"In the end only kindness matter." - unknown.. needed to remind self a lot this week!!!

How to Make Yourself Fall in Love — or Out of Love
No Bad Kids – Toddler Discipline Without Shame (9 Guidelines)
Debunking 12 Myths About Relationships. Dr. John Gottman identifies 12 beliefs that hinder our ability to have healthy and happy relationships. LOVE ALL THESE !2 POINTS
Is Watching Your Kid Grow Up Supposed To Hurt This Bad?Is Watching Your Kid Grow Up Supposed To Hurt This Bad?
5 reasons why I am not a crunchy mom.
Behold The Most On-Point Kid’s Menu, Ever
Watch This IKEA Commercial At Your Own Risk, Moms
In 'You're The Worst,' Even The Most Flawed Characters Find Love
"Be happy, You never know how much time you have left."- POP My Toddler Can’t Party: Socializing in the Age of Parenting
6 Steps to Mindfully Deal With Difficult Emotions
3-Year-Olds Are Kinda the Worst and Here's Why
"If you mock someone's broken English and you don't speak at least 2 languages fluently then you're a douche bag of monumental proportions." - Unknown The New Preschool Is Crushing Kids
"Anyone can show up when you're happy. But the ones who stay by your side when your heart falls apart, they are your true friends." - Brigitte Nicole 5 Compassionate Phrases to Help a Mom in Need (And We’re All in Need)
"In all kind of relationships, people have conflicts and disagreements and hurts one another's feelings. What determines the success of the relationship is the way people deal with conflict." - John and Julie Gotten. It's It is not nearly as important in a relationship how much people fight, as to how they repair. 5 Things Psychopaths Say To Make You Feel Crazy
two ways to stop your downward parenting spiral
How to Stop Listening to Your “Bad Mom” Inner Critic
Take a Time Out from Time Outs
14 Helpful Bath Toys For Babies & Toddlers That Make Bath Time Easy For You
Sir Ken Robinson: How to Create a Culture For Valuable Learning
My Kid's Dad Changed A Diaper One Time, So It Makes Sense That He's Instantly Famous

#Iamwithher

Jewish Elders Warn Their Grandchildren: Vote For Hillary, ‘We’ve Seen This Before’
Clinton says no to Trump’s sex talk
Gary Johnson Is a Moron (And If You Vote For Him, You Are Too)
Michelle Obama just went off on Donald Trump
Here’s A List Of Hillary Clinton’s Accomplishments, So Quit Saying She Doesn’t Have Any, She is a hero to many.
USA TODAY's Editorial Board: Trump is 'unfit for the presidency'

Megyn Kelly lectures Kellyanne Conway like a child for whining that Hillary isn’t playing ‘nice’

The Ladies Of ‘The View’ Just STEAMROLLED Trump’s Campaign Manager, And It’s GLORIOUS
Trump FURIOUS After Journalist Questions His Sexism, Stops Her In The Most DISGUSTING Way (VIDEO)
‘The Daily Show’ Digs Up Creepy Clip of Trump Defending a Statutory Rape
Donald Trump Looks For New Campaign Manager After She ADMITTED He Abused Women
Will These Anti-Trump Ads Be the Killer Spots of the 2016 Campaign?
Republicans to Trump: Keep Lewinsky out of it
Voting for a third party candidate in this election is the worst thing you can do for American democracy
Sympathy for the Donald
This Glorious Mexican Beer Ad Trolled the Shit Out of Trump
Mexican Magazine Letras Libres Declares Donald Trump an "American Fascist"
Obama warns: 'If you don't vote, that's a vote for Trump'
A Grain Of Saul: I Wrote That I Despised Hillary Clinton. Today, I Want To Publicly Take It Back.
I sold Trump $100,000 worth of pianos. Then he stiffed me.
Next Week's New Yorker Cover Goes After Trump in the Most Perfect Way Possible

'Cup Noodles' Turns 45: A Closer Look At The Revolutionary Ramen Creation
Our Robot Overlords Are Now Delivering Pizza, And Cooking It On The Go
CDC Urges Americans To Get A Flu Shot As Soon As Possible
Hear Something, Say Something: Navigating The World Of Racial Awkwardness
Portland’s Der Rheinlander to close after 53 years
Young Girl's Emotional Council Speech Laments 'Shame' of Fatal Charlotte Shooting
Shimon Peres’s Reflections on War, Peace and Life
"For peace, one must remember: As a bird cannot fly with one wing, as a man cannot applaud with one hand, so a country cannot make peace just with one side, with itself. For peace, we need the two of us." -- Shimon Peres The Secret Life of Trees: The Astonishing Science of What Trees Feel and How They Communicate
【太和的後裔】推倒2700萬工程始於6個人　市場推廣模式自救
The crazy price of college textbooks is pushing more US universities to adopt an “open-source” solution

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"Loose lips sink ships. You got that Trump?" - John Warner

Trump? How Could We?
Chelsea Clinton Slams Donald Trump After He Threatens to Discuss Her Father's Infidelity
Trump threatens to attack the Clintons' marriage—Chelsea Clinton has the perfect response
Trump's Abdication of Personal Responsibility
Former Va. Sen. John Warner slams Trump during Clinton endorsement
Donald Trump’s history of corruption: a comprehensive review
ROSIE O’DONNELL RESPONDS TO TRUMP’S DEBATE SMEAR AND IT IS HILARIOUS (VIDEO)
Alicia Machado, former Miss Universe insulted by Trump, emerges as forceful Clinton ally
John Oliver Tears Into Donald Trump's Scandals: "Ethically Compromised to an Almost Unprecedented Degree.”
Endorsement: Hillary Clinton is the only choice to move America ahead
THE MODEL FOR DONALD TRUMP’S MEDIA RELATIONS IS JOSEPH MCCARTHY
Popular Christian Author Is Downright Baffled By Evangelical Support For Trump
Why Donald Trump Should Not Be President
Donald Trump lies. All the time.
Bloomberg TV to fact check debate on-screen
Zach Galifianakis explains why he would NEVER invite Donald Trump to be 'Between Two Ferns' guest
Trump Campaign Manager: He Didn’t ‘Lie’ About Lester Holt, He Spoke Without Knowing the Truth
Clinton is preparing for the debate. Trump isn't. That matters.
DONALD TRUMP EITHER LIED TO THE REPUBLICANS OR BROKE THE LAW (EXCLUSIVE)
Hillary Clinton for President from NYT
This Journalist’s Open Letter To Trump Supporters Just Set The Internet On Fire
A Week of Whoppers From Donald Trump
Enquirer: It has to be Hillary Clinton
20 million would lose health coverage under Trump plan, study says

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, VIC!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

Placing boundaries can be painful and you are worth it. Do not accept less than the love you deserve.- E. Lane

Debate 1 #Mansplaining #manterrupting, and #MasculinitySoFragile

The Lies Trump Told
Hillary Clinton’s 7 subtle and not-so-subtle tricks for baiting Donald Trump
Hillary Clinton's Face While Listening to Trump Rant Is Everything
Bill Maher’s #DebateNight Live Tweetstorm Was The Most Glorious Trump Takedown EVER
How Hillary Clinton lured Donald Trump’s sexism out into the open
Howard Dean Just Doubled Down On Trump’s Possible Cocaine Use
Troll armies rig polls to deceive you into believing Trump won first debate
Donald Trump Attacked Clinton’s ‘Stamina’ And Her Response Was Absolutely Brilliant
The Entire Audience Laughs At Trump When He Mentions His ‘Best Asset’
Minutes After The Debate Ended Trump Took To Twitter To Claim He Was Cheated, GOP sure liked to take about all the distraction talking points
Donald Trump absolutely did say global warming is a Chinese hoax
Op-Ed How do you stop Donald Trump from interrupting? Cut his mic.
Last night’s debate, or the mansplaining Olympics
Trump Gives PATHETIC Reason For Why He Sucked At Debate (TWEET)
The US presidential debates need British moderators
This was the most important moment of the first presidential debate
Stop Pretending You Don’t Know Why People Hate Hillary Clinton
Hillary Clinton won the first presidential debate, and it wasn't even close
Clinton CRUSHES Trump in post-debate polls
Live Fact Check: Trump And Clinton Debate For The First Time
The first debate featured an unprepared man repeatedly shouting over a highly prepared woman
Surgeon General warns: Drinking every time Trump lies during debate could result in acute alcohol poisoning
10 Times Women Wanted To Throw Things At The TV During The Debate
Tonight’s US presidential debate will be shown in gender studies classes for years to come
Trump interrupted Clinton 25 times in the first 26 minutes of the debate
Donald Trump Couldn’t Stop Interrupting Hillary Clinton On Debate Night
Donald Trump regularly incites political violence and is a serial liar, rampant xenophobe, racist, misogynist and birther who has repeatedly pledged to ban all Muslims — 1.6 billion members of an entire religion — from entering the U.S.

Lovely, do not fear, Open your heart. Received the light. You are protected. You are loved. -LYMP.com

Pretty cool stuff

Places in Canada you won't believe actually exist
Falling behind by staying in place: Portland's prosperity bypasses many
The untold stories of Japanese war brides
George W. Bush Interrupted Obama To Ask Him To Snap A Picture Of Him And It Was Amazing
What Michelle Obama Just Did To George W. Bush Is Breaking The Internet
Changes To Canadian Passport Rules May Inconvenience Dual Citizens
A Musical Literacy Program Combating Violence in the Middle East
'He Will Be Our Brother': Boy, 6, Asks Obama To Bring Syrian Boy To Live With Him

Living the present

A Harvard psychologist explains why forcing positive thinking won’t make you happy
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Is Incomplete — There’s a Final, Forgotten Stage
The Benefits of Getting Comfortable With Uncertainty
Here's why happy couples post less about their relationships on social media
How ‘Deprogramming’ Kids From How to ‘Do School’ Could Improve Learning
10 Tips For Helping Your Child Cope With Bedwetting, reading ahead.
Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children play is serious learning. Play is really the work of childhood. - Fred Rogers Read more at: http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/f/fredrogers193081.html The Gray Rock method of dealing with psychopaths
“If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.” - Lao Tzu What defines us is how well we rise after falling. -POP 6 Ways Aggressive People Try to Control You
8 Signs Of A Narcissist
"To need to be seen, to be heard, to be valued is simply to be human." - L.R.Knost ("Everyday in a hundred small ways our child ask, "do you see me?" "do you hear me?" "do I matter?" Their behavior often reflects our response." "I want to hold your hand at 80 and say we made it"- GFSF, and we are still making it.. stronger ad loving. 4 Habits of Couples That Last, emotional health is so important on oneself!
“what now?!” five types of bad behavior and why they happen
"It does not matter how much money you invest in your children: what matter is how much time you spent with them." - Shannon I-S. "Be kind to everyone you meet, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." - Renee L. (It reflects your attitude towards life perfectly and shows that you are incredibly Sensible and Spontaneous. You've experienced so much in life already and every challenge you've faced has made you so much stronger.) "Don't try to please everyone. Just do what you know is right." Temperance L. "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and to be loved in return." - Sara M. How To Make Your Kids Smarter: 10 Steps Backed By Science, bottom line: happy kid, better learning capacity
10 Troubling Habits of Chronically Unhappy People
9 Ways to Respond to A Manipulative Sociopath LOVE "NO"
What to Do When You Suspect Your Child's Other Parent is Abusing Alcohol or Drugs
Nagging Moms Raise Successful Daughters, Says Science, pretty sure that I don't agree!
11 Important Firsts That Happen In Every Long Term Relationship
Parenting toddlers in the tantrum zone, this happens right now a lot.. but still we re pretty mellow..Gabe is still very gentle.
6 Behaviors That Make People Like You More
“Mommy will you lay with me?” – when your children want you to lie down with them at night
Why We Need To Talk About High-Functioning Depression
Hostage Negotiation Techniques That Will Get You What You Want
This is birth
"You can't change how people feel bout you. So don't try. Just your life and be happy. - POP

So true. So.powerful. Don't waste time on the small stuff.

We only have an instant in eternity and all it really matters is what we do with our time. - K.R.P.

Caring... cool..Love

A strong marriage requires two people who choose to love each other even on those days when they struggle to like each other. - GI (Love each other even when you struggle to like each other.) Happy marriages are based on a deep friendship, mutual respect and enjoyment of each others company.- John Gotten Be happy with the little that you have. There are people with nothing that still manage to smile. - POP When an adult cries, it's usually not over just one thing. It's built up anger and emotions that they've been holding in for too long." - WW.com Keep talking about me behind my back, and watch god keep blessing me in front of your face. - POP

YOUR actions and words spoke of your heart.. what a pity loser.

"One of the hardest decisions you'll face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder." - POP "Cutting someone completely off from your life sometimes is necessary for your peace. Don't feel guilty for it." - Trent Shelton “I Hurt With Her,” She Said & I Took Note
Are We Reaching The End Of The Trend For Longer, Healthier Lives?
Letting Your Kids Spread Joy
“I Feel Like Screaming!”, I work really hard not to show that I am mad at my child when he misbehaves.. I always shout in my head. He is not giving me a hard time, instead he is having a hard time. No one is perfect. We have to cope sometimes when our babies are also having a difficult time.
The Four Horsemen: Contempt
5 Comebacks for Dealing With Judgmental People
Parenthood Drove Me Out of My Mind and Back Into My Body
Another Nearly-Century-Old Downtown Bar Will Soon Be Closed.. son. our beginning was started at Rialto's, kind of, sort of..Jack London Bar..where feelings began.. so sad.
6 Things Moms Should Know Before Moving to Portland
Getting Married Is Not an Accomplishment
A court has ruled that time spent traveling to and from work is “work”, I had always considered my travel time to and from work is WORK
How American parenting is killing the American marriage
Car Seat Struggles – Handled With Respect

"The most common way people give up this power is by thinking they don't have any." Alice Walker 3 Simple Ways to Slay the Mom Guilt Beast
"Keep moving through the pain, achieve resilience and you have that muscle."- Michelle Obama People and their tribe... well something like that. AMEN
To Anyone Who Thinks They’re Falling Behind In Life
5 Reasons You Need Physical Touch Daily
Reclaiming Friendship: A Visual Taxonomy of Platonic Relationships to Counter the Commodification of the Word “Friend”

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社區雪櫃 Food Sharing Hong Kong and 結束一桶專棄. I am enough.

“ Finding a family to love and loving a family that you have “ – Justin Chang. This podcast hit me really hard. It is about the film "stork" and family. and I strive to find and form a family of own. I poured my heart and soul into one and he didn't stand by me. What Justin Chang said means a lot. 'Magnificent Seven' Director On Staying True To The Original Film's Message

There's A 'Glaring' Gap In The War Against Poverty And Disease
Stephen Colbert blasts the ridiculous double standard around black people protesting
The world’s saddest polar bear is just one of thousands of “wild” animals living in malls in China
White America, It’s Time to Take a Knee
IN French.. 'Master of None' Wins at Emmys, Celebrates Story of Immigrant Parents
Why is Seattle so racially segregated?
Nyk Edwards Was Born in Hillsboro but He’s Big in Japan

'Idiocracy' Will Be Back in Theaters in Time for the Election
Trump Campaign Official Predicts The Future: ‘Bow Down To President Trump’
Powerful New Clinton Ad Nails The Impact Of Trump’s Vile Behavior
Harvard Study Confirms The Media Tore Down Clinton, Built Up Trump And Sanders
Trump says debate moderators shouldn’t fact-check
Who will win the presidency?, that 40% is too scary.

Between Two Ferns With Zach Galifianakis: Hillary Clinton from Funny Or Die

If Clinton loses, blame the email controversy and the media

THE DANGEROUS ACCEPTANCE OF DONALD TRUMP
Anti-Trump Republicans: Don’t Waste Your Vote. Trade It.
Trump’s tax plan penalizes single parents
The Trump family’s refugee rhetoric threatens one of America’s most cherished values
Nazi Who Originated Donald Trump Jr.’s Skittles Analogy Was Hanged at Nuremberg
Trump Time Capsule #104: Jimmy Fallon
The Small Business Owners Trump Stiffed Issue Blistering Revelations (VIDEO)

Network pools refuse to cover Trump hotel tour
Will the Press Finally Turn Against Donald Trump Today?
Blistering Editorial In Conservative New Hampshire Newspaper Skewers Donald Trump
Bill Clinton on ‘The Daily Show’: Donald Trump’s Fans Are Getting ‘Played’

Fall equinox 2016

The sun has crossed the equator!... 1st day of the fall!

Vera Katz Sculpture Defaced With a Swastika Portland is becoming disgusting.
Run River North Is Making Music and Sharing Stories of Identity, Immigrant Families
With Few Rules For Home Demolitions, Threat Of Lead Dust Worries Neighbors
Portland, Oregon Deemed “Most Racist” City In The United States

Mother gets 21 years to life for drowning toddler in custody dispute, this was utterly tragic. I don't have words to express the pain with the loss of a lovely child, murdered by his own mother. I can't imagine what my life would be without Gabe in it. He is the light and my heartbeat in my world.
Is the Portland “SlutWalk” Happening This Year?
California added 63,000 jobs in August, 42% of U.S. total

Oh.. Gabe so much development! ;)

So Quit Trying
6 Things You Absolutely Should Not Do in the School Pick-Up Line
What Makes a Good Life: Revelatory Learnings from Harvard’s 75-Year Study of Human Happiness “The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge,” ...“The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier.”
YOU KNOW YOU’RE A SLEEP DEPRIVED PARENT WHEN…
10 Signs You Deserve More In Your Relationship
Young Barack Obama on What His Mother Taught Him About Love
8 Signs an Employee Should Be Fired (Which Never Appear on Performance Evaluations), there are so much toxic people in this world.
Why Multilingual People Have Healthier, More Engaged Brains
Ellie Kemper’s Comments About Being A Mom On The 2016 Emmys Red Carpet Are So Real
The 3 Phases of Love
Music Activities to Aid in Speech Development
Potty training in three days or less
Sadly, This Is The Top Vegetable 1-Year-Olds In America Eat
11 Abusive Behaviors That Can Look Like Love, But Never Are
What Happens When Targets Aren’t Believed AMEN.. so good, this article!
Op-Ed It's OK to sleep next to your infant child. In fact, it's beneficial
Toddlers who watch too much TV see an increase in social problems at 13
How much math should kids learn in school?
If You Change a Baby’s Diaper in Arizona, You Can Now Be Convicted of Child Molestation

Peace Begins With Love

So let’s all give a little love for International Day of Peace.

The Pause.. be progressive, not reactive.

If you want to give light to others, you have to grow yourself. - Thomas S. Monson The Age When Having Kids Starts Getting Difficult
20 Things Teens Need to Know About How to be an Adult
The Age When Having Kids Starts Getting Difficult
I Didn’t Love My Wife When We Got Married
How to Tell If It’s LOVE. . . or Just Lust
《大吼大叫的企鵝媽媽》
The trick that will turn your toddler into a good eater
New Moms Have To Be Superhuman If They Want To Keep Their Careers, And It’s Bullsh*t
Consciousness Is Made of Atoms, Too
How Can We Help Them Learn To Share?
9 Important Survival Lessons Your Kids Will Learn From Watching The Goonies
‘Dear Men… Take The Photo’
Marriage Therapists Say These 6 Things Can Slowly Kill A Marriage
"People change for 2 reasons: either their minds have been opened or their hearts have been broken." - Steven Aitchison To be in your children's memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today. - Barbara Johnson.. "Time is one of the most valuable gifts you can give your children." - G.I. From Resentment to Friendship – How Our Kids Can Learn to Love a New Sibling
Get Your Children Good and Dirty
7+ Hilariously Accurate Comics About Adulthood And Life By Owlturd
If you leave your kids alone, it’s not predatory strangers who are a risk
The Most Important Thing to Know About Your Child’s Aggression
There Is Literally No Better Time For A Crazy Haircut Than Childhood
12 Habits of Unhappy People (and How to Avoid Having Them), love seeing these traits are identifiable and making sure this doesn't happen to myself or to Gabe. Sadly I know plenty of people having these traits.. they are TOXIC.
First Foods Your Baby Won’t Want to Spit Out

Alan Watts - Why Your Life Is Not A Journey from David Lindberg on Vimeo.

"Practice the Pause. When in doubt, pause. When angry, pause. When tired, pause. When stressed, pause. And when you pause, pray." - POP "Hold on to every genuine person you find. This generation has people driven by ego, money and status. As a result, good souls are ruined daily. Keep your headup and be conscious of the energy you give out and connect with." - the idealist "You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing everything with logic; true power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you: breathe and allow things to pass." -Sylvester McNutt III "I'm not a early bird, I'm not a night owl...I'm some kind of permanently exhausted pogeon.." - Scarymom.com

A global anatomy of health and the workday lunch
Stop Googling. Let’s Talk.
Reasonable People Disagree about the Post-Gen X, Pre-Millennial Generation
What it feels like to be the last generation to remember life before the internet
Research Shows Printed Books Are Better For Your Kids Than E-Books
U.S. signs record $38 billion in military aid to Israel
The Fascinating Story Behind Why So Many Nail Technicians Are Vietnamese
The World’s Longest Recreational Trail Is Set for Completion Next Year
Pricing system offers scant protection as Amazon Japan hacks away at bookstores’ benefits

To my dearest son, Gabe

“If ever there is tomorrow when we’re not together… there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart… I’ll always be with you.” ― A.A. Milne I’ve been walked on, used and forgotten and from these moments I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned who I can trust and can’t. I’ve learned the meaning of friendship. I’ve learned how to tell when people are lying and when they’re sincere. I’ve learned how to be myself and appreciate the truly great people in my life as they arrive. - Lessons Learned In Life Inc. "I'm finally learning to walk away from the people and situation that threaten my happiness, peace of mind, self-respect, and self worth." - Unknown. I hope that someday you find someone that gives you butterflies the moment you meet them. And that the first time you touch, it feels like electricity is running through your body. I hope that when you’re with them, you never want to leave. I hope you are the first and last thing they think about every day. I hope you play it cool in front of people, but can’t keep your hands off each other in private. I hope that when you give them your heart, they don’t break it. I hope that the things they tell you aren’t just things you want to hear, but things they want to say. I hope that you fit in their arms better than the last piece of a puzzle, and that you always feel safe when they hold you. I hope that when you fight, you fight hard, but that when you love, you love harder. I hope that once you find them, you can’t picture your life without them. I hope that they take your breath away. I hope that, together, you create happiness. I hope that with them, you’re not afraid of the future, but excited for it. I hope that, every day, they tell you how much they love you. I hope that when you find them, you realize it before it’s too late. I hope that you take them and love them and never let them go. I hope you find it. ~ Lauren M. Smithc When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth, just like you did. - unknown. #truth

Really, the golden rule.. treat others of how you want to be treated! Be kind to the unkind.

"Everyone goes through hard times at some point. Life isn't easy. Just something to think about. Did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive? Did you know the people who exhibit the most kindness are the first to get mistreated? Did you know the ones who take care of others all the time are usually the ones who need it the most? Did you know the three hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and help me? Sometimes just because a person looks happy, you have to look past their smile to see how much pain they may be in......to give a moment of support to all of those who have family problems, health struggles, job issues, worries of any kind and just needs to know that someone cares..." -A. Low

Kindness

Kindess - Moms have the power of empathy. It's a power because we have the opportunity to do something with it. We can teach our kids to look at others like the treasure they are to someone else...We can turn that soft spot deep within our hearts into a place of strength because we are the people-makers, the heart-molders, the generation-shapers. - Kelsey Lasher

The Loving Story

The Penguins - Earth Angel (Will You Be Mine).. the wound is still too fresh

The Apology, I waited for 6 years!

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"Sorry does not equal trust. Sorry equal forgiveness. Chnaged behavior equal trust." -Dr. Henry Cloud (The best apology is changed behavior.)

Two-Year-Old Goes For A Joyride In His Tiny BMW At 2AM
Let’s Stop Making Dads Look Dumb
When You Look Pregnant, but You’re Not, yup, I had made the mistake, and never again.
7 Things You Need To Know About Someone With Depression, you stomped on me to the ground while I was down. What a great team you two are.
"There are 4 very important words in your life: Love, honesty, trust, respect. Without these in your life, you have nothing." -POP "Apologizing doesn't always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. It means that you value your relationship more than your ego. - The Gotten Institute ( SO SPOT on! ) Being right isn't as important as being together. This doesn't apply to the duo. The key to happiness at work isn’t money–it’s autonomy
Why Strong People Attract Difficult Relationships
Be kind, be gentle to self. 10 Things No One Actually Likes Doing With Their Baby, I actually don't mind those 10 things..I truly love every seconds of my time with Gabe, even when I am in the bathroom.. LOL
Exercise Is ADHD Medication
How Can We Help Them Learn To Share? (Magda Gerber Uncut)
What Nobody Tells You About Self-Care
Marathoner Mom Pumps Mid-Run Proving Women Are Basically Superhuman
Marriage Is Hard And Messy, And So Worth It
8 Signs You’re In A Codependent Relationship, this is between him and his mother.
‘When Breath Becomes Air:’ a dying doctor’s memoir teaches about love and loss
Did you know that intelligence is inherited from mothers?
3 Betrayals That Ruin Relationships (That Aren’t Infidelity), "A committed relationship is a contract of mutual trust, respect, and protection." You offered me NONE
Intelligence Gene: Science Proves Moms Are Responsible For Kids' Smarts
Be the Calm You Want to See in Your Child (by Renee Jain)
We’re surrounded by smiling, successful, talented people who are depressed
Evidence Rebuts Chomsky's Theory of Language Learning, I love this article and thrive to provide a happy, wonderful and healthy childhood to Gabe. ENJOYS.
This C-Section Photo Will BLOW. YOUR. MIND.
6 Things Moms Should Do For Themselves As Often As Possible
Quotes About Motherhood
This is Every Ridiculous Thing You Say as a Parent in 3 Minutes Flat and It’s Hysterical!

Ketchup sandwiches and other things stupid poor people eat "If you had help paying for college, if someone bought you your first car, if you had health insurance growing up, if your mom never cried over $17, you were lucky. The Hail Mary toss of birth landed you in a family that could put you on a soccer team and buy cleats as your foot grew. And someone was home to help you with your math and give you a gummy vitamin each morning. That’s called aid, by the way. And not all kids get it, but all kids should."
Obama Actually Made America Great Again. Here's the Data.
Grand Ronde appeals ruling to allow La Center Casino
Forest resource economist Alicia Robbins’ cool job
Dear news media
Women at the White House have started using a simple, clever trick to get heard
How Far Can You Drive Your Vehicle on Empty?
Don’t Move to Portland; It’s the Worst
At New York Fashion Week Debut, Lan Yu Is Changing 'Made in China'

《你好不好》-

Bernie Sanders Begs His Followers to Defeat Trump: He Won’t ‘Stand Up for Working People’
Thames Valley police arrest man for kicking pregnant Muslim woman, who then lost her baby
What’s Going on With America’s White People?
Trump’s ‘Deplorable’ Deflections
A conversation with Jill Stein: what the Green Party candidate believes
Emails show Colin Powell unloading on Clinton, Rumsfeld and Trump
Newsweek investigation should be bombshell story of the week…. but getting roundly ignored
The Trump Bloc
Poll of battleground states finds Hillary Clinton routing Donald Trump among Latinos
Obama accuses media of going easy on Trump
New York attorney general opens 'inquiry' into Trump Foundation
'Believe me': People say Trump's language is affecting political discourse 'bigly'
Samantha Bee on fact-checking Trump’s campaign: “Calling a liar a liar isn’t an opinion if you can prove it”
Record rise in incomes could boost Clinton
I'm terrified: Trump supporters call, telling me to go home

Happy Moon festival!

The ‘harvest moon’ rises Friday. And it might be a supermoon. And there’s an eclipse.
Mid-Autumn Festival Celebrated Around the World

Happy starts now!

BE Happy. You never know how much time you have left. We repeat what we don't repair - Christine Langley-Obaugh All couples argue. Successful couples repair. - Gotten Institute Happiness begins with you. Not your job. Not your friends. Not your relationship. But with you. - Karen Salmansohn People who repeatedly attack your confidence and your self-esteem are quite aware of your potential, even if you are not. - Wayne Gerard Trotman People will hurt you and then act like you hurt them. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated. - WW.com Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistakes of your life. - TH I wasn't born to belong to anyone. I was born to share myself with someone who shares an equal amount of themselves with me. We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversations with people may seem like a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk. - Thomas Moore It's often more helpful to listen to sadness than to try to relieve it. - GT (When someone is sad, it's a common response to attempt to cheer them up or erase their blues. But unless someone asks for assistance in shaking their mood, it's usually more helpful to listen to sadness than trying to relieve it.) The greatest source of happiness is the ability to be grateful at all times. - Zig Ziglar Without forgiveness, there is no friendship, no love. - Chabad

Too much, too young: Should schooling start at age 7?
I Moved to the Edge of Portland to Help Refugees. But They Can’t Afford to Live Here Anymore.
Hey teachers, please stop using behavior charts. Here’s why
Portland School District says students could leave for protest, signs said otherwise
Police fire tear gas, rubber bullets on protesters in southern China’s rebel village of Wukan
Can A Vegan Diet Give You All You Need? German Nutritionists Say 'Nein'
Don't Call It 'The New Ramen': Why Pho Is Central To Vietnamese Identity
'An aggressive proposal that touched a lot of nerves': Why Gov. Brown's plan to stem the housing crisis failed
Gov. Brown eliminates bill that would have cut taxes on tampons and diapers
Oregon House Speaker Tina Kotek Supports Rent Control
California wants to pull this doctor's license. Here's how it's sparked a new battle over child vaccinations
Court records: Deadly attack on Vancouver teen 'based on race', I will have to be careful about my child and I
Two Mass. schools ranked among top 10 colleges in US
Portland tenants publicly shame their landlord over rent hike
You can rent a 165-square-foot 'micro-studio' in Portland for $1,135 a month

Haters Gonna hate.

Chelsea Shamed For Missing Daughter’s 1st Day Of Preschool, stop bully moms and the gender roles.
Interval Momming: How I Put My Sanity First
Why I Don’t Wish Happiness For My Kids
Stop Having Kids: We Already Have 6 Billion Too Many
Society is Free-Riding Off the Efforts of Lead Parents1
Kids Being Kids is Not a Reflection of My Bad Parenting
Medicated Moms Face A Double Standard
building a home your kids want to come home to I love my home with Gabe. I am thrived to raise him in a happy home! "Happy, healthy, close (but not clingy) grown families are so rare anymore"
Why even driving through suburbia is soul crushing
How Attachment Parenting Affects Your Kid Later In Life
What It Feels Like to Die
What it feels like to fight your own brain
Older Moms Make The Best Friends Because We Just Don’t Give AF
What Kids Learn From Hearing Family Stories
What Concept Most Needs a Word in the English Language?
Conflicts are not the only thing that can end a marriage
10 Phrases That Are Helping Me Be a Better Parent
10 Ways Mentally Strong People Handle Stress
Umbilical Cord Art Is An Actual Thing
The scientific proof that laughing is really good for you
10 Habits That Make You More Attractive, great tips for self improvement
A neuroscience researcher reveals 4 rituals that will make you happier
This Is Why You Should Never ‘Go With The Flow’ In A New Relationship

I made 6 figures at my Facebook dream job — but couldn't afford life in the Bay Area
How High Your Salary Has to Be to Buy a House in Your City
South San Francisco’s Iconic Galli’s Sanitary Bakery To Call It Quits
The 12 Most Common Ways Partners Manipulate Each Other
Median incomes are up and poverty rate down, surprisingly strong census figures show
Yes, Immigration Hurts American Workers
For Apple’s iPhone 7, China Is a Challenge
Most Japanese want to be married, but are finding it hard
It’s expensive to be poor
The Difference Between Living in New York and San Francisco
How many groceries will $20 buy you around the world?

The dreaded destination: why foreign flight attendants dislike travelling to and from India
50 Years Ago, Sugar Industry Quietly Paid Scientists To Point Blame At Fat
Welcome to the world of restricted travel, British people
Zero chance EU citizens in UK will keep same rights post-Brexit, says expert
Popular perfume is most effective in repelling mosquitoes, haha.. NM is helping VS to sell perfume.
Second Vessel From Doomed Franklin Expedition Found In The Arctic
Your Paper Towel is Poisoning Our Environment…
The 11 Best Ina Garten Recipes of All Time...easy mac n cheese... hm..

Let Gary Johnson debate
Donald Trump’s plan to fund a paid family leave program is totally absurd
Melania Trump bid $20,000 on a six foot painting of Donald Trump—and the Donald J. Trump Foundation paid the bill
Ivanka Trump to help dad announce new childcare plan
Obama blasts Trump as a phony champion of the working class
Clinton ad hits back hard at Trump's demand for a deplorable apology
‘Really? This Guy?’: Obama Goes Into Full Snark Mode Over Trump
The Selling of Donald J. Trump
Morell and Vickers: An open letter to Donald Trump
How Donald Trump retooled his charity to spend other people’s money, what a crook.
Alt-Right Leaders: We Aren’t Racist, We Just Hate Jews
Republicans rave about Tim Kaine
Nearly 20 percent of Trump’s supporters disapprove of Lincoln freeing the slaves
How President Donald Trump could ruin his enemies’ lives
Stephen Colbert calls Matt Lauer “a complete disgrace to journalism”
Donald Trump goes on Russian TV to complain about the United States
Trump in hot water over Putin embrace
Ted Koppel: ‘Fox News Is Bad for America’ – Video
Here Are Future Examples Of Trump Sarcasm So You Know What To Look For
Multiple Charities Tell WaPo's Fahrenthold They Didn't Receive Donations Trump Fnd. Reported To IRS
Trump faces heavy criticism for appearance on Russian state-owned TV network
Donald Trump’s ‘Big Liar’ Technique
Donald Trump caps off day of controversy over Putin praise with interview on Russian TV network, maybe he is courting the Russian-American votes

I am winning! :) ..

5 things to never expect from a narcissist
Those “Homework is Useless” Articles Are Lying to You
9 Ways People Around The World Guess The Sex Of The Baby
This is the Yoga Class Parents Actually Need
A Night Owl’s Guide to Raising an Early Bird
What Happened When I Stopped Praising My Child
9 Ways Co-Sleeping Affects Your Child's Personality... haha..Gabe will have higher self-esteem, more open to affection, better behaved in school, more independent, have fewer psychological problem, have positive attitude, happier, less anxiety, and be accepted.. all great!
Where Is Co-sleeping Illegal? Parents Can Be Charged If Their Baby Dies While Bed Sharing Minnesota, Georgia, Pennsylvania,Wisconsin and Utah
Psychologists say the secret to dealing with conflict at work is to think like Dirty Harry
Is It Bad For A Newborn To Nap In The Stroller?,I definitely assessed the risk when Gabe was in one sleeping.. never left unattended!!!!!
7 Ways to Bond When You Don’t Want to Play Pretend With Your Kids
How The U.S. Is Neglecting Its Smartest Kids
In the Absence of the Village, Mothers Struggle Most
How writing 750 words a day could change your life
7 Co-Sleeping Myths That Are Actually True
We Should Treat Early Childhood Educators as Valued Employees
“I Want It Now!” Children’s Wants and Needs, this is trying time... I will do it right for Gabe and Cedric too..
Children Don’t Need to Be Tested
How non-English speakers are taught this crazy English grammar rule you know but have never heard of
As youth unemployment spikes, job seekers keep dreaming
The perils of leveraging a job offer to get more money
BOOST YOUR RELATIONSHIP BLISS WITH ONE SIMPLE TRICK
"Boyfriend," "Girlfriend," and "Significant Other" Are Terrible Phrases

The power of kindness and generosity

When It Comes To Our Politics, Family Matters
Strangers Raise $165,000 In 3 Days To Help Chicago Popsicle Vendor, 89
Infographic: The Peak Time Of Day For Everything You Do
The Difficult Art of Self-Compassion
The Uncomfortable Truth About Children's Books
The Importance Of Being Dressed
Why The Discovery Of An Earth-Like Planet Is Such A Big Deal
VW Engineer Pleads Guilty To Conspiracy To Violate U.S. Clean Air Act
KapStone stalemate continues a year after strike
Protesters win a reprieve as President Obama halts construction on Access Pipeline in North Dakota

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. - Khalil Gibran Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations. - POP

IT’S NOT JUST YOU.
5 Kinds of food that makes you smarter
67 Awesome Halloween Costume Ideas
18 NON-TOY GIFTS FOR CHILDREN
11 Ways To Ease Back Into Sex After Giving Birth
THE CHEATER’S GUIDE TO LOVE
To Choose Divorce Is Not To Choose Failure "Like so many single moms who have gone through traumatic relationship breakdowns (while trying to parent a newborn), I have continued to show superhuman strength every day since — on the good days, on the bad days, and especially on the ugly days. My failure was, ironically, created when I wouldn’t give up. Like many others before me and, sadly, many more who will follow me, we often try so hard at marriage that we risk our very own souls. Once the marriage ends, we find we have lost a part of ourselves too."
The Hidden Danger of Those Creative (and Competitive) First Day of School Chalkboard Signs Flooding Your Facebook Feed Right Now
The Only Thing I Didn't Give My Kids Is the One Thing They Needed the Most, Love my mom moments!
Why Maternity Leave In The United States Really Sucks, I am grateful that I work in an organization that treated me fairly.
Tim Gunn: ‘Designers Refuse To Make Clothes That Fit American Women’
11 Things No One Will Tell You About Labor, But I Will
To the Women in My Facebook Mom’s Group: Stop Apologizing for Your First World Problems
10 Things Nobody Tells You About After-Birth
How To Solve The Happiness Equation
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love
18 Moms Describe What Getting An Epidural Feels Like, it was a very painful experience for me.
What Is Postpartum Anxiety & Can It Be Treated?
A New Parent's Guide To Choosing The Healthiest Baby Food
I Dated a Guy Who Was Just Not That Into Me ... For Two Years. Here Are 5 Things I Learned