Sunday, June 28, 2020

Real love is an infinite connection between two beings. The passing of time will not diminish that love or connection. Trust that this love is still a part of you, even after loss. Sending so much love to anyone who is grieving today. May you know how loved you are. ~ Michelle & Barb

When we lose someone we love, we must learn not to live without them, but to live with the love they left behind. - unknown
Souls recognize each other by vibes not by appearances. - Desmond E. F.
Instead of training children to meet the expectation of adults, we should be training adults to meet the psychological, emotional and developmental needs of children. - Zoe Tolman
The Asian American Response to Black Lives Matter Is Part of a Long, Complicated History
Portland Light Rail Train Stabbing Victims Call Out Racist System During Sentencing Hearing. “I blame the system for creating and facilitating people like Jeremy (Christian),” Demetria Hester said in court.
Black Lives Matter Demonstrations Are Not A Big Factor In Oregon's COVID-19 Spike. The Oregon Health Authority says anti-racism demonstrations and protests against police brutality are not significant contributors to the rise in COVI...
What is kettling? Here's a look into the usage and history of the controversial police tactic
‘Black Lives Matter’ Will Be Painted on Street Outside Trump Tower
Mississippi takes step toward dropping rebel image from flag
'The Confederacy of California': life in the valley where Robert Fuller was found hanged
Letters to the Editor: Trump has done more to protect inert statues than living, breathing Americans
Outrage over Elijah McClain death as police nationwide face new investigations
Philadelphia plans to take down Columbus statue
Kellyanne Conway attacks Asian-American journalist as she defends Trump's use of "Kung Flu"
House Passes Democrats’ Policing Bill, but No Path Seen for Deal
Colorado Gov. Appoints Special Prosecutor To Reopen Probe Of Elijah McClain Death
NYPD Officer Accused Of Using Chokehold Charged With Strangulation
Get on the Line: White Allies and Changing Tactics at Atlanta Rayshard Brooks Protests
Police, coronavirus and taxes: Read the proposals Oregon lawmakers are considering for Wednesday special session
Portland is latest city to defund police, reallocate money to alternative programs
Happy birthday, Mihai.
More than ever it's important to learn to embrace the power and great virtue of vulnerability to be more human. With light and shadow, perfectly imperfect. - Kenia R.P.
Your competition isn't other people. Your competition is your procrastination. Your ego. The unhealthy food you're consuming, the knowledge you neglect. The negative behavior you're nurturing & your lack of creativity. Comets against that. - unknown
When you lose someone we love, we must learn. Not to live without them, but to live with the love they left behind. - unknown
When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you amy learn something new. - The Dalai Lama
Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude. - unknown

Optimism is a happiness magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you. - Mary Lou Retton
Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you and stay. - unknown

Letting go takes a lot of courage. But once you let go, happiness comes very quickly. - Thich Nhat Hanh
Biden slams Trump over reported bounties placed on US troops
Russian Spy Unit Paid Taliban to Attack Americans, U.S. Intelligence Says
‘Tre45on’ Trends After Report That Trump Knew Putin Put Bounty On U.S. Troops
“Trump and his Administration has known at least since March, that a Taliban linked group was paid by Russia to kill American Soldiers in 2019, and Trump and his entire Administration have done nothing? 20 American families are mourning for their loved ones, and Trump, whose first job was to confront Putin about this, has spoken with him several times and never mentioned the American soldiers killed, that Russia paid for? And every single leader in the administration has know since March, Pence, Pompeo, Esper, Mnuchin, Gen Milley, NSA, O'Brien, also Director of National Intelligence in March, all have known this and did and said nothing? How does General Milley explain this one away, like the Lafayette Sq. COMPLETE FIASCO, that he apoligized for? How dare them hide this from the Soldier's families, because Trump doesn't want to confrot PUTIN, and is protecting Russia, who paid to kill our own Soldiers? Why is this not Treason with every stinking one of them being held accountable!” — Margie Lynch

Russia Offered Afghans Bounty to Kill U.S. Troops, Officials Say
“Pain can change you, but it doesn’t mean that it has to be a bad change. Take that pain and turn it into wisdom.” ❤️ ~ HH Dalai Lama
The moment you start acting like your life is a blessing, it starts to feel like one. - unknown
Cherish your friendships, treasure the memories, give importance to the ones who make your life worthwhile. Tomorrow isn’t promised. - Nikki F.

Saturday, June 27, 2020

It’s not about letting it go...

It's not about ' letting it go. '. It's about letting it in. It's about letting it deep. It's about letting it through. It's about being true to your feelings. It's about giving your experiences the attention they deserve. And that may take a moment, or it may take years. The trick is not to shame your need to hold on to what has yet to be resolved. "Let it go" is the mantra of the self- avoidant, feigning resolution because they lack the courage or the preparedness to face their feeligns. Let's not play that game. Let's let things in and through, until they are fully and truly ready to shift. Let's let it forw into the transfomration at its heart. We write our story by fully living it. Not by ' letting it go ' before its time. - Jeff Brown, Hearticulations
U.S. sets another single-day record for new coronavirus cases
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Florida Reports More Than 8,900 New Daily Cases and Texas Orders Bars Shut
Governors who quickly reopened backpedal as virus surges
Texas Gov. Orders Bars To Close, Reduces Restaurant Seating As COVID-19 Cases Surge
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U.S. Sets Daily Record For New COVID-19 Cases
Denver's Sweeps Of Homeless Camps Run Counter To COVID-19 Guidance
Trump Administration Moving To Close Federally Funded COVID Testing Sites
Parties — Not Protests — Are Causing Spikes In Coronavirus
Trump Follows Through on Threat to ‘Slow the Testing Down’
White House abruptly cut off funding to coronavirus grant research, Dr Fauci says
New U.S. COVID-19 cases surpass peak set in April as states rethink strategy
Trump administration ending support for drive-thru testing sites
Up to 150K coronavirus deaths possible by July 18, CDC says
Texas Pauses Reopening and Frees Up Hospital Beds as Cases Rise
North Texas family shaken after 18 relatives test positive for COVID-19 following surprise birthday party.. sounds familiar.. that hot pot party case in HK back in January..
Trump—After ‘Slow The Testing Down’ Remark—Will End Federal Funding For Testing Sites
Trump administration ending support for drive-thru testing sites
Tracing The Coronavirus Through Sewer Pipes In Oregon

Simple rule in life:

If you wouldn't like it done to you, don't do it to others. - unknown

Reminder: You don't have to explain why you want what you want, do want you do, love what you love, need what you need. You are allowed to live a life some people don't understand. - Laura McKowen
She could never go back and make some of the details pretty. All she could do was move forward and make the whole beautiful. - Terri St. Cloud
Jon Stewart Returns With Advice From 1918 And Thoughts On Trump's Handling Of The Coronavirus

Thursday, June 25, 2020

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and start being excited of what could go right. - Tony Robbins

Happy 66th birthday!

I do know one thing about me: I don't measure myself by others' expectations or let others definte my worth. - Sonia Sotomayor
Warren, we talk about this
Look at your daily habits and ask yourself if they are causing you to evolve or revolve. Are you moving forward, or just moving in circles? - DEF

Wednesday, June 24, 2020

What Is an Emotionally-healthy Childhood?
The One Subject You Really Need to Study: Your Own Childhood

On demand..to be a being

Two Easily Remembered Questions That Silence Negative Thoughts | Anthony Metivier | TEDxDocklands
There are two types of relational silence- one that serves the connection, one that damages it. In the first, silence comes with the qualifier “I need some quiet time to reflect”, which is healthy and respectful to the connection. In the second, silence comes with no qualifier and others are left to wonder what is actually happening. In this case, silence is actually violence- a passive aggressive attempt to cause suffering, or, at the least, a negligent self-absorption that makes things worse. Given that so many of us grew up with the silent treatment, it is essential that we let others know what is happening when we go quiet. It is respectful and it keeps the love alive. Even something like “Time out!” can be enough to keep silence from turning into violence. - Jeff Brown
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Life is an echo, what you send out, comes bac. What you sow, you reap. What you give, you get. What you see in others, exists in you. Remember life is an echo. It always gets back to you. So give goodness. - unknown

Your beliefs don't make you a better person, your behavior does. - Sukhraj Dhillon
The most dangerous phase in the language is " we've always done it this way. " - unknown
You can't force someone to hear a message they aren't ready to receive. But there is some power in planting a seed of understanding. - Karen Salmansohn
This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness. - Dalai Lama

The next revolutionary step for humankind is to move from human to kind. - Anonymous

Just be a good person. Love who you can. Help where you can. Give what you can. - unknown
Ram Dass 'Fall in love with love'
20200619 港台《頭條新聞》主持吳志森、曾志豪見記者
We have a tendency to think in terms of doing and not in terms of being. We think that when we are not doing anything. We are wasting our time. But that is not true. Our time is first of all for us to be. To be what? To be alive, to be peaceful, to be joyful, to be loving. And that is what the world needs most. - Thich Nhat Hanh

We can't heal the world today. But we can begin with a voice of compassion, a heart of love, and an act of kindness. - Mary Davis

You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude and acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind- hearted human being. - Anita Krizzan

You are so much more than this. More than yesterday's experiences and today's lessons, and so much more than what tomorrow will have in store. - Ruby Dhal

Let all your things be done with LOVE today, and you will have Peace - Janice T.

In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you. - unknown

There are many ways to calm a negative energy without suppressing of fighting it. You recognize it, you smile to it, and you invite something nicer to come up and replace it; you read some inspiring words, you listen to a piece of beautiful music, you go somewhere in nature, or you do some walking meditation. - Thich Nhat Hanh

“The secret of meditation is to keep the sun of awareness continually shining – in both the physical and psychological realms, in all circumstances, on each thing that arises. Meditation is to be aware of what is going on – in our bodies, in our feelings, in our minds, and in the world. Each day forty thousand children die of hunger. The superpowers now have more than fifty thousand nuclear warheads, enough to destroy our planet many times. Yet the sunrise is beautiful, and the rose that bloomed this morning along the wall is a miracle. Life is wonderful.” - Thich Nhat Hanh
Confidence isn't thinking about you are better than everyone else, it's realizing that you have no reason to compare yourself to anyone else. - Maryam Hasnaa
“We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice...” - Pema

If you see someone falling behind, walk beside them. If you see someone being ignored, find a way to include them. Always remind people of their worth. One small act could mean the world to them. - unknown
Actions prove who someone is words just prove who they pretend to be. - unknown

Sometimes you have to let go of the picture of what you thought life would be like and learn to find joy in the story you are actually living. - Rachel Marie Martin

Going Deeper , “I am inviting you to go deeper, to learn and to practice so that you become someone who has a great capacity for being solid, calm, and without fear, because our society needs people like you who have these qualities, and your children, our children, need people like you, in order to go on, in order to become solid, and calm, and without fear...” - Thich Nhat Hanh

You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Your ability to love another person, depends on your ability to love myself. - Thich Nhat Hanh

Build a home inside by accepting yourself and learning to love and heal yourself. - Thich Nhat Hang
Giving until it hurts is not a virtue. It burns you out while attracting people whose appetite for your energy is insatiable. - Martha Beck

So many of us carry a deep wound around parental neglect or abuse. Some of us carry it so deeply that we are unable to recognize or manifest our magnificence, our reasons for living, the sacred purpose(s) that reside at the core of our being. Intrinsic to these blockages is the core belief that we are unworthy, sourced in our parent(s) behavior. We carry forward the childhood assumption that their unloving behavior was a reflection of our own value. And this is the gravest of mistakes. Because if someone has a child, and is in a state where they are emotionally and circumstantially capable of loving, their natural impulse is not to neglect or abuse. It is to love. It is to support. It is to protect. If they didn’t, it is entirely a reflection of their own challenges, conditioning, circumstances. It doesn’t say a thing about your value. In fact, it has nothing to do with you at all. They just couldn't do any better. They were trapped inside their own unresolved issues. They were lost on their own misguided path. Don't let your life's path be a reflection of their limitations. Walk your own way now… - Jeff Brown

We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It's easy to say, 'It's not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem. ' Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes. - Fred Rogers

Bad days built better days. - unknown

Dear self, Don't get worked up over things you can't change, people you can't change. It's not worth the anger build up or the headache. Control only what you can. Let go. Love, Me. - unknown er />
The most precious gift you can give someone is the gift of your time and attention. - unknown

Follow the three R's: Respect for self, respect for others and responsibility for all your actions. - Dalai Lama

One of the hardest things you will ever have to do is to grieve the loss of a person who is still alive. - unknown

People don't always need advice. Sometimes all they really need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand them. - unknown

And in the end all I learned was how to be strong alone. - unknown

Your life isn't yours if you always care what someone else thinks. - unknown

Sometimes we have to go through the worst to get to the best. Be patient. Never give up. Your day will come. - unknown

The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful life becomes. - Karen Salmansohn

HOW TO RESPOND TO A NEGATIVE PERSON: 6 SIMPLE TOOLS
If you focus on the hurt, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will continue to grow. - unknown

Beauty has nothing to do with looks. It has everything to do with how you are as a person and how you make others feel about themselves. - unknown

"Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything; anger, anxiety, or possessions, we cannot be free.” - Thich Nhat Hanh

A simple rule in life: If you wouldn't like it done to you, don't do it to others. - unknown

You don't have to cheat to lose someone. You can lose someone from a lack of communication, attention, and disrespect. Its not always what you do, sometimes it's about what you didn't do. - unknown

“Breathing in, I know I am angry. Breathing out, I know that the anger is in me.” First, you practice recognition. “Hello, anger, my old friend.” Then you look deeply to see its source. “Why am I angry?” The first thing you will discover is that your suffering has its roots in your store consciousness, in seeds that are already there, seeds of anger, delusion, pride, suspicion, or greed. The other person is only a secondary cause.
The next thing you will see is that the other person is also suffering. You may have thought you were the only one suffering, but that is not correct. When someone spills that kind of suffering onto you, you know that he is suffering. When you understand this, love will well up in you, and you will want to help. Understanding is the key. - Thich Nhat Hanh

If you have a chance to make someone happy, do it. Sometimes people are struggling silently. Maybe your act of kindness can make their day. - unknown

the best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment. - unknown

Countries may fall but their rivers and mountains remain; when spring comes to the ruined castle, the grass is green again.- Du Fu


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20200622頭條新聞結束,可能只是新聞界結束的開始。教你如何觀察媒體「跪低」的騎呢位。
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“For as long as space endures, And for as long as living beings remain, Until then may I too abide, To dispel the misery of the world." - 14th Dalai Lama
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When you forgive, you do not erase the memory. You simply choose to forgive to free yourself from the bitterness. The memory stays, not to be forgotten but to be remembered as a valuable lesson. - unknown

Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn't know until you lived through it. Honor your path. Trust your journey. Learn, grow, evolve, become. - Creig Crippen

The relationship you have with you IS the foundation of your life. You are whole, enough, complete, and worthy. Respect and love yourself completely and never give another person the power to name who you are and what you deserve. You deserve your love and affection. - Barb S.

You, yourself, as much as anybody else in the entire world, deserve your love and affection. - Buddha

The best weight you'll ever lose is the weight of other people's opinions of you. - unknown

You were never created to live depressed, defeated, guilty, condemned, ashamed or unworthy. You were created to be victorious. - unknown
Do not be concerned with the faults of other persons. Do not see others' faults with a hateful mind. There is an old saying that if you stop seeing others' faults, then naturally seniors and venerated and juniors are revered. Do not imitate others' faults; just cultivate virtue. Buddha prohibited unwholesome actions, but did not tell us to hate those who practice unwholesome actions. - Dogen Zenji
The only way to live happily ever after is one day at a time. Just be, breathe, and think not about what you’re missing, but what you’ve been given. Happiness is something that comes into our lives gradually through the doors we don’t even remember leaving open. - Spiritual Awakenings ॐ
Judgment = Separation

Acceptance = Love = Unity

Who are you judging?

Until each person sets down their judgments of others we can not unite.

This means judging others for how they feel about Trump

This means judging others about if they wear a mask or not

This means judging others about how or what they are doing to stop racism

This means judging others for how they quarantine

This means judging others for how they parent

This means judging others for their feelings

This means judging others for their actions

There is no exception to this rule

Judging is not love

It does not exist in a frequency of love

If you are feeling judged by others, look into the judgments you project out about others. It’s synonymous. Judgmental people feel judged.

Until we trust the sovereignty of our brothers and sisters right to Free Will, and we believe that every person is doing the best that they know how to do in that moment, for their evolutionary journey, we will not unite. And as long as we are divided, we are easy to control.

Judgment = Separation

Who are you judging? - Alisha N.
They never want to discuss what triggered you. Just how you reacted. - unknown

Being healthy is a way of life. It's not just about what you feed your body; it's about what you feed your mind and the social environment you keep. ~ Steve Maraboli

In order to be able to live on your own terms you will have to shake off the nay sayers, swim upstream, become aware, and stop listening to the voices of what others think. - Spiritual Awakenings ॐ








No act of kindness, no matter how small is ever wasted. - AESOP

You were created to make somebody else's life better. Somebody needs what you have, your smile, your love, your words & your encouragement. - unknown
The happiest people are the givers, not the takers. - unknown

It doesn’t matter how little you can give, a smile, a kind thought, a sincere greeting, a silent prayer, or just your heartful presence ... is all that’s needed to bring joy and peace to yourself and the world...- J. Tan

It's easy to judge. It's more difficult to understand. Understanding requires compassion, patience, and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choose poor methods. Thought judging, we separate. Through understanding, we grow. - Doe Zantamata

In order to empathize with someone's experience you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be. - Brene Brown

“When we are looking for compassion, we need someone who is deeply rooted, is able to bend, and most of all, embraces us for our strengths and struggles.” - Brene Brown

“A healer does not heal you. A healer is someone who holds space for you while you awaken your inner healer, so that you may heal yourself.” - Maryam Hasnaa

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Say goodbye to the past. It's time to move on and be happy. Amazing things are on their way. - unknown
Happy Summer Solstice!
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《 人生語錄 》

1、人在的時候 ,以為來日方長什麼都有機會, 其實人生是減法, 見一面,少一面。

2、別人怎麼看你, 和你毫無關系, 你要怎麼活 ,也和別人毫無關係。

3、面子到底多少錢一斤,我們為什麼要在乎別人的看法。

4、有一天你會明白,善良比聰明更難。聰明是一種天賦,而善良是一種選擇。

5、人生且行且珍惜。自己永遠是自己的主角,不要總在別人的戲裡當著配角。

6、不要在心情糟爛差的時候, 用決絕的話傷害愛你的人。

7、有時候,沒有下一次,錯過了現在,就永遠永遠的沒機會了。

8、用心甘情願的態度,去過隨遇而安的生活。

9、所有的問題都是自己的問題。

10、有時候,我們明明原諒了那個人,卻無法真正快樂起來,那是因為,你忘了原諒自己。

11、一個人可以沒有愛情,沒有名牌,但不能沒有快樂。

12、愛你寵你的人你不稀罕,對你冷若冰霜窮追不捨。搞的遍體鱗傷的還是自己。

13、不要的東西,再好也是垃圾。

14、如果你沒瞎,就別用耳朵去了解我。

15、真正不是你認識多少人,而是你患難的時候還有多少人認識你。

16、那些不需要解釋的事情, 從你張嘴那一刻起 ,你已經輸了。

17、很多人闖進你的生活,只是為了給你上一課,然後轉身離開。

18、距離,產生的不是美,而是詮釋了不堪一擊的愛情。

19、人生煩惱就12個字:放不下、想不開、看不透、忘不了。

20、女人沒魅力才覺得男人花心,男人沒實力才覺得女人現實。

21、慢慢的,長大了,卻感覺變沉默了,懂得多了,卻不快樂了。

22、跟自己說聲對不起,這些年一直沒學會愛自己。

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