Sunday, December 31, 2017

Here to 2018!

"Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love." -- Hamilton Wright Mabie
Gary O. I wish you a happy retirement. You played a big part in my journey at. Wow.

Wednesday, December 27, 2017

"I've been thinking about this over the holidays... Santa needs a makeover. In my house, I am Santa. I pick a time and place to get the tree. I manage and do most of the decorating. I buy the decorations. I plan all of the fun holiday events (going to see Xmas lights, going to see Santa, etc). I play holiday music and movies. I buy the presents for the kids, husband, & extended family. I make and send out the Xmas card. I plan Xmas breakfast and dinner. I make cookies on Christmas Eve. Ask yourself who does this in your family. If the answer is Mom/Wife, she is Santa." - M. Bond

Monday, December 25, 2017

This is how I feel about my child.

"The cleverness of the child born [from the union] is commensurate with the love they felt toward each other during relations." - Siddur Beit Yaakov, R. Yaakov Emden, Hanhagat Leil Shabbat, Mitot HaKesef
I’M TRYING TO FIND A POEM ABOUT CHRISTMAS THAT I ACTUALLY LIKE
but they are mostly dated and filled with words like thine and o’er and behold. And yes, I do want something about the snow, and the light as it falls on the snow, but I could do without the angels today, or anything unreachable that’s supposed to be looking out for us down here. And yes, I do want something about the trees, both outside and inside, and about the singing, and about the laying out of the table, or the looping of ribbons, or the tucking in of children. But I’m wishing we could leave God out of it. It’s not God’s job to hang out with us right now and fix things. I want something that uses filling stockings as a metaphor for choosing small kindnesses to tuck into each person’s heart. Something that reminds us that the horse knows the way, so if we could just find that horse and hold on, we’ll come out of all this OK. Something that, yes, is filled with the glistening and the sparkling and all things aglow, because As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky— Yes, that’s the kind of thing I want, all of us outrunning the storm that’s pushing us out of the year, and we’re climbing right over the tired pile of reindeer to what’s really up there for us. The snow coming down. The way we shape it with our hands and throw. —from Poets Respond December 24, 2017
"The purpose of life is to discover your gift. The work of life is to develop it. The meaning of life is to give your gift away." - David Viscott

Gratitude

"Life can feel pretty overwhelming at times. Gratitude has the power to turn what we have into more than enough. It can convert daily occurrences into blessings, and duties into joy. The more gratitude we express, we often find that we have more to be grateful for. To put it in Bar Method terms -gratitude is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets." - Bar method practitioner.
"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
"If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, Infinite." - William Blake
"When the rhythm of the heart becomes hectic, Time takes on the strain until it breaks; Then all the unattended stress falls in On the mind like an endless, increasing weight.." - John O’Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us
For One Who Is Exhausted, a Blessing

Thursday, December 21, 2017

"THE OBLIGATION FOR WORKING MOTHERS IS A VERY PRECISE ONE THE FEELING THAT ONE OUGHT TO WORK AS IF ONE DID NOT HAVE CHILDREN WHILE RAISING ONE'S CHILDREN AS IF ONE DID NOT HAVE A JOB." ANNABEL CRABB, THE WIFE DROUGHT

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U.N. Votes Overwhelmingly To Condemn U.S. Decision On Jerusalem
Trump's bullying and bluster on Jerusalem is bad news for the UN
UN votes resoundingly to reject Trump's recognition of Jerusalem as capital
UN votes to condemn Trump's Jerusalem decision "Some of the United States' closest allies moved to condemn the decision. The United Kingdom, France, Germany and Japan, among others, voted in favor of the resolution. Other allies, like Canada, Mexico and Australia, abstained. "
Canada to abstain from UN vote condemning Trump Jerusalem move
Nikki Haley’s Right: Time to Start ‘Taking Names’ at the U.N.. Although the writer of this article is in support of your action, Bully Nikki Haley, you have 128 names to take.
'US Will Be Taking Names' Of U.N. Votes On Jerusalem Resolution

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

‘Hanukkah is about the spark of divine in all of us made in God’s image.’ - Suzanne Fields

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

‘Keep your flame lit, and you will never feel darkness.’ - J Parker

So true so true... take that Mister.

It's not what people say that offends us, it's what we hear. #mondaymusings - K.C. from L.C.
‘Never fear shadows. They simply mean there’s a light shining somewhere nearby.’ Ruth E Renkel

Thank you. Neveh Shalom

“Against an age of alienation, isolation and polarization, we are building a community of connection and encounter. Our goal is to fulfill the prophet Isaiah’s dream: Neveh Shalom will be a house for people of all backgrounds, orientations, genders and viewpoints. We will then share our culture with the larger community and world.” – Rabbi David Kosak

Sunday, December 17, 2017

“That's how we're gonna win. Not fighting what we hate, saving what we love." - Star Wars: The Last Jedi , 2018
‘The most incredible thing about miracles is that they happen.’ - G K Chesterton
Happy Hanukkah! May we all be filled by the miracles of light, laughter, and latkes.
‘Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.’ - Anthony J D’Angelo

Cingulomania

real and surreal
The path to enlightenment is not a path at all, it's actually a metaphor for the time it takes for you to allow yourself to be happy with who you already are, where you already are, and what you already have... no matter what. Just do it, The Universe

Thursday, December 14, 2017

How to Be a Parent Your Child Wants to Talk To
Yes, It’s Your Parents’ Fault Punishment?
"Real happiness comes from within, from a strong sense of self, from growing as a human being, from being a decent person. So if your core self is rotten, if you are severely disconnected, if you are not growing, and if you are a hurtful person, it’s impossible to be genuinely happy. The best you can do is desperately manage your shaky and skewed false self. So what’s a malignant narcissist’s punishment? It’s their existence. It’s their inner prison. It’s waking up every day into their life that—despite possessions, power, and status symbols that they may have—they hate deep down. And then one day they die, and it’s all over. That’s the sad reality of a wasted and miserable life. And that’s their natural punishment. " What’s a Narcissist’s Punishment?
The Surprising Effects of Loneliness on Health
8 Things A Parent Should Never Say To Their Child.. so glad that I don't use it.
As Marriage Standards Change, A Therapist Recommends 'Rethinking Infidelity'
How A Deregulated Internet Could Hurt America's Classrooms
6 Tactics Narcissists Will Use To Silence You
Can Your Ceramic Cookware Give You Lead Poisoning?
Where's the Christmas Magic When You're Broke?
This Year, Consider Giving Presence Instead Of Presents
Could Probiotics Protect Kids From A Downside Of Antibiotics?
'Messages of Shame Are Organized Around Gender'
Gender Stereotypes Are Messing with Your Kid
Shaming Children Is Emotionally Abusive
10 ways to absolutely improve toddler communication
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.” - R. Buckminster Fuller
‘We light candles in testament that faith makes miracles possible.’ - Nacho Braverman
Happiness is when, one doesn't need to seek outside validation to feel accepted. In your heart, you know you are good enough. - #ScienceOfHappiness
"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward
Retweeted Matt Oswalt (@MattOswaltVA): I hope Roy Moore's defeat is a lesson to all Republicans that no matter how many kids you fuck NEVER admit to having a jew lawyer Retweeted Kumail Nanjiani (@kumailn): Hey @MooreSenate, please don’t take the wrong way. But go fuck yourself. It’ll be the first time you’ll be doing that to someone your own age. Alabama, you are close to making me relieved. I cannot say proud since half a million people just voted for Moore...but you are close to giving me relief (and possibly hope). - C.J.G.
"Happy Chanukah, everyone. I don't care if you're Jewish or not. This year, it's a holy day for all those who refuse to allow monstrous asshats who have seized power to defile our most cherished institutions." - Wilhelmina Spicehandler

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

‘There are two ways of spreading light, to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.’- Edith Wharton
Don't compare your life to others. There's no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time. - healthyplace.com
Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dream. - Paulo Coelho

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

‘We cannot hold a torch to light another’s path without brightening our own.’- Ben Sweetland

Monday, December 11, 2017

The Myth Of Trump's Economic Populism, As Proved By The Tax Bill
Trump Watches Up To 8 Hours Of TV Per Day
Truck Ad Featuring Ivanka Trump Bashing Roy Moore Trolls Dad’s Rally
Cory Booker Calls On Donald Trump To Resign Over Sexual Misconduct Allegations
GOP bill would eliminate student loan forgiveness for public service
Tax Bill Could Offer New Way To Funnel Political Cash — And Make It Tax-Deductible
Senate Republicans Made a $289 Billion Mistake in the Handwritten Tax Bill They Passed at 2 a.m. Go Figure.
Living with the Republican Tax Plan
Gay man who was denied marriage license by Kim Davis is running for her job
For the first time in 7 years, there are more homeless in US .. the tax plan will add that to the housing crisis.. good luck to us all. Kim Davis Once Denied Him A Marriage License. Now Kentucky Man Seeks Her Job.I hope he will win. As GOP Lawmakers Eye Cutting Estate Tax, Will They Increase Income Inequality?
House Passes Bill To Allow 'Concealed Carry' Across State Lines
Religious Leaders Divided Over Trump's Jerusalem Decision
Former S.C. Officer Who Killed Walter Scott Sentenced To 20 Years In Prison...finally... justice!
Conyers Resigns Amid Sexual Harassment Allegations. When Sexual Harassment allegations hit the democratic Politicians, they resigned, apologized and took the blame. When Sexual harassment allegations hit the GOP, they said the women lied and they could just kept "grab their pussy".
Sen. Al Franken Announces He Will Resign 'In The Coming Weeks'
For LGBTQ People Of Color, Discrimination Compounds
Poll: Asian-Americans See Individuals' Prejudice As Big Discrimination Problem
Homeless Population Rises, Driven By West Coast Affordable-Housing Crisis
Trump Administration Delays Decision On Race, Ethnicity Data For Census
Is Trump Waging A Hidden Campaign Against Mitt Romney?
Trump Orders Largest National Monument Reduction In U.S. History
POLL: Trump's Opposition Firmer Than His Support
Is This The Right Time For a Big Tax Cut?
To create one's own world takes courage - Georgia O'Keeffe
"We get so fixated on the job we want or the person we’re dating because we don’t think there will be another. But there’s always another." - Modren Love, The New York Times

2018 goal

"Be regular and orderly in your life, so that you may be violent and original in your work." - Gustave Flaubert

Saturday, December 09, 2017

Happy Birthday! I love you so much my loving son!

For my beloved, you are my shining star. Dear son, I want you to know Day after day, as you grow Lose your fears, not your confidence Make meaning of, your existence Say goodbye, to every worry Live life king size and be carefree These are words, that may be few But to live well, they will guide you I love you I always wish the best for you in life As you deserve every bit in strive Baby stay as you are so loving You are my most adorable son I love you so much! I can’t put into words How much I love you But it’s enough to fill The skies above so blue How happy you make me I cannot express Without you my life Would be worthless I love you
When your mind is grounded in whatever in front of you no situation is too devastating to handle. The devastation is when the mind runs to the past (comparing and regretting) or the future (what it means in or anticipating the future). Don't look back nor anticipate, nothing is that hard anymore. That's how I lead a stress-free life. One thing at a time, right here right now. - Katarina Phang
Be Strong Enough To Let Go And Patient Enough To Wait For What You Deserve - lifehack.org
"Please consider wrapping fewer presents this season for people that do not really need anything, and giving more to organizations and people that really do need help."- K.A.
"Being happy never goes out of style." - Lilly Pulitzer

Wednesday, December 06, 2017

Monday, December 04, 2017

Republicans in Congress have complained about the deficit for eight years. (Before that, they famously passed W’s tax cuts without cutting spending leading to massive deficits.) Tonight, they have chosen to pass a tax cut that - on its face - results in a massive deficit and (assuming that the tax cuts to everyone who isn’t a corporate entity) are continued, even larger deficits in the future. They did this with the vague assertions that “economic growth” would pay for the cuts. They have failed to offer even one economic projection that supports this. Neither party has clean hands on this issue. And the deficit is a growing problem that absolutely must be addressed. But it is sickening to watch this form of hypocrisy. Exactly what does the (national) Republican Party stand for if it cedes all pretense of fiscal responsibility and flagrantly ignores nonpartisan budget office projections? I’m not convinced there is much left in that shell that isn’t encapsulated as “social issues.” --- CJ Graves

Friday, December 01, 2017

“You’re not on a quest to save the world but to save yourself.. and in doing so, you save the world” - Joseph Campbell

We are crossing this one off

Great wolf lodge
Live life to the fullest. Always love yourself. - R. Jain
Spread the love, we have for each other! It's not a huge thing to ask, but the impacts might turn into a tidal wave the further this action gets out of our hands! Be good, and sow good things through your actions! - Peter K.
Woodland woman starts Ladle of Love to feed those in need
Cowlitz County joins lawsuit over methanol permit decision , it is fascinating to see how local Politics mingle with business and in the mix of economical growth, environment, energy and trade.
Without Chinese Buyers, Northwest Recycling Becomes Trash

I love it.

" None of us are getting out of here alive, so please stop treating yourself like an after thought. Eat the delicious food. Walk in the sunshine. Walk in the ocean. Say the truth you are carrying in your heart like hidden treasure. Be silly. Be kind. Be weird. There's no time for anything else" Anthony Hopkins

My mantra of December

Our goal is to create a beloved community and this will require a qualitative change in our souls as well as a quantitative change in our lives. ~ Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Love is creative and redemptive. Love builds up and unites; hate tears down and destroys. The aftermath of the ‘fight with fire’ method which you suggest is bitterness and chaos, the aftermath of the love method is reconciliation and creation of the beloved community. Physical force can repress, restrain, coerce, destroy, but it cannot create and organize anything permanent; only love can do that. Yes, love—which means understanding, creative, redemptive goodwill, even for one’s enemies—is the solution to the race problem. —Martin Luther King, Jr., 1957
But the end is reconciliation; the end is redemption; the end is the creation of the beloved community. It is this type of spirit and this type of love that can transform opposers into friends. The type of love that I stress here is not eros, a sort of esthetic or romantic love; not philia, a sort of reciprocal love between personal friends; but it is agape which is understanding goodwill for all men. It is an overflowing love which seeks nothing in return. It is the love of God working in the lives of men. This is the love that may well be the salvation of our civilization. from “The Role of the Church in Facing the Nation's Chief Moral Dilemma,” 1957