Thursday, December 31, 2020

Understand me. I'm not an ordinary world. I have my madness, I live in another dimension and I do not have time for things that have no soul. - Charles Bukowski
Be with someone who wants you, not someone who needs you. Want is a choice. Need is an attachment. - Nansia Movidi

There's a big difference between a man that really loves you and wants to build a life with you and a man just stays around so no other man can have you. - unknown

If he is afraid to fully fall in love with you, save your time and love yourself instead. - Michaela Angereer

People can only meet you at the deptn in which they have already met themselves. - unknown
Hold out for that high level love. It’s there. You just keep working on and loving yourself and keeping those standards high. - Navae L.

If we're growing, we're always going to be out of our comfort zone. - John C. Maxwell

Nothing happens until the pain of remaining the same outweights the pain of change. - Arthur Burt

The degree to which we are willing to change is the degree to which we will grow. - unknown

You'll just keep crashing if you never take your eyes off the rearview mirror. - Leo Christopher

If someone gets mad at you for creating a boundary, consider that a good sign that the boudnary was necessary. - unknown

Let go of the idea that you need to tolerate shitty behavior. - S. McNutt

Don't be afraid of the solitude that comes with raising your standards. - unknown

I have traveled through maddness to find me. - Danny Alexander

There is one irrefutable law of the universe: we are each responsible for our own life. - Oprah Winfrey

Each of us, one moment at a time, has the power to bring sight to a world gone blind. - Navae L.

The only way to fail is if you give up. Chase your dreams, have faith, love this moment that you are creating. This is your life! Take a deep breath and enjoy this day. I want you to know you are worthy and capable of all your wildest dreams. - Positive corners

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try one more time. - Thomas Edison

Confidence isn't thinking you're better than everyone else, it's realizing that you have no reason to compare yourself to anyone else. - unknown
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"Love is like infinity. You can't have more or less infinity, and you can't compare two things to see if they're 'equally infinite.' Infinity just is, and that's the way I think love is too." - Mister Rogers
You can't control how other people receive your energy. Anything you do or say gets fitered through the lens of whatever they are going through at the moment. Which is not about you.

Just keep doing your thing, with as much integrity and love as possible. - Nanea Hoffman

「沿途在 修理著熄了的曙光
祝你在亂流下平安
真愛是任何形狀
對付百孔千瘡
誰能望穿我
這種堅壯非堅壯
形勢壞透只好對抗
由我硬撑著 使你心安」
-銀河修理員
You don’t have to apologize for how you feel. If you want to examine where those feelings come from, that’s up to you. But don’t do it because someone shames or guilts you for how you feel. That’s their issue—not yours. We live in a world where how we feel is dismissed, re-framed, and manipulated at every turn. We must stand firmly in the truth of our feelings. Only from this place can we live an authentic life. Only from this place can we glow and grow. - Jeff Brown

You can’t answer all your questions about your path at once. You just can’t. And if you try to, you will end up answering none of them. And more confused then when you began. Because the questions have a certain order to them. They build upon each other. For example, you probably can’t answer the question of your ultimate calling, while you are still confused about how to heal from your trauma. It’s just too hard to see the path in its entirety, when there are still mountains of emotional debris in the way. First things, first. It’s fine to write all your life questions down, but stay with the question that truly matters right now. Stay focused on the stage you are at, before seeking to address the next stage of inquiry. If you do it this way, you will unfold precisely as you should. You will arrive at your own door, right when you are ready to open it. - Jeff Brown

Tuesday, December 29, 2020

康子妮 Lily Hong - 可惜我是水瓶座 (原唱:楊千嬅) 康子妮 Lily Hong - 我只在乎你 康子妮 Lily Hong - 彈奏 等 (原唱:陳百強)
Peace is within oneself to be found in the same place as agitation and suffering. It is not found in a forest or on a hilltop, nor is it given by a teacher. Where you experience suffering, you can also find freedom fromm suffering. Trying to run away from suffering is actually to run toward. - Ajahn Chah

Most people are afraid of suffering. But suffering is a kind of mud to help th elotus flower of happiness grow. There can be no lotus flower without the mid. - Thich Nhat hanh

"Allow nature to teach you stillness." - Eckhart Tolle

A positive finds opportunity in everything. A negative mind finds faults in everything. - unknown

Keep putting put good. It will come back to you tenfold in unexpected ways. - unknown

Don't be surrprised when the past drops by to remind you why it had to be left there in the first place. - unknown

Start by doing what's necessary, then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. - Saint Francis of Assisi

You want things to be different but you keep repeating the same process. - unknown

You were gifted one life. Spend it how you want to spend it, appreciate the littel things, and treat those around you wiht the same love and kindness you want to feel. - unknown
Desire is not love. Love is something much more responsible. It has care in it. - Thich Nhat Hanh
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Recognize that real happiness isn't something large and looming on the horizon ahead but something small and already here. The smile of someone you love. A decent breakfast. The warm sunset. Your little everyday joys all lined up in a row. It's about not taking for granted the blessings you have. It's about being grateful. - unknown
‘’ 愛情是和你一起笑出魚尾紋 和你一起累積數不清的吻 這就是愛情。‘’ -靜茹
From the image people associate “asian” with.
but hand in hand with this stereotype is
a culture of ever-increasing stress, pressure, overwork,
and an intense fear of failure —
a culture people are failing to address.
but we aren’t represented in government.
but when you’re asian and applying for
colleges, jobs, positions,
you’re forced to find ways to “stand out”
and prove yourself to be different
from the stereotype, because apparently,
no one wants that.- Candace Chiang

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Monday, December 28, 2020

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Trump finally signs COVID relief package — but aid to millions will be delayed
House poised to override Trump veto for first time
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Trump Signs COVID-19 Relief Deal After His Criticism Threatened To Derail It
Unemployment Aid Set to Lapse Saturday as Trump’s Plans for Relief Bill Remain Unclear
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'We are struggling': A bleak Christmas for America's jobless
Anger at Congress, Trump mounts among governors
U.S. in Limbo as Trump Remains Mum on Covid-19 Aid Bill
Democrats Try and Fail to Jam $2,000 Stimulus Payments Through House
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Trump's former national security advisor calls his defense-bill veto 'a shameful last act of a failed presidency'
Trump Vetoes Defense Bill With Pelosi Promising Swift Override
House GOP Blocks Democrats' Bid for $2,000 Stimulus Checks
Pelosi Sets New Vote as GOP Foils Move on Trump’s $2,000 Checks
Trump Slams COVID-19 Relief Bill, Asks For Changes After Bitter Negotiations
Trump Demands Changes to Coronavirus Relief Bill, Calling It a ‘Disgrace’
Buried in Pandemic Aid Bill: Billions to Soothe the Richest
Biden, Calling Stimulus Bill a ‘Down Payment,’ Urges More Relief
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Life gets very quiet before all the doors open. I'm learning that what can feel like loneliness is actually grace. Rest. Find your strenght. It will all change soon. - J. Lynn

"Hope is impossible to drown; just when you think it has sunk to the bottom, up it pops in another location." - Margaret Dulaney
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When we resist change, it's called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relex into it's dynamic quality, that's called enlightenment. - Pema Chodron, Living beautifully: with uncertainty and change

The answer to momentum is caring about the way you feel. - unknown

Pay attention to your patterns. The way you learned to survive may not be the way you want to continue to live. Heal and shift. - Dr. Thema Bryant -David

Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer. - Spiritual Awakenings ॐ

When someone does something wrong, don't forget the things they did right. - unknown

Don't be so hard on yourself when you find yourself dwelling on your past and overthinking about all the misfortune you've had. Because sometimes people forget that their past is a pathway. And a pathway is a journey, and a journey takes time, and time is all you have when you feel lsot, so please be patient and kind. Something better is on the way. - r.m. drake

We waste so much energy trying to cover up who we are when beneath every attitude is the want to be loved, and beneath every anger is a wound to be healed and beneath every sadness is the fear that there will not be enough time.
When we hesitate in being direct, we unknowingly slip something on, some added layer of protection that keeps us from feeling the world, and often that thin covering is the beginning of a loneliness which, if not put down, diminishes our chances of joy.
It’s like wearing gloves every time we touch something, and then, forgetting we chose to put them on, we complain that nothing feels quite real. Our challenge each day is not to get dressed to face the world but to unglove ourselves so that the doorknob feels cold and the car handle feels wet and the kiss goodbye feels like the lips of another being, soft and unrepeatable. - Mark Nepo

You get more of whatever you think about. If you focus on problems, guess what pops up, that's right more problems. If you focus on solutions, what pops up, that's right more solutions. This is the game. What thoughts are you feeding your mind? Are you helping yourself or hurting yourself with these thoughts? Now, if you are doing well, flourishing and have peace of mind, this isn't for you. Keep doing what your doing. This practice is for people who aren't feeling their best, always in the same tough situation with different people. There is a way to draw better to you. If we change what we think about, the things we think about change. Meaning we need to stay aware of how we are feeling. Switch up your knee jerk reactions and own your words. This is all possible with a little thought. Think about it. Feed the thoughts you want to grow. See the comments for an illustration. - Positive Corners

Focus more on the people who inspire you then the people who annoy you. - unknown
The idea that you don't have value, because someone else doesn't value you, is one of the cornerstones of the collective shame game. The moment we believe that another determines our value, they have us under lock and key. And the marketing world preys (and prays) on and intensifies our self-hatred, persistently reminding us that we must buy that one more thing in order to have worth.
We wait, sometimes for a lifetime, to finally get the approval we seek. But it seldom comes from those who withheld it. And, even if it does, it doesn't heal the core wound- our inability to value ourselves. This is the core work of most of our lives, to bust through the shame trance and find value in our existence independent of other's opinions. To love she who came into being innocent and true. To love he who wants little more than to find meaning in everyday life.
In the year to come, lets find a little more self-love. Let's take a chunk out of the wall of self-hatred that imprisons our consciousness and obstructs our destiny. It didn't serve our ancestors and it's not serving us. We are meant for so much more... - Jeff Brown

Remember that the relationship you have with yourself affects all the other. - unknown

It’s important to meet people where they are, not where we want them to be. There is a tendency, in many, to re-characterize people’s experiences without being asked. You tell them you are feeling badly, they tell you all the reasons you should feel good. You tell them you are challenged by your circumstances, they tell you what they think you can do to make things easier. You tell them that you have a plan to do something, they offer up another plan for you. There is a place for these offerings- particularly when requested- but often times they just make things worse. In fact, we are more likely to arrive at the next best place on our journeys when someone actually attunes to where we are at, without making any effort to improve upon or re-frame it. We don't need to be saved- we need to be seen. That's the healing, right there. I hear you, I see you, I honor your choices, goes a long, long way.. - Jeff Brown
Those Things By Which We Get Embarrassed
Subtraction

We have too much.
Too much stuff.
Too much stress.
Too many obligations.
Yet we don’t have enough.
Not enough time.
Not enough money.
Not enough energy.
Looks like we’ve stockpiled the “wrong” things,
and that’s why we don’t have enough of the “right” things.
Of course, “right” and “wrong” are just moralizing constructs.
There are no right or wrong material possessions.
The reality is we have too many things that increase our misery.
As a result, we lack composure, contentment, calmness.
Soaking in suffering, we glimpse occasional moments of happiness.
We attempt to reprise those moments by acquiring new possessions.
We try to “fix” the misery by gathering objects that make us happy.
We act as if it’s an inventory problem.
As if that Instagrammable couch or that area rug will “spark joy.”
As if that indoor planter or that vertical bookcase will complete us.
As if that new shirt or those skinny jeans will make us anew.
Subtract the “wrong” things;
add the “right” things.
That’s the key, right?
Yes, that’s the key to anxiety, restlessness, and dissatisfaction.
We cannot consume our way out of discontent.
Well, we can—but only for a fleeting moment.
It’s not unlike a drug addict’s high.
We can purchase pleasure,
but, in doing so, we also purchase future pain.
An addict is never “fixed” after getting his “fix.”
For after that spark of pleasure, misery always awaits.
There are no exceptions—
pleasure and misery are two sides of the same coin.
We’ll never have all the right things,
because there are no “right” things.
That’s the lie we’ve been sold by advertisers
and by confused “influencers” who don’t know any better.
Yes, some objects may enhance our lives,
but only after we subtract the attachment that gets in the way.
Peace cannot be packaged and placed on a conveyor belt.
It is buried beneath the hoard we’ve added to our lives.
The path to misery is cobbled with addition.
The path to peace is uncovered with subtraction.
Sometimes someone isn't ready to see the bright side. Sometimes they need to sit with the shadow first. So be a friend and sit with them. Make the darkness beautiful. - Victoria Erickosn, Rhythms and Roads

You Don't lose real friends, real opportunities or real relationships when you start standing up for yourself and setting clear boundaries. You lose abusers, manipulators, narcissists, control freaks, attention seekers and mental-health destroying leeches. - Unknown

Sunday, December 27, 2020

Your greatest test will be how you handle people who mishandled you. - unknown

If they get to you to the point where you consider destroying yourself to prove your love, you run. You run and you don't even look back. - Karen Dion

Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behavior decides who stays in your life. - unknown

As you discover that you can choose how you react, you take your power back and discover that you manage your joy, not anyone or anything else. - Hale Dwoski

It is so much faster for your growth to know that only you can do it for you. - Lester Levenson

Letting go of attachment is like having wings. This is not letting go of the thing itself. It is merely letting go of clinging to it. - Hale Dwoskin

We have infinite power, infinite will, and when man so willis, he's immediately set free. - Lester Levenson

When pain, misery, or anger happen, it is time to look within you, not around you. - Sadhagne

If our thoughts become things, have you ever wondered why people aren’t more intentional with their thoughts?⁠ - Mike Dooley

How do you bring yourself into the world in a way that expands love, rather than contracting it? - Gaelynn Lea
Gaelynn Lea’s Voice and Violin
It’s really settling in now, the losses large and small
Many of us have a history of grief that just piles up at times like this. That is, there is some memory of past grief. Grief comes, past losses come to the fore now, because of this big one. - Pauline Boss
‘We Believe Each Other Into Being’
It's a great idea to write yourself a note saying,' I am happy right now despite previous depressions. Please do not do anything to inhibit this from happening again.' and go read it when you're down. There it is in your handwriting. - Jennifer Michael Hecht
“Praise beginnings; praise the end.
Praise the song and praise the singer.
Praise the rain; it brings more rain.
Praise the rain; it brings more rain.”— Joy Harjo
Praise the Rain
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