuring Funds Don't Go To Hamas Is Slowing The Process
Sudan's civilian leaders ask U.S. for help talking to Israel
Gaza ceasefire under strain as Israel and Hamas feud over rebuilding
U.S. seizes Iranian news sites under unclear circumstances
Israel's prime minister urges world leaders to shun Iran's new president
New Israeli PM cautions world powers to "wake up" on Iran deal
How 'constructive ambiguity' has failed Israelis and Palestinians
It wasn't just politics that led to Netanyahu's ouster – it was fear of his demagoguery
Netanyahu is squatting in Israel's prime minster's residence, and it's not clear when he's moving out
Israel Hits Hamas Targets With The 1st Airstrikes Since Cease-Fire Deal
Israeli aircraft carry out series of airstrikes on militant sites in the Gaza Strip
Israel responds to "arson balloons" with airstrikes on Gaza
Israeli airstrikes target Gaza sites, first since cease-fire
Israeli airstrikes target Gaza
The toll of Israeli strikes on Gaza: Mapping the destruction left behind
Property disputes in Israel come with a complicated back story – and tend to end with Palestinian dispossession

healing..

You don't heal by suppressing. You heal by feeling, facing and releaseing it. - unknown

Please don't settle

Not in a job you hate, not in a town where you dont' feel at home, not with freindships that aren't real, and especially, especially not with love. - Marisa Donnelly
I don't think anyone can grow unless he's loved exactly as he is now, appreciated for what he is rather than what he will be. - Fred Rogers
Either we spend time meeting children's emotional needs by filling their cup with love, or we spend time dealing with behavirous caused from their unmet needs, either way, we spend the time. - Pam Leo
I am grateful for the chance that life offers me each day to start over, and create the life that I want. I am grateful for the fact that I can learn from my mistakes, and then let them go. I am grateful that the universe supports me with unconditional love, to be the happiest, best person that I can be. - unknown
If it's out of your hands, it deserves freedom from your mind too. - Ivan Nuru

The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjustst the sails. - William A. Ward

Inner peace is not about being happy all the time. It's about welcoming and letting go without judgement. - unknown
Biden's Bipartisan Infrastructure Deal May Be A Tough Sell To The Rest Of Congress
As Infrastructure Deal Gathers Steam, Democratic Cracks Begin to Show
Dems prepare for messy budget fight that could derail Biden's infrastructure deal
'We Have A Deal': Biden Announces A Bipartisan Infrastructure Agreement With Senators
Senate’s bipartisan infrastructure deal nears its big reveal
Graham to Biden: 'If you want an infrastructure deal of a trillion dollars, it's there for the taking'
What the bipartisan breakthrough on infrastructure could mean
Democrats pursue "two tracks" on infrastructure legislation
Republicans plot an infrastructure 2-step: Spend more, then kill Biden’s agenda
Republican senators claim “tentative” bipartisan infrastructure deal
Bipartisan group of senators reaches agreement on infrastructure proposal
Biden Ends Infrastructure Talks With Senate GOP Group, Saying Its Plan Fell Short
Biden talks reconciliation with Schumer as infrastructure negotiations falter
White House infrastructure talks with Capito collapse, leading to fingerpointing as Biden shifts strategy
Republican senators praising Biden on infrastructure talks may have ulterior motives
Biden And Sen. Capito Try Again To Bridge Their Infrastructure Divide
With A Friend In Biden, Amtrak Has Big Dreams. But Freight Lines Have Other Ideas
No Deal Out Of Infrastructure Meeting, But Biden Says The Effort Is There
How The White House Is Reaching Out To Congress As It Seeks A Deal On Infrastructure
Biden's 'Big 4' Meeting: President Meets Top Congressional Leaders
Biden Seeks $80 Billion to Beef Up I.R.S. Audits of High-Earners
Biden pushes 17 years of free school, asks companies and wealthy to pay 'fair share'
Senate votes to open floodgates, passes bipartisan $35 billion water infrastructure bill
Many Republican voters agree with Biden - 'trickle-down economics' has failed, poll shows
Biden Unveils American Families Plan, Which Would Establish Paid Leave Program
White House Proposes $1.8 Trillion Plan For Children And Families
Democrats Outline 'Care Infrastructure' Plan, With Paid Leave And Child Care
The best teachers are those who show you where to look, but don't tell you what to see. - Alexandra K. Trenfor
A human being could only be saved by another human being. I am aware that we do not save each other very often. But I am also aware that we save each other some of the time. - Jamse Baldwin
Why it's unlikely another extreme heat wave will hit Portland this summer
As Portland Heat Hits 116 Degrees, Road Buckles in Kenton Neighborhood
TriMet suspends MAX, streetcar service until Tuesday due to extreme heat
It’s the climate change, stupid
Record Heat Wave Set To Scorch Pacific Northwest To Southern California
PHOTOS: The Record-Breaking Heat Wave That's Scorching The Pacific Northwest
Rolling blackouts for parts of US Northwest amid heat wave
More than 300 PGE customers without power amid heatwave
The Northwest heat wave is 'unprecedented.' Here's what's pushing it into uncharted territory.
Pavement on I-5 buckles in extreme Seattle heat
Oregon Roads Buckle as Record-Breaking Temperatures Descend on State During Heat Wave
The Pacific Northwest Has Limited A/C, Making The Heat Wave More Dangerous
All-Time Records Fall As A Heat Wave Roasts The Northwest U.S.
Not Just Wildfire: The Growing Ripple Effects Of More Extreme Heat And Drought
How To Stay Safe And Cool In Extreme Heat
New Wildfires Are At A 10-Year High In The Hot, Dry Western U.S.
The Record Temperatures Enveloping The West Are Not Your Average Heat Wave
Extreme heat bakes West, toppling long-standing records
US Rep. Cliff Bentz says federal government must find solutions to Klamath water crisis
The West is the driest it's been in 1,200 years — raising questions about a livable future
The Drought In The Western U.S. Is Getting Bad. Climate Change Is Making It Worse
Irrigators say they plan to force open Klamath headgates and release water
Melting Snow Usually Means Water For The West. But This Year, It Might Not Be Enough
Western States Face Excessive Heat Warnings and Advisories
Though difficulties seem to come one after another, they add depth to our lives. - unknown

Often when you think you're at the end of something, you're at the beginning of something else. - Fred Rogers

To wear out your brain trying to make things into one without realizing that they are all the same - this is called "three in the morning." What do I mean by "three in the morning"? When the monkey trainer was handing out acorns, he said, "You get three in the morning and four at night." This made all the monkeys furious. "Well, then," he said, "you get four in the morning and three at night." The monkeys were all delighted. There was no change in the reality behind the words, and yet the monkeys responded with joy and anger. Let them, if they want to. So the sage harmonizes with both right and wrong and rests in Heaven the Equalizer. This is called walking two roads. - The Complete Works of Chuang Tzu
Life has taught me I am not always in control. Life is full of experiences, lessons, heartbreak and pain. But, it has also shown me love, beauty, possibility and new beginnings. Embrace it all. It makes us who are, and after every storm comes a clear sky. - unknown

Life will become a lot simpler when you decide to just let people misunderstand you! The hwole world is free to agree with you or disagree with you! - unknown

Power is not controlling other people. Power is controlling yourself. Trying to control other people is the first sign that you are entirely out of control. Controlling others is what weak people think power looks like. - Kalen Dion

Ambivert

I am both: introvert and extrovert.
I like people, but I need to bealone. I'll go out, vibe, and meet new people but it has an expiration, because I have to recharge. If I don't find the valuable alone time I need to recharge I cannot be my highest self. - Sylvester McNutt III
new week.
new energy.
new blessings.
new experiences.
new opportunities. - Love yo self

Don't quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will;
when the road you're truding seems all uphill;
when the funds are low and the debts are high;
And you want to smile but you have to sigh.
When all is pressing you down a bit
Reset if you must, but don't you quit
Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint onthe clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems far.
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit
It is when things go wrong that you must not quit. - JohN Greenleaf Whittier
You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free. - Thich Nhat Hanh
Love is such a deep gratitude, when you are truly in love wiht life, every breathe you take is gratitude. - Bryant McGill

Love is nothing without action.
Trust is nothing without proof.
Sorry is nothing without change. - unknown
" Have patience with all that is unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves, like closed rooms, like books written in a foregin language. - Letters to a Youn Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke

‘What a world you’ve got inside you.’

Sunday, June 27, 2021

The people you meet are either reflections of a repeated cycle or guides towards a new start. Notice the difference. - unknown
The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind. - Caroline Myss

What are you afraid of losing when nothing in the world actually belongs to you. - unknown

The more I read, the more I acquire, the more certain I am that I know nothing. - Voltaire

It's funny how we ourgrow what we once thought we couldn't live without, and then we fall in love with what we didn't even know we wanted. Life keeps leading us on journeys we woudl never go on if it were up to us. Don't be afraid. Have faith. Find the lessons. Trust the journey. - unknown

It's okay if you thouhgt you were over it, but it hits you all over again. It's okay to fall apart even after you thought you had it under control. You are not weak. Healing is messy. There is no timeline for healing. - unknown
I love myself.
The quietest, the simplest, most powerful revolution ever. - ism

The right mindset and believing in one’s self worth grows a person into a beautiful confident being - no matter what anyone thinks of them - unknown

And the dandleion does not stop growing, because it is told is is a weed. the dandelion does not care what others see. It says, " one day, they'll be making wishes upon me. - B. Atkinson

Others liking us is a "bonus", the real prize is us liking ourselves! - Nache M.

When nobody else celeberates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It's not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It's up to you. Envouragement should come from the inside. - unknown

He who blames others has a long way to go on his journey. He who blames himself is halfway there. He who blames no one has arrived. - Chineses Proverb
You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it is better to listen to what it has to say. - Paulo Coehlo, The Alchemist

The 6 rules of the game...

1. Choose purpose over pleasure
2. Acton Alleviates anxiety
3. How you do anything is how you do everything
4. Never negoiate with your inner bitch
5. Don't be allergic to hard work
6. Havng a bad day does not mean you have a bad life - Bedros Keuilian
Some books are toolkits you take up to fix things, from the most practical to the most mysterious, from your house to your heart, or to make things, from cakes to ships. Some books are wings, some books are medicine, bitter but clarifying. - Rebecca Solnit

Let’s let it grow into the transformation at its heart...

It's not about letting it go. It's about letting it in. It's about letting it deep, it's about letting it through. It's about being true to your feelngs. It's about givnng your experiences th attenton they deserve. And thay may take a moment, or it may take years. The trick is not to shame your need to hodl on to what has yet to be resolved. " Let it go ' is the mantra of the self- avoidant, feigning resolution becasue thye lack the courage or the preparedness to face their feelings.Let's not play that game. Let's let things in and though, until they are fully and truly ready to shift. Let's let it grow into the transformation at tis heart. We write our story by fully lving it. Not by letting it go before its time. - Jeff Brown, Heariculations

Our heroes are staring at us in the mirror..

I cannot help but marvel at the human capacity to overcome tremendous suffereing and find a way to go on. It would be one thing if we released all our holding right after the trauma, but that we continue to carry them and still find the faith to believe in a better tomorrow is simply heroic. I think of the shawdow material that takes up space inside many of us, repressed emotions, unsaid words, armored musculature, collective trauma, and then marvel at our capacity to weave optimism, faith and determination into the heart of it. Mindfields and goldmines sitting side by side in the inner valley. Let's stop looking for our heroes " out here." They are staring at us in the mirror. - Jeff Brown, Love it forward

Thursday, June 24, 2021

To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are afraid of, because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions. - Deepak Chopra
Love is the root of everything; love and the lack of it. - Fred Rogers
Ny biggest mistakes in life have all stemmed from giving my powers to someone else, believinh that the love others had to offer was more important than the love I had to give myself. - Oprah Winfrey
Your growth scares the people who don't want to change. - unknown

#lovewins, remember that.

Loving you as how it is, not how it should be.
Continuing my soul journey wiht hope, and love.
I believe.
I am enough.
I am magicial.

What a lovely message to a giant, Kirk A.

Happy birthday in the astral plain-I hope the angelic choirs are rockin’ with you. – I never met you in real life but I remember talking to you on the phone seeing if you were available for a retreat at Foothill College when I lived up in the Bay Area.
You were so kind and had a gentle presence. I remember messaging you during your diagnosis. You had that je ne se quoi. I related to many of your interests and belief systems.
I watched all your videos, post diagnosis and you were truly am inspiration on how to live life in adversity. I hope you realize how much of an inspiration you were to so many.
We never know how much time we will walk the Earth, but you seemed to live it up. I hope you are continuing well on your new journey, inspiring on the other side and perhaps people here as well. I know you truly positively influenced me. I hope you see me writing this from your expanded consciousness brother. Blessings and love to uou in your expanded state, and your beautiful wife and family. I miss you and I didn’t know uou personally. I am happy to all who got to be with you in this plane and experience your gentle soul. Namaste and Blessings. - Miriam L.P.
Lighthouse don't go running all over an island looking for boats to save, they just stand there shining. - Anne Lamott

Inner peace is not about being happy all the time. It's about welcoming and letting go without judgement. - unknown

Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yoursel running with them. - Marcus Aurelius

Wednesday, June 23, 2021

When two givers indulge in a connection; it's magic. It's alchemy. I water you, you water me, we never drain each other, we jsut grow. - unknown

Things money can't buy...

1. Manners
2. Morals
3. Respect
4. Character
5. Common sense
6. Trust
7. Patience
8. Class
9. Integrity
10. Love
You can turn things around.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent. You're not stuck,
You have choices. You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back. - Spiritual Awakenings ॐ
The more healhty relationships a child has, hte more likely he will be to recover from trauma and thrive. Relationships are the agents of change and the most pwoerful therapy is human love. - Bruce Perry

The way kids learn to make good decisions is by making decisions, not by following direction. - Alfie Kohn

If parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children don't have to be slaves of praise. They will have a lifelong way to build and repair their own confidence. - Carol Dweck

We must teach our children to smell the earth, to taste the rain, to rocuh the wind, to see things grow, to hear the sun rise and night fall. To care. - John Cleal

Our lovers act as stand-ins in a staged - managed resurrection where the pilgrim withput faith can die and live again. - Alan Harrington

We live our lives in relationships, without connection, we are wmpty. - Maia Szalavitz and Bruce Perry

Loving anyvody and being loved by anybody is a tremendou danger, a tremendous responsbility. - James Baldwin

Only from the heart, you can touch the sky. - Rumi

Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love. - unknown

When you love someone, the best thing you can offer that person is your presence. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Life is loneliness, yes, there is joy, fullfillment and companionship, bu the loneliness of the soul, in its appalling self- consciousness, is horrible and overpowering. - Sylvia Plath

Love, like strength and courage, is a strange thing; the more we give the more we find we have to give. - Olga Jacoby

People can't, unhappily, invent their mooring posts, their lovers and their friends, anymore than they can invent their parents. Life gives these and also takes them away and the great difficulty is to say yet to life. - James Baldwin

When you are ready for the kind of love that feels like sunshine, come and find me. - Aurora Raine

If you are not obsessed with you life, change it. - unknown

Whenever yur acknowledge a synchronicity, you are strengthening your connection with the divine. - unknown

Our lived lives might become a protracted mouring for, or an endless tantrum about, the lives we were unable to live. But the exemptions we suffer, whether forced or chosen, makes us who we are. - Adam Phillips

We should invert our eyees and practice a sublime astronomy in the infinitude of our heart, if we see the Milky way, it is because it actually exists in our souls. - Leon Bloy

The only thing you ever have is now. - Exkhart Tolle

To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Love is my medicine, intelligent medicine, it takes death and makes it a passageway into greater life. - Rumi

Beloveds, these are exceptional times.
This is a time when we are awakening to the higher truth of who we are.
LOVE.
For many lifetimes and in this life we have been misguided and misled to forget this divine truth.
We are here now and this is the lifetime in which we choose love over fear ! This is what our ancestors made so many sacrifices for.
They gave so much for us to be here and make this choice at this time.
In choosing ourselves we are choosing love.
In letting go of the distorted programming of fear, shame and guilt, we choose love.
Every choice you make that brings you back to YOU is love.
In any given moment we are given the choice to choose love or fear.
Are you ready to receive the love that is here for us?
In letting go of what we are not, we open up to receive what is here for us.
This is the lifetime that we come home to love. - Neveen G.

When the right person hugs you, it's like medicine. I am so grateful for those few people in my life who are good for my soul. - Steve Maraboli

We are born for love to give it, receive it, and be it. - Abertoli

Of all things, love is the most potent. — Dr. Maria Montessori

Spiritual awaking is awaking from the dream of thought. - Eckhart Tolle

You are an image based on your experiences.
This image sees and understands the world from its perspective.
For example, you are not your body. - Eckhart Tolle

To realize that you are not yoru thoughts is when you begin to awaken spiritutally. - Eckhart Tolle
Happiness is a mood.
Positivity is a mindset. - unknown

Tao

You are afraid of surrender
because you don't want
to lose control,
but you never had control,
all you had was anxiety.

And then it happens...

One dau you wake up and you're in this place.
You're in this place where everything feels right.
Your heart is calm.
Your soul is lit.
Your thoughts are positive.
Your vision is clear.
You're at peace, at peace with where you've been, at peace with what you've been through and at peace with whre you're headed. - unknown
So long as the mind believes in the possibility of escape from what it is at this moment, there can be no freedom. - Alan Watts
Art is doing, art deals directly with life. - Ruth Asawa

Only art penetrates, the seeming realisties of this world. There is another realisty, the genuine one, which we lose sight of. theis other reality is always sending us hints, which without art, we can't receive. - Saul Bellow

The first thing to do is start, and the second is to continue. - unknown

Nothing worth having comes earsy. - Theodore Roosevelt

Knowledge is acquired when we succeed in fitting a new experience into the system of concepts based upon our old experiences. Understanding comes when we liberate ourselves from the old and so make possible a direct, unmediated contact with the new, the mystery, moment by moment, of our existence. - Aldous Huxley
Kindness eases change. - Octavia Butler

Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It required no accountability, no understanding. the highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requreis us to suspend our egos and live in another's world. It requires prodfound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding. - Plato

Although the world is full of suffereing, it is full also of the overcoming of it. - Helen keller

Sometimes there is no lesson...

Not all traumas were caused by mistakes tht require a lesson to avoid repeating them. In fact, most serious traumas weren't mistakes on the part of the victim. They weren't events summoned by their unconscious ot their karma to teach them something they need to learn. They were victimizations. They were attacks. So, let's stop telling trauma survivors that they must learn a lesson from their experiences. That's just another form of gaslighting. Sometimes there is no lesson. Sometimes, the most they can do is heal. - Let's support that. - Jeff Brown, Hearticulations.