Monday, December 31, 2018

1/1/19 hiking

Fees waived on Jan. 1 for state parks, with many hosting special hikes

Nearly 40 Washington State Parks will be participating in the First Day Hikes, an event to help celebrate the first free day at the state parks this year. This is an opportunity to spend Jan. 1 hiking and enjoying the state parks system for free.
You Can Ride Portland Public Transportation for Free This New Year’s Eve

Sunday, December 30, 2018

The secret to living well and longer is: eat half, walk double, laugh triple and love without measure. - Tibetan Proverb
Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable. - David A. Augsburger

Your circle should want to see you win. Your circle should clap loudly when you have good news. If not, get a new circle. — Wesley Snipes
Life is a series of thousands of tiny miracles. Notice them. - unknown
Rotary club works to make peace between liberals and conservatives
Clark County faces steep climb to diversify teaching force
The 10 best countries to be a woman
Domestic Violence Is The Most Common Killer Of Women Around The World
In Clark County, single moms earn about half what single dads make
The Disturbing Evolution Of 'Lock Her Up'
WHY IT'S HARD TO ESCAPE AMAZON'S LONG REACH Want to know why Amazon.com is the last large advertiser on Breitbart, where their ads show up alongside articles like “There’s No Hiring Bias Against Women In Tech, They Just Suck At Interviews”? Because when you have a monopoly, you don’t care which consumers you offend.

Because i am a human too.

You are still a good mom even if...
You raise your voice.
Say things that you regret.
Lose your cool.
Need a break from your family.
Sometimes miss the life you used to have before kids. - Scary Mommy

I am glad to have you. Gabo. I love you.

We cannot force someone to hear a message they are not ready to receive. But we must never underestimate the power of planting a seed. - Chasing butterfly, lesson of love

Sometimes I wonder if anyone is glad to have me in their life.- unknown

Before you step into 2019, be sure to cancel your subscription to other people's drama and negativity. - unknown

Friday, December 28, 2018

Go where your energy is reciprocated, celebrated and appreciated. - unknown

I tell myself that every morning.

You can't go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending. - C.S. Lewis.
Trump, Leading Democrats Fault Each Other As Partial Shutdown Heads Into 2019
'Can You Come To The White House?' A Reporter's Tale Of A Surprise Trip To Iraq
Russia Will Deploy New Hypersonic Missile Systems In 2019, Putin Says Russia is working on a new kind of missile they say can evade U.S. missile systems. So quick question, why did those GOP lawmakers go to Russia this year?
Trump's new shutdown excuse: 'Most of the people not getting paid are Democrats'
If This is True, Donald Trump is Finished
The World Is Full of Walls That Don’t Work. Why would Donald Trump want to build another one?
Trump Pivots on Furloughed U.S. Workers, Calling Them Democrats
GOP lawmaker doubts government workers live paycheck to paycheck
Trump Brags To Troops About A Fictional Giant Pay Raise He Got Them
Trump Accidentally Exposes the Location, Identities of U.S. Navy Seal Team Five on Twitter
In Iraq, Trump told the troops 2 falsehoods about their pay
DONALD TRUMP TWITTER ACCOUNT VIDEO REVEALS COVERT U.S. NAVY SEAL DEPLOYMENT DURING IRAQ VISIT
Trump in Iraq on first visit to troops in troubled region
This is what we were afraid of
Shutdown Continues As President And Democrats Remain At Odds Over Funding For Wall
In A White House With Unprecedented Turnover, Survivors Have 'Endurance'
Opinion: 5 Ways The U.S. Retreated From The World Stage Under Trump This Year
2018 Brought A 'Tectonic Shift' In The Gun Control Movement, Advocates Say
Trump becomes first president since 2002 not to visit troops at Christmastime
Trump offers holiday greetings to US troops
Being able to feel safe with other people is probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives. - Bessel van Der Kolk
Grief is the last act of love we have to give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love. - unknown
When your head hits the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you've done a good job. You are headed down your path at our own pace, and with every obstacle you are trying your utmost best. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time. - unknown

Keep ringing the bells and shining your light.

Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering. There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in. - Leonard Cohen

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

Women are not the rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix him, change him, parent him or raise him. You want a partner, not a project. - Julia Roberts
Healing yourself will ask more of you.

more rest
more self love
more letting go
more time for learning
more space for transformation
more honesty about how you feel
more time developing good habits
more courage to try new practices
more time cultivating you inner peace
mpre faith in yourself and the process - Yung Pueblo

Perfection:

It's ok to pause. You are allowed to say no. Your best is totally enough. There is no such thing as perfect. - unknown

Pretty good prediction. for 2019

If you want 2019 to be your year; don't sit on the couch and wait for it. go out. Make a change. Smile more. Be excited. Do new things. Throw away what you've been cluttering. Un-follow negative people on social media. Go to bed early. wake up early. Be fierce. Don't gossip. Show more gratitude. Do things that challenge you. Be brave.

If it doesn't bring you income, inspiration, or orgasms, it doesn't belong in your life. - unknown

3 years, you did the unspeakable. It has opened my eyes since then.

Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what. - unknown

Blood makes you related. Loyalty makes you family. - unknown

There will be very painful moments in your life that will change your entire world in a matter of minutes. This moments will change you. Let them make you stronger, smarter, and kinder. But don't you go and become someone that you're not. Cry. Scream if you have to. Then you straighten out that crown and keep moving. - unknown
The people I love are the best gifts I could ever ask for. - tinybuddha.com
Merry everything and a happy always. - unknown

Wherever you are though, hug those dear to you, tell them you love them, remember those no longer with us and do your best to make this a better world in any way you can. - Keiron G.
New Neuroscience Reveals 9 Rituals That Will Make You An Amazing Parent
Rochester sauna evangelists say steamy Finnish tradition saved their marriage
The first long-term study on how screen time affects children's brains suggests more than 2 hours a day could do damage
The ‘mental load’ falls squarely on mother’s shoulders—and it’s making us very tired
I am so thankful for this beautiful chaos that is motherhood
To the person who falls in love with my son
An Open Letter to Single Parents who are Alone on Christmas.
If You Feel Thankful, Write It Down. It's Good For Your Health

This is Love tells stories about how to be alone, how to live forever, how to wait, how to worry, and how to love.
Remembering My Father's Gift
Love Is Not a Permanent State of Enthusiasm: An Interview with Esther Perel
Loneliness is a serious public-health problem
Cutting social media use to 30 mins per day significantly reduces depression and loneliness
A 10-Month-Old's Letter to Santa
Dear sons: This is what real men do
Three little words that changed my outlook as a mama forever
Fathers don't get enough credit, either "I see your compassion toward me and the tenderness in which you have embraced this beautiful, emotional, and messy stage of life together."... I really was puking.. I was lucky that he didn't beat up earlier till his mom showed up...compassion, tenderness, what???? Those words didn't exist in GP and MVP.
50 Really Funny Marriage Tweets That Just Nailed It This Year
Technology and young kids
Happy birthday, Fiona!

Dec 25th, 1642.

Happy birthday, Sir Issac Newton!
I uge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point. " If this isn't nice, I don't know what is." - Kurt Vonnegut

You can't reach for anything new if you hands are still full of yesterday's junk. - Louise Smith

For everything you have missed, you have gained something else; and for everything you gain, you lose something else. It is about your outlook towards life. You an either regret or rejoin. - unknown.

Monday, December 24, 2018

'Beautiful and empowering': Was 2018 the year Asian Americans took 'yellow' back?
Snip snap, "Circumcision first became popular in the late 19th century as a supposed cure for masturbation and health problems, from headaches to tuberculosis " .. now just.. lies lies lies as Science had proved it otherwise.. I truly felt bad about Gabo on this issue, I had put up a good disagreement with CP about this.
Japan's Population Is In Rapid
Measles cases at highest for 20 years in Europe, as anti-vaccine movement grows
Is Genocide Predictable? Researchers Say Absolutely
Dow dives 600 points to below 22,000, S&P 500 enters bear market - worst Christmas Eve ever
Dow plunges in worst Christmas Eve for stocks in history as Trump blames Fed
12 West Wing episodes that are ultimate therapy for the Trump era
How did old people become political enemies of the young?
Government shutdown closes parts of Washington state national parks, cuts search-and-rescue staff
Mick Mulvaney Says Trump ‘Now Realizes’ He Can’t Fire Federal Reserve Chief Jerome Powell
Top Trump aide Mulvaney says shutdown may go into new year
You Can't Serve Both Trump and America
For Madoff Victims, Scars Remain 10 Years Later
Trump's 'Merry Christmas' pledge fails to manifest at his own businesses
With no deal, U.S. government shutdown likely to drag on past Christmas
Ocasio-Cortez calls for congressional salaries to be furloughed during next shutdown
Trump Issues Dark Warning About Immigrants In New Plea For Wall Funding
Asked Who 'Gets Fired' In An Obama Shutdown, Trump Told Fox News: The President
Trump Calls Envoy Brett McGurk's Resignation A 'Nothing Event' By A 'Grandstander'
Lindsey Graham Praises Trump Over Shutdown: 'Glad He Picked This Fight'
Violence Against Women Act to expire with government shutdown
How A Partial Government Shutdown Affects Oregon And Washington
Shutdown to stretch on until at least Thursday as Senate adjourns with no deal over budget, Trump’s border wall
Government Grinding To A Halt As Border Wall Impasse Triggers Shutdown
The World Has A New Largest-Known Prime Number
U.S. stocks suffer worst week in a decade. Three major indexes finish with deep losses that put them near bear…
Markets suffer worst year since global financial crisis
Fed Raises Rates Despite Trump Attacks, Stocks Tank
Wall Street Hits New 2018 Lows as Fed Decision Looms Over Markets

Sunday, December 23, 2018

Be the person who makes other feel special. Be known for your kindness and grace. - tinybuddha.com

Never wish them pain. That’s not who you are. If they caused you pain, they must have pain inside. Wish them healing. - Najwa Zebian

You're going to come in contact with an awful lot of people who are at their absolute breaking point this week. Friends, family, co workers, teachers, strangers in the grocery stores, retail workers. While it may be the merriest time of the year for some, it may be the saddest, most stressful, loneliest, most heartbreaking for others. We're all busy. But we're not too busy to be kind, caring, and patient. Remember the best thing you can give someone this season is love. - Amy Weatherly

The most beautiful things in life are not things. They are people, places, memories and pictures. They're feelings and moments, and smiles, and laughter. - unknown.
Repsond to your children with love in their worst moments, their broken moments, their angry moments, their selfish moments, their frustrated moments, their inconvenient moments because it is in their most unlovable human moments that they most need to feel loved. - POP
Spread love everything you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier. - Mother Teresa

Saturday, December 22, 2018

NW Xmas Light map
Vancouver woman keeps holiday bright to cheer others
Check out more homes in Clark County decorated for the holiday:

• Those passing 809 N.W. 164th St., Ridgefield, will see some familiar faces, as decorations at this small farm include Peanuts characters and the Grinch, along with plenty of other holiday favorites.

• The residents on a part of Northwest 42nd Street in Vancouver like to think of their street as a “little Peacock Lane,” according to one resident. The “Miracle on 42nd Street” runs on 42nd between Washington and Columbia streets, and features arches over driveways, flamingos, massive stars and trees lit up to the sky.

• Decorations at 2736 N.W. 23rd Ave., Camas, include 12 kaleidoscope light effect inflatables, a Santa helicopter with a moving propeller and tail propeller, a 10-foot-tall bear that opens and closes its arms for hugs, a dragon holding a candy cane that flaps its wings and laser lights in three different sections of the house.

• Santa will be busy preparing Christmas, but he and his reindeer can be found in the lead-up to the holiday on the roof at 11001 N.E. 11th Ave., Vancouver, along with a candy cane-lined driveway, snowmen and a Nativity scene.

• The Holidays on Franklin Street has seven properties at 4616 N.W. Franklin St., Vancouver, with more than 30,000 lights. Each property has a different theme: Pooh Corner, Charlie Brown, Peace on Earth, Frozen, and Santa Claus. New this year is a 70-foot long nativity scene that features 25 figures. The lights are on nightly from 5 to 10 p.m., including music and Santa appearing in an upstairs window. Snow will fall on the property Dec. 22 and 23 at 7 p.m. and on the hour Christmas Eve between 4 p.m. and midnight, and Christmas Day between 9 a.m. until 9 p.m. More info can be found at www.facebook.com/holidaysOnFranklin.

• Tucked away in a cul-de-sac, people can find the home at 2105 N.E. 151st Court, Vancouver, complete with lights synced to classic holiday music, Christmas films being played via projector and a yard filled to the brim with decorations.

• Come and enjoy the lights and music from the comfort of your own car at this year’s display at 1719 S.E. 162nd Ave., Vancouver. There are 10,000 lights and computer-controlled animation with traditional Christmas music being transmitted on FM 88.9. The show lasts 20 minutes and runs continuously from 5 to 9:30 p.m. every night through Christmas.

• Charlie Brown and Snoopy can be seen at 4613 N.W. 135th Circle, Vancouver, along with penguins, otters and an inflatable from the movie “Elf.”

• Over at 1302 S.E. 155th Ave., Vancouver, guests can check out elves, reindeer and Santa made of lights, plus holiday music.

• Those heading to 9304 N.E. 93rd Place, Vancouver, will find thousands of lights, inflatables and a train built by hand that travels around the yard. There is also a 10-foot Santa.

• Watch out near 511 N.E. 124th Ave., Vancouver, because there is a student driver holding the reins to Santa’s sleigh, along with Darth Vader and Yoda, an inflatable chipmunk chowing down on an acorn, a polar bear on the swim team and a gingerbread man soaking in a big cup of hot cocoa.

• The home at 714 N.E. 152nd Ave., Vancouver, is drenched in lights, with different sections of the house featuring different solid colors. The roof is covered in rainbow lights, and through the front window, visitors can see a large tree bathed in white lights.

• While the focus at 11806 S.E. Riveridge Drive, Vancouver, might be on the yard, which is filled with lights and characters, those who look up can spot Santa on the roof, along with an angel playing the trumpet. Even higher up is a lit-up hot air balloon flying above the home.

• The home at 14427 N.W. 25th Court, Vancouver, sits in a cul-de-sac where most homes decorate for the holidays. Those who drive through can find lights on the houses, trees and shrubbery, along with holiday favorites, like snowmen and gingerbread men.

• Inflatable Santa can be seen hanging out with the Nutcracker and Pluto the dog at 5100 N.W. Walnut St., Vancouver, which also features 65 feet of icicle lights and shrubs covered in multicolored lighting.

• Visitors to 20306 N.E. 68th St., Vancouver, will find more then 30,000 lights draped from the roof down to the yard blinking to Christmas music, along with some large snowmen and Santa inflatables.

• You’ll want to roll down your windows at 12816 S.E. 24th St., Vancouver, so you can check out the show where more than 2,000 lights are set to music with a variety of 20 different songs.

• Over at 2020 S.E. 132nd Court, Vancouver, visitors will find lights throughout the yard and hanging off the house. There are large snowflake-shaped lights on the house, along with a reindeer, snowman and angel all made of lights.

• The holiday light display at 9605 S.E. 13th St., Vancouver, features music and dancing, and runs from about 5 to 9:30 p.m. nightly.

• The home at 6523 N.E. 52nd St., Vancouver, has been putting up lights the last 15 years, continuing to add more lights and displays each year. The decorations currently have more than 7,500 lights.

Happy Winter Solstice! Happy Yule!

A Winter Solstice Blessing

May you find peace in the promise of the solstice night,
That each day forward is blessed with more light.
That the cycle of nature,
unbroken and true,
Bring faith to your soul and well-being to you.
Rejoice in the darkness,
in the silence find rest,
And many the days that follow be abundantly blessed.
hazak hazak v’nithazek = be strong and let us strengthen each other
As children develop, they brains mirror' their parent's brain. In other words, the parent's own growth and development, or lack of those, impact the child brain. As parents become more aware and emotionally healthy, their children reap the rewards and move toward health as well. - The whole Brain child, Dr. Siegel, Dr. Bryson "...integrating and cultivating your own brain is one of the most loving and generous gifts you can give your children." - - The whole Brain child, Dr. Siegel, Dr. Bryson
Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.
Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose Wisely. - unknown
NO more losing sleep over men who are too weak to love you properly. - r.h.Sin

Thursday, December 20, 2018

How Is The World Reacting To Trump's Decision To Withdraw From Syria?
Defense Secretary Mattis Resigns Amid Syria And Afghanistan Tension
READ: Defense Secretary Jim Mattis' Letter Announcing His Resignation
James Mattis’ Resignation Has Conservatives Admitting It’s ‘Time To Panic’ About Trump
Now It’s Up to Congress
James Mattis’s Final Protest Against the President
James Mattis’s Letter of Resignation
No More Excuses
Jim Mattis' resignation letter is an absolutely stunning rejection of Trumpism
Putin Welcomes U.S. Withdrawal From Syria as ‘Correct’
Trump Is Absolutely Losing His Mind Over Impending Mueller Findings
Defense Secretary James Mattis is quitting because he doesn't agree with Trump
Jim Mattis, Marine General Turned Defense Secretary, Will Leave Pentagon in February
Federal Panel Of Judges Dismisses All 83 Ethics Complaints Against Brett Kavanaugh
Donald Trump might be the stupidest President ever
Trump signed off on Moscow project during campaign, Giuliani now says, I think those 2 will be a great jail cell buddies.
Trump torpedoes funding bill over border wall
What the Collapse of the Trump Foundation Tells Us About Donald Trump
2 More Kansas Republicans Just Left Their Party To Become Democrats
How McKinsey Has Helped Raise the Stature of Authoritarian Governments
Trump 'at this moment' opposes deal to avert shutdown, wants more border funding
Federal Panel Of Judges Dismisses All 83 Ethics Complaints Against Brett Kavanaugh
Judge Who Invalidated Obamacare Has Been A 'Go-To Judge' For Republicans, Critics Say
If Government Shuts Down, 'I Blame It On The Democrats,' Arizona GOP Rep. Says
Warning To Democrats: Most Americans Against U.S. Getting More Politically Correct
People with extreme political views ‘cannot tell when they are wrong’, study finds