Motherhood is not a competition to see who has the cleverest kids, the cleanest house, the healthiest dinners, nicest clothes, newest car or most holidays. Motherhood is your journey with your children. - unknown

There is no such thing as a perfect parent. So just be a real one. - Sue Atkins

The most important thing she'd learned over the years was that there was no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a great one - Jill Churchill

If you're struggling with kids who have bad attitudes with you, remember that you are their safe space. You are their mental dumping ground. You are where they feel most comfortable showing vulnerability, frustration, anger, and sadness. Armor up for them, stay strong, and fight the battles together- Melissa Fenton
Today, I choose to live with gratitude for the love that fills my heart, the peace that live within my spirit, and the voice of hope that says .. all things are possible... - unknown

When we feel love and kindness towards others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace. - Dalai Lama

Do good for others. It will come back in unexpected ways - unknown

I truly appreciate kindness. I appreciate a quick message. I appreciate those who ask if I'm okay. I appreciate people checking up on me. I appreciate every single person in my life who has tried to brighten my days. It's the little things that matter the most. - unknown

A kind gesture can reach a wound the only compassion can heal. - Steve Maraboli

I'm wasting so much time trying to make relationhips perfect when all that's really needed is someone who will laugh with me for the rest of my life. - unknown
DAILY MANTRAS:
-ACCEPTANCE is key now.
-It didn’t work out. I gave 100%
-The breakdown of our relationship happened long before Gabo's birth & it’s for the better.
-I miss him. I miss the family routine.
-He’s not in love with me anymore and I am not IN LOVE with him.
-He treated me terribly & did not care about my feelings.
-He never owned up to his emotional affair. Coward.
-That will continue. Let it go, it doesn’t matter anymore.
-This is who he is. A shell.
-Don’t give him the satisfaction of caring or CRYING in front of him ever again.
-He is free to do as he pleases. Not my business anymore. Stop caring.
-Be strong. Be graceful and dignified.
-Don’t be a victim.
-Be a role model for Gabo. Make him proud.
-Time to accept and move on.
-He didn't have your back and joined in the abuse with his mom to me. Don’t trust him.
-He’s not my guy. He didn't have the back bone to protect me when it was hard times.
-Rise above. I AM FINE & will be better & happier in the long run.
-Stop talking about it. It’s getting old for friends & family. Let it go. Be proud.
-Give thanks and appreciation to all that have supported.
-He is a Dad. Let him be that and only that.
-It’s all business now.
-Refrain from casual texting & communicating.
-Take a break and breath through New Years. There is no rush to do anything now.
-Life will be different. Make it better.
-Do not let my failed relationship define my life.
-Recreate holiday traditions. Make them awesome. This is Gabo’s time.
-Enjoy my time and be PROUD.

Tuesday, October 30, 2018

A new Ikea report is an unsettling look at life in the 21st century
61 things Donald Trump has said about women
Senator: We've all said things like 'horseface'
Eight Stories of Men’s Regret. The Times asked men to share stories of past bad behavior…
How Souls Choose Their Families and Friends Before Birth
Olivia Wilde How I'm raising my son to be a feminist — and my daughter to believe that gender equality isn't controversial
Why Do Some Men Hurt Women? Because They Like To.
The One Piece of Advice Young Women Need
13個「女人一過30歲就會對愛情大改觀」的中肯插畫
10 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW


1. We are all broken, that’s how the light gets in.
2. See that stunning woman over there? She has just as many body hang-up as you do.
3. Don’t look for a hero to save you, sometimes it’s the Princess who slays the dragon.
4. When someone tries to dim your light, show them just how fiercely you can shine.
5. If you feel like second best, walk on out with your head held high.
6. Don’t be fooled by the Facebook facade, everyone wakes up with morning breath.
7. Never compare, that’s for fools. Focus on what makes you, you – and be the freaking best at it.
8. Big up your fellow women, every day. There is room for every star to shimmer.
9. We all have rolls when we bend over and we all eat ice-cream straight from the carton.
10. Never be ashamed to cry, or even leak, for that matter – the female body is 90% water – that’s got to come out somehow right?
Oh and one more…
Don’t waste any precious tears or time on someone who doesn’t see your worth. If they don’t now, they never will. Their loss.
Fact Check: 14th Amendment On Citizenship Cannot Be Overwritten By Executive Order
No Mr. President, You Can’t Change the Constitution by Executive Order
Trump says no other country has birthright citizenship. That's not even close to being true
Rick Scott walks away when asked if he supports Trump ending birthright citizenship
Paul Ryan Dismisses Trump Plan To Void Birthright Citizenship Law By Executive Order
Trump says no other country has birthright citizenship. He’s wrong
Trump says he’s pursuing executive order to end birthright citizenship
Today in Trump’s America: Trump claims he can revoke a constitutional amendment by executive order
Trump Seeks to Curb Birthright Citizenship, Escalating Immigration Debate
Washington AG Bob Ferguson says state will sue if Trump tries to overturn birthright citizenship "No matter how much he may want to appeal to the alt-right, President Trump can’t alter the Constitution through executive order. If he tries, we will immediately take him to court — and defeat him again,” Bob Ferguson, Washington AG
Speaker Ryan: ‘You cannot end birthright citizenship with an executive order’
Trump eyeing executive order to end birthright citizenship, a move most legal experts say runs afoul of the Constitution
Trump Seeks to Limit Birthright Citizenship in Constitution
Trump wants to end birthright citizenship with an executive order
Trump Says He Will Void Birthright Citizenship Law Through Executive Order
Donald Trump meet Wong Kim Ark, the Chinese American cook who is the father of ‘birthright citizenship’
Trump’s birthright citizenship plan is a stunt, but it’s not meaningless
Trump cannot end birthright citizenship, a constitutional right, by executive order — period
Trump eyeing executive order to end birthright citizenship, a move most legal experts say runs afoul of the Constitution
Graham to introduce legislation to end birthright citizenship
Uninvited And Unwelcome: Pittsburgh Protests Trump
The dead of Pittsburgh have apparently fallen victims to brutal anti-Semitic violence. We are shocked but we will not be silenced; we have to stand up to anti-Semitism always and everywhere. My thoughts are with the victims and their families. - Heiko Mass, German Federal foreign Minister Pittsburgh to bury synagogue massacre victims as protesters await Trump
Family of synagogue shooting victim declines meeting with Trump: 'He was blaming the community'

Never beg for love. Never beg for someone to be with you. Never beg someone to come back or stay. Never beg for attention, commitment, affection, time and effort. You should never has to ask to feel wanted. Begging is demanding and degrading. If someone doesn't willingly give you these things, with their arms wide open, they aren't worth it. No one, under any circumstances, is ever worth begging for. - unknown
The moral crisis of our age has nothing to do with gay marriage or abortion; it's insider trading, obscene CEO pay, wage theft from ordinary workers. Wall street's continued gambling addiction, corporate payoffs to friendly politicians, and the billionaire takeover of our democracy. - Robert Reich

Trump is not a la carte. You don't get to pick what you like about him -like judges & tax cuts - and pass on the hateful, violent rhetoric. If you support him & help maintain him in office, you're supporting the whole package; the hate, the division and the stoking of violence. - Adam Jentleson @Ajentleson

I swore never to be silent whenever and wherever human beings endure suffering and humiliation. We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. - Elie Wiesel

“The job facing American voters… in the days and years to come is to determine which hearts, minds and souls command those qualities best suited to unify a country rather than further divide it, to heal the wounds of a nation as opposed to aggravate its injuries, and to secure for the next generation a legacy of choices based on informed awareness rather than one of reactions based on unknowing fear.” ― Aberjhani, Illuminated Corners: Collected Essays and Articles Volume I

The ideal subject of totalitarian rule is not the convinced Nazi or the dedicated communist, but people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction, true and false, not longer exist. - Hannah Arendt

One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors. - Plato.
Hate Is Not What America Stands For The Tariff President Says 'We Don't Have Tariffs' The EPA Says Radiation Isn't So Bad Monologue: Peak Florida | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO)
Old Voting Machines Confuse Some Texans During Midterm Election
Georgia election fight shows that black voter suppression, a southern tradition, still flourishes
Reports of Voter Intimidation at Polling Places in Texas
Calling on Brian Kemp to Resign, Jimmy Carter Says Being a Candidate While Also Controlling Election Process Violates 'Most Fundamental Principle' of Democracy
Jimmy Carter wades into Georgia governor’s race
Trump, Republicans Continue Remaking The Federal Courts — Even As Senate On Recess
Some Texans say voting machines are flipping selections to the other party
Alaska governor Walker suspends campaign, endorses Democrat Begich
Georgia’s Kemp Purged 340,134 Voters, Falsely Asserting They Had Moved
Federal Judge Bars Georgia From Disenfranchising Voters on the Basis of Amateur Handwriting Analysis
The Supreme Court stepped in to stall a climate lawsuit. That’s really weird.
Exclusive: In Leaked Audio, Brian Kemp Expresses Concern Over Georgians Exercising Their Right to Vote
Young People Are Suing the Trump Administration Over Climate Change. She’s Their Lawyer.
Inaction over climate change is shameful
Republican Voter Suppression Efforts Are Targeting Minorities, Journalist Says
GOP nominee for Georgia governor is worried people might vote, leaked audio reveals
Who’s Allowed to Vote in Georgia?
How Billionaires Bought Kavanaugh’s Seat on the Supreme Court
Georgia county tosses out hundreds of minority absentee ballots
Supreme Court Grants Government’s Extraordinary Appeal, Pauses Kids Climate Case
Rex Murphy: Why the Kavanaugh case still troubles me, even if no one else cares
GOP candidate improperly purged 340,000 from Georgia voter rolls, investigation claims
107,000 purged from Georgia voter rolls for not voting in past elections: report
How restrictive voting requirements target minorities
In darkness we look for light. In times of turmoil and fear we turn towards hope and action. That's what this rainbow reminded me of in the midst of the stormy weather today and in our world! Look for the rainbow, be the change, walk together! - Rabbi Eve Posen
When a child gives you a gift, even if it is a rock they just picked up, exude gratitude. It might be the only thing they have to give, and they have chosen to give it to you. - Dean Jackson

The way we speak to our child matters, for those words travel beyond their ears, settling into the creases of their hears and the crevices of their self-worth. - unknown
If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit. - Banksy

Never regret a day in your life: good days give happiness, bad days give experience, worst days give lessons, and best days give memories. - POP

A strong person is one who can build a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at them. - FB/PSP
She was never crazy. She just didn't let her heart settle in a cage. She was born wild, and sometimes we need people like her. For it's the horrors in her heart which cause the flames in ours. And she was always willing to burn for everything she has ever loves. - r. m. drake

You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. -Maya Angelou

The stronger you become, the gentler you will be. - unknown

One day, she finally grasped that unexpected things were always going to happen in life. And with that, she realized the only control she had was how she chose to handle them. So, she made the decision to survive under courage, humor and grace. She was the queen of her own life and the chose was hers. - Kathy Kinney

Be you, the world will adjust.

In the end, we'll all become stories. - Margaret Atwood

If nothing ever changed, there'd be no butterflies. - unknown
Report: President Trump Barely Works at All
Trump’s Approval Rating Plunges Amid Wave of Pre-Midterm Violence
9 hours of ‘Executive Time’: Trump’s unstructured days define his presidency
Trump’s grip on power depends on splitting the nation in two
Military to Deploy 5,000 Troops to Southern Border
A conspiracy theory about George Soros and a migrant caravan inspired horror
Trump falsely claims NYSE reopened the day after 9/11 to justify holding rally
Trump again stoking anger at Democrats, media
Bomb Suspect Cesar Sayoc ‘Wanted To Go Back To The Hitler Days,’ Former Boss Says
Trump’s Caravan Hysteria Led to This
Republicans trumpet pre-existing condition protections despite votes to repeal Obamacare
The hack gap: how and why conservative nonsense dominates American politics
Never mind the facts. White House says it gets an A+ on environmental issues
Mexicans shower the caravan with kindness — and tarps, tortillas and medicine
GOP congressman sympathizes with Austrian far-right after Auschwitz visit
Pipe Bomb Suspect’s Van Covered With Pro-Trump Messages
Trump Proposes to Lower Drug Prices by Basing Them on Other Countries’ Costs
Trump’s Complaint: Bomb Plot Coverage Overtakes His Campaign Rhetoric
There Will Be No Middle-Class Tax Cut This Week. Or Next Month.
Warriors coach Steve Kerr on state of America: 'We’re broken right now'
Facebook will ban misinformation around voting during the midterm elections
Obama rips Trump: 'It's wrong to spend all your time from a position of power vilifying people'

#neveragain

The Fetishization of Mr. Rogers’s ‘Look for the Helpers’
A Week Of American Hate: Bombs Mailed, Black People Executed, Jews Slaughtered
Eli Saslow Traces A 'Straight Line' From White Nationalism To The Synagogue Shooter
Trump Shut Programs to Counter Violent Extremism
A Massacre in the Heart of Mr. Rogers’s Neighborhood
Enough platitudes: Let’s name names
Jewish Leaders In Pittsburgh Say Trump Not Welcome There
'Respond to evil with good’: Muslim community raises money for victims of synagogue shooting
‘He is not welcome here’: Thousands support Pittsburgh Jewish leaders calling on Trump to ‘denounce white nationalism’
Trump Is the Glue That Binds the Far Right
< Pittsburghers treat each other as one community. We should all learn from them
We Pittsburgh Jews don't want your thoughts and prayers "Keep your facile words. Instead, show us some balls. Stand up, don't cozy up, to the purveyors of hate, to the NRA, to the cowardly politicians who legitimized the synagogue shooter's sentiments "
Let’s stop asking Trump for comfort after tragedies
Blaming Victims For Mail Bombs Carries Echoes Of Civil Rights Bombings
A Doctor Who Died In The Pittsburgh Shooting Is Being Remembered As A Hero To Patients During The AIDS Crisis
a href="https://www.haaretz.com/us-news/muslim-groups-raise-for-thousands-for-pittsburgh-synagogue-victims-1.6601152">Within Hours, Muslim Groups Raise Thousands for Pittsburgh Synagogue Victims
Enough is enough: Fed-up Americans crave unity amid violence
Pittsburgh Synagogue Shooter Identified As Robert Bowers, Yelled ‘All Jews Must Die’ As He Opened Fire, Now Facing Federal Charges
Muslim groups raise thousands for Pittsburgh synagogue shooting victims
Remembering the 11 Slain in Synagogue Massacre: 'We've All Just Been Crying Endlessly'
Trump Says ‘They Probably Will Never’ Give Him The Nobel Peace Prize
Israel's Chief Rabbi Refuses to Call Pittsburgh Massacre Site a Synagogue Because It's non-Orthodox
The Synagogue Killings Mark a Surge of Anti-Semitism

Eason and The Duo Band - L.O.V.E is L.I.F.E 音樂會 27/10/2018

幸福摩天輪 live@Eason and The Duo Band - L.O.V.E is L.I.F.E 音樂會 27/10/2018

Lady Gaga, Bradley Cooper - I'll Never Love Again (A Star Is Born)

Lady Gaga, Bradley Cooper - I'll Never Love Again (A Star Is Born) Lady Gaga, Bradley Cooper - Shallow (A Star Is Born) Always Remember Us This Way Lady Gaga - Is That Alright? (A Star Is Born)

I learn that we are not meant to be.. you didn't life me, you pushed me down, down down down to my grave.

Lady Gaga - I'll Never Love Again (A Star Is Born)
"There is only one ethics, one set of rules of morality, one code: That of individual behavior in which the same rules apply to everyone alike." ~ Peter Drucker

Equate rights for others does not mean less rights for you. It's not a pie. - unknown

The rains...

"And all at once, summer collapsed into fall....." - Oscar Wilde
"If you can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if you can't walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” - Martin Luther King Jr.
Sending love to everyone who's trying their best to heal from things that they don't discuss. -unknown

Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk Humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it. - The Talmud

I sat with my anger long enough, until she told me her real name was grief. - unknown

Hello! Havea piece of chocolate!

Happy National Chocolate Day!
F-Bombs and Real Bombs. Our problem isn’t “incivility.” It’s right-wing violence.
“Whites Don’t Shoot Whites”: Gunman Who Killed Two in Kentucky Allegedly Let a Man Go Because of Race
White men can be terrorists, too
The NRA Supported Gun Control When the Black Panthers Had the Weapons
After playing nice for one afternoon, Trump wakes to blame the media for bombings
Political violence has no place in U.S., Trump says of suspicious packages
Study shows two-thirds of U.S. terrorism tied to right-wing extremists
Ex-CIA officer Phil Mudd: Trump is responsible for the bombs sent to Demorats whether the White House wants him to be or not
4 Members of Violent White Supremacist Group Face Riot Charges, Federal Authorities Say
The White House has to do more than condemn the crazies
Trump Takes No Responsibility For Political Climate; Blames Media - News & Guts Media
Pipe Bombs Sent to Biden and Robert De Niro, Latest Trump Critics Targeted
Trump wants us to be at war with one another. His latest rage-tweets confirm it.
Trump: Acts Or Threats Of Political Violence 'An Attack On Democracy Itself'
4 White Supremacists Face Federal Charges In California Attacks
After Suspicious Packages, Trump Urges Civility While Blaming 'Fake News' Media
America has a right-wing terrorism problem
Federal Lawsuit Alleges Trump's Threats Against The Press Are Unconstitutional
Racist Woman Harasses Family for Speaking Spanish in VA Restaurant
The apparent attempts at terrorist bombings were absolutely predictable
WAPO Opinion: The apparent attempts at terrorist bombings were absolutely predictable
Video Shows Woman Harassing Family For Speaking Spanish In Restaurant
‘Go back to your country’: Woman yells obscenities at family speaking Spanish at Virginia restaurant; so now we are yelling at tourists too...
The Eugenics Crusade
Geneticists Criticize Use of Science by White Nationalists to Justify ‘Racial Purity’
I'm not built for no soft ass man. I talk back and I do not listen. - unknown

Sometimes you need to stop seeing the good in people and start seeing what they show you... - unknown
We don't know who sent the bombs. We do know this. Words of incitement do incite. Words of encouragement for acts of violence lead to more violence. Words matter. This is not a game. - David Axelrod @davidaxelrod

I am enough.

My New Years resolution is to stop wondering if I'm good enough for other people and start wondering if they're good enough for me. - unknown

How amazing it is to find someone who wants to hear about all the things that go on in your head. - Nina LaCour
Exploring Transition: Artist Shu-Ju Wang
“A lot of my work is about the profound and catastrophic changes in our lives, whether it’s health, or aging, or the environment or immigration. You know, we’re all going through transformations every day." - Shu-Ju Wang, Painting & Book Arts
Don't try to change people. Make a realistic decision about where they fit in your life based on who they are, not who you want them to be. - Tinny Buddha

Sometimes you don't realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest weakness. - Susan Gale

God, who foresaw your tribulation, has specially armed you to go through it, not without pain, but without stain. - C. S. Lewis

Your diet is not only what you eat. It's what you watch, what you listen to, what your read, the people you hang around. Be mindful of the things you put into your body emotionally, spiritually and physically. - Tiny Buddha

The ideals which have lighted my way, and time after time have given me new courage to face life cheerfully, have been kindness, beauty and truth. - Einstein

Tuesday, October 23, 2018

Alert: Don't Believe Everything You Read About the Migrant Caravan
Trump has whipped up a frenzy on the migrant caravan. Here are the facts.
Fox News’ Shepard Smith: Trump Campaigns On Public ‘Fear Of An Invasion Of Migrants’
President Trump Is Making Baseless Claims About the Migrant Caravan. Here Are the Facts
CNN's New Day: "President Trump is waging a fact-free campaign of fear ahead of the midterm elections"
The Caravan to Nowhere
What we know about the latest migrant caravan traveling through Mexico
The Caravan Is a Challenge to the Integrity of U.S. Borders
Fact checkers identify increasing rates of false claims by the president
FACT CHECK: President Trump's False Claims On Migrant Caravan, Tax Cuts
Trump Is Not Going to Cut Middle-Class Taxes This Year, Despite What He Says
Will there be any Republican women left after Trump's presidency? YES, plenty.. I work with many of them.
Democrats Still Have a Good Shot at Taking the House, But the Senate Is an Uphill Battle
I’m a Teacher in a Red State. The Teachers’ Strike Turned My Ballot Blue.
How This Will End
At George Soros’s Home in N.Y. Suburb, Explosive Device Is Found in Mailbox
Trump Says ‘I'm a Nationalist’ in Appeal to Texas Republicans
Man Invokes Trump Defense After Allegedly Groping Woman During Houston Flight
Trump: 'You know what I am? I'm a nationalist'
Ted Cruz’s Emergency Rally Had Very Little Talk of Ted Cruz
New Report Shows Trump's Tax Cut Favored Wealthy Whites
The Cruelty Is the Point
Paul Volcker, at 91, Sees ‘a Hell of a Mess in Every Direction’
AP FACT CHECK: Blue high-tax states fund red low-tax states
A Quick Correction of Donald Trump’s Standard Stump Speech
‘The President ... says it’s ok to grab women by their private parts’: Man accused of groping woman on flight invokes Trump