How can you ever say anything negative about your body after you have felt the dancing of life from inside your womb? - Amethyst joy

I am enough.

This is my current state of mind regarding my 6-year old. When will I stop having to remind her to flush the the toilet, wash her hands, clean up her toys, tidy up after herself, whine about screentime, say thank you & & goodbye, try to control her stadium-level voice, be mindful of staying on task, stay in her chair during meals, not run around like a buffalo, listen and follow trough when I'm addressing her before my voice gets raw, etc...
I'm tired, always busy, vulnerable, hungry, and exhausted.. She's amazing and smart and can be stunningly sweet, but now that I'm a new mom of more then one, it seems like a bunch of things/habits that I have seemingly inadequately reinforced or instilled discipline with (especially listening and screentime and tidying) are kind of making me feel a sense of mom guilt? I'm wary of other moms judging me, too. Moms that don't know me. It's just a phase, right? It has flared up since her sibling arrived, but maybe it just bothers me more. What can I do to patch up. This keeps me up at night. No, not really, the baby does. 😅 Thoughts while up pumping. - Ruby T
Don't chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you and stay. - Will Smith
堅守自身的出發點和底線,絕非自私,而是連結內在真善美。所以,回歸內在信念和良知,才會活現生命的價值和美善,發光發熱。

其實,這是任何人際關係的成功要訣,就是用心了解對方的需要,尋找彼此的共通點,然後用自己的良知去選擇和發聲,創造最大的共贏。換言之,我們先要清晰自身的目標和底線,然後,無論與誰相處,用對方的位置去考慮,用自己的位置去選擇,再為自己的選擇完全負責;無論彼此有多大分歧、無論處於那種生命處境,我們都忠於自己、尊重別人,用心創造雙贏,那就真正放下自我、行雲流水、揮灑自如,立於不敗之地。 - 華山博士
If they don't help you glow, then them go. - Jeff Brown

Some people are going to reject you simply because you shine too bright for them. That's okay. Keep shining. - Mandy Hale

Deepest regret: To have remained silent when I should have raised hell. - Madiha, deep minds anonymous

What's done is done. What's gone is gone. One of life's lessons is always moving on. It's okay to look back and think of fond memories but keep moving forward. - unknown

Remember the good times, be strong during tough times, love always, laugh often, live honestly, and be thankful each new day. - unknown
When we are experiencing anxiety in life, gratitude helps turn our hearts towards peace. Choose thankfulness today. - April B.

"A merry heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones." - Proverbs 17:22
Children must never work for our love, they must rest in it. - Gordon Neufeld

Sunday, April 28, 2019

Being genetically related doesn't make you family. Love, support, trust, sacrifice, honestly, protection, acceptance, security, compromise, gratitude, respect and loyalty are what make you family. - tinybuddha.com
Deep inside of you is more strength than you've ever known. - unknown

Sometimes in life, you just need a hug. No words, no advice, just a hug to make you feel better. - Tinybuddha.com

No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all. Integrity is everything. - unknown

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. — Theodore Roosevelt

"Do your little bit of good where you are; it's those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world." - Desmond Tutu

"Remember that the happiest people are not those getting more, but those giving more." ~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.

"Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on Earth." ~ Muhammad Ali

If all girls . I am enough. I love my own self.

If all girls were taught how to love each other fiercely instead of how to compete with each other and hate their own bodies, what a different and beautiful world we would live in. - Nikita Gill
“We will not be intimidated or deterred by this terror.... terror will not win.... I ask that we all do something to bring more light to combat this evil darkness that’s out there.... and that can happen through acts of compassion and loving kindness” - Rabbi Goldstein, Chabad of Poway
There are no limits to what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking. - Brian Tracy
To stop growing is to die.... spiritually, emotionally. To love is to risk. - Rick L.
To do great things in the world, you must first know who you are and what gives you meaning in your life. - Lolly Daskal, “The Leadership Gap”

Friday, April 26, 2019

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Biden's Delusion About American History
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US election 2020: Joe Biden launches presidential bid, joining crowded field
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Elizabeth Warren, the Long-Distance Runner of the 2020 Race
How Would Jesus Vote?
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Pete Buttigieg Says Incarcerated People Shouldn't Get to Vote
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Bernie Sanders: Everyone Should Vote, Including Boston Marathon Bomber
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Massachusetts Rep. Seth Moulton Joins Democratic Race For President
After Democrats Surged In 2018, Republican-Run States Eye New Curbs On Voting
Pete Buttigieg fuses liberalism and tradition

When Your Living Room Becomes A 2020 Campaign Stage, 'It's Pretty Surreal'
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煉心堂《儂本多情》EP10 無賴 第一節 煉心堂《儂本多情》EP11 千風歌
“The greatest gift you can give somebody is your own personal development.” - Jim Rohn

"If you're around people who are taking away energy from you...let them go." - Oprah

Worthy is the one who has been broken. And risen again and again. - Hina

Give yourself the same care and attention that you give to others and watch yourself bloom

I am in charge of how I feel and today I am choosing happiness. - unknown
"Listen my friend, if one person doesn't want the relationship, then it's simply not a fit. No sense trying to figure out why they don't' want it. No sense blaming it on their commitment issues. No sense waiting around for them to realize they wanted it after all. Because it doesn't matter why they don't want it. What matters is that you are met hear on by a fully engaged partner. If they don't want it, then you don't want it, because you don't' want to be with someone who isn't there for it fully. that's the thing about love relationship, it's an agreement that has to be singed by both souls. If one doesn't sign, then nothing has been lost. If it's not a fit for them, it's not a fit for you either." - Jeff Brown, An uncommon bond

She said-
"where I messed up is that I continued looking for happiness with the person who was taking it away from me; continued to give chances to someone who had proven to be unworthy of them; and continued to expect a different result from someone who had no plans on changing at all." - poetic_style
現在的你,很糟嗎?日本寺廟留給世人的6句名言

「你也會死的喔」 —願蓮寺
「除了死之外,其餘都是擦傷。」—超覺寺
「你覺得 “謝謝”的相反是什麼?」—松院
「你現在這個樣子不是挺好的嗎?」—西善寺
「活著,已經是賺到了。」—一心寺
翻過的高牆,會成為你人生的盾牌。」—超覺寺
Respond to your children with love in their worst moments, their broken moments, their angry moments, their selfish moments, their frustrated moments, their inconvenient moments because it is in their most unlovable human moments they most need to feel love. - unknown

Childhood is not a race to see how quickly a child can read, write and count. It is a small window of time to learn and develop at the pace that is right for each individual child. Earlier is not better. - Magda Geber
If you aren't thinking outside the box, your competitors surely are. - Kerin Patel
If you want your power back, don't react. - Michael James

If you don't like something, just take away its only power. Your attention. - unknown
Have you ever looked at our kid and had your heart filled with so much love and pride that it brought tears to you eyes? it's the most amazing feeling. - mamas uncut
We are not accepting verbal apologies this year, only changed behavior. - unknown

No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn't trying. - Anthony Robbins

You can't change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it. - unknown
You don't have to know where the path ends, you just need to start walking. - unknown

My story is filled with broken pieces, terrible choice and ugly truths. It's also filled with a major comeback, peace in my soul and a grace that saved my life. - unknown

Monday, April 22, 2019

“Nature is painting for us, day after day, pictures of infinite beauty if only we have the eyes to see them.” - John Ruskin
斷捨離,是一種面對自己的踏實修心、修行。
生活如何,家居如何,做假不得。- Annie Lam

「這次,是我們婚姻中共同重要的一課。這段期間, 我們共同經歷情緒起伏,我們也就事件詳談很久很深。這是夫妻二人之間的一課……當中也深深包含了彼此的錯誤和彼此的原諒。人誰無過是老生常談,但事實確是如此啊。
在這次中,重要的,是更進一步身歷婚姻其中真諦。幸福不只是一場場順利美滿,當中也有試煉,也一起去經歷高低狀況,讓夫妻之間的感情厚度帶領著前行,更要彼此走進對方的內心,一起正視各自的軟弱,不放棄自己,不放棄對方,互相糾正,互相提點,在婚姻歷煉中,我深信經歷和教訓一定會幫助重回正軌,生命更會更生。這期間在我們彼此都最難捱的時刻,握着手一起祈禱,對我們的幫助極大。………今天以後,就只向前看,在時間的見證中,繼續一步步前行。-Sammi
Have you ever stopped to consider that due to your eternal nature, you and everyone else live forever? Of course you have.
And therefore, have you realized that in the truest sense, everyone beats cancer, AIDS, and starvation? Un-hun, un-hun...
And you totally get that between now and forever, you will meet and fall deeply in love with everyone, and they with you? Let's not wait...
The Universe - K.A.
People grow when they are loved well. If you want to help someone heal, love them without and agenda. - Matt McHargue

I've learned that in order for good things to come your way, you need to believe you deserve them. - Jason C.
"Perfection is not a prerequisite of leadership. But we can forgive ourselves for believing it is."- Abby Wambach
Abby Wambach: “You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Be a Great Leader”
「懂我的人,一定能明白我的魅力所在」《櫻桃小丸子》8個發人深省的金句

1.「只要活著一定會遇上好事的」

2.「有些事不是我不在意,而是我在意了又能怎樣」

3.「錢雖然重要,可是健康更重要」

4.「幸福是不會自己走過來的」

5.「懂我的人,一定能明白我的魅力所在」

6.「人生裡,根本沒有贏家或輸家」

7.「哭過之後,你就會變得很堅強的」

8.「只要人生不斷,悲傷是難免的」
Happy Easter!
“Imperfect men have been empowered and permitted to run the world since the beginning of time. It’s time for imperfect women to grant themselves permission to join them.” - Abby Wambach

Saturday, April 20, 2019

Friday, April 19, 2019