Thursday, January 31, 2013

Love someone..

When you love someone, they’re a part of you. It’s like you’re attached by this invisible thread and no matter how far away you are, you can always feel them. - LLIL
Smoked Salmon, Bagels Recalled, be on the look out if you live in Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Idaho, Kansas, Maine, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, Rhode Island, and Utah
20 Vietnamese Dishes You Should Know
Sexual Fantasies: 'The Normal Bar' Finds Fantasy-Infidelity Link
Most Women Would Rather Divorce Than Be a Housewife
Japanese Restaurant Serves Meal of Dirt — for $110
Do the dishes, have less sex?
Before Michelle Obama, There Was Ella Jenkins
Ukrainian Comfort Dish Chicken Kiev Claims French Parentage
In Japan, Food Can Be Almost Too Cute To Eat
5 Signs You Are in Love
On Eating Catfish, I have that feeling sometimes.. i hate the computer age.. it is so decietful
Mixed Weight Relationships: No One Prepared Us For The Biggest Conflict In Our Marriage
16 Mascots Who Really Don't Give A $#!% Hi Donald!
How We Lose Our Virginity Shapes Our Entire Sexual Life
Volkswagen Super Bowl Ad Accused Of Being Racist
貧窮兩種概念
科大MBA世界第8 續膺亞洲之首
In China, Beware: A Camera May Be Watching You, say CHEEZZEE.. you are on TV!
Social Media: OMG! Do Parents Get It?
Why Chicken Wings Dominate Super Bowl Snack Time?
The End of Courtship? I am on fart. I like to go on dates.. dinner dates.. movie dates.. whatever! I want some planning, is that too much to ask to be treated with my kindness?
Step-grandchildren of infamous Nazi propaganda boss Joseph Goebbels are hidden billionaires
Downton Abbey, Episode 4: Can't We All Just Be Sybil?
On Japan’s school lunch menu: A healthy meal, made from scratch
Will States Lead the Way to Legalizing Marijuana Nationwide?
13 Little Things You're Doing to Sabotage Your Success
4 Signs You Will Fail as a Leader

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Someone Like You

It hurts...

Paperman, love or fate?

A face book friend said and I quoted...
"fate will intervene and push people together. I have never seen love that way. To me love, like most relationships, is a series of choices. It is something that takes effort, something that does require sacrifice (what choice doesn't involve the rejection of other choices?) In this case not just other partners, but small things: choice of movie to watch, perhaps not sleeping well, giving back runs when you are already tired. It also involves the joy of having someone who will support you, and sharing the things you love with someone else, sharing yourself with someone else. Choosing to talk instead of close up, choosing to tackle expressing your feelings in ways that don't hurt your partner. Starting a sentence with "I feel" instead of "you..." These Little choices. Constant choices. It is hard, if doesn't fit well in film, but to me it is that sharing that makes it a relationship, that makes it beautiful...it isn't finding the perfect person that makes it work, it is choosing to build a relationship rather than destroy it. And that is a choice, not fate."

Stop the hurt

"Hurt people hurt people. That’s how pain patterns get passed on, generation after generation after generation. Break the chain today. Meet anger with sympathy, contempt with compassion, cruelty with kindness. Greet grimaces with smiles. Forgive and forget about finding fault. Love is the weapon of the future." - Yehuda Berg
Why Are We the Last Apes Standing?
To Maximize Weight Loss, Eat Early in The Day, Not Late
The Horse Head Mask Is The Bizarre Accessory You Need In Your Life, my mask is built in!
How Hugging, Kissing And More Displays Of Affection Help Your Health, more PDA, not always my strong suit..
Tensions linger in US over 'comfort women' plaques
What Country Best Represents the Future?
Sarah Palin’s Entertainment Career By The Numbers
水貨惹的禍 港府無心無力? Hk govt is unless...
Asian American Blogs
What Sarah Palin meant
Redford tells Albertans … a whole lot of nothing
Alberta premier warns of $6-billion shortfall in oil revenue
It's Splitsville Between GOP & Hillary Clinton; Fox Breaks Up With Sarah Palin
Beyond Portlandia: Subaru Drives For America's Heartland
Facing multi-billion dollar deficit, Alberta to spend $275 million on environmentally friendly office for bureaucrats
No Mercy For Robots: Experiment Tests How Humans Relate To Machines
How One Man Tried To Slim Down Big Soda From The Inside
Unpopular Dog Names: Monikers For Pets That Are No Longer Cool
How Hugging, Kissing And More Displays Of Affection Help Your Health
Retailers could be blacklisted over milk formula shortages.. what kind of government is that?
Highway 401 Multi-Vehicle Accident Closes Stretch As Ontario Hit By Snow.. oh no!
Really Cool Video: 'Shroud Of Cold Air Descends On The U.S.'
Music, Multivitamins And Other Modern Intelligence Myths
Honoring 'Our Will To Live': The Lost Music Of The Holocaust
Still Life With Cheeseburger: Art That Looks Good Enough To Eat
Canine Mystery: How Dogs Became Man's Best Friend
Carbs were key in wolves' evolution into dogs
Why do people steal from us?
Things to tell a friend
Don't say this.
Jin, 'The Chinese Kid Who Raps,' Grows Up
Why Everyone Films At The Same Damn New York Chinese Restaurant
The Single Dumbest Way People Are Using Vine

Love

「人的愛有機會變化,唯有伴侶死了,留下的就是永恒的愛,所以,如果伴侶先走一步,或許是一件幸福的事,因為他已得到了人世間經常追求的『永恒的愛』。」-莫樹錦

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Oh Women!

Jon Stewart Tackles Women In Combat Controversy
勿太在乎別人看法
「我再也受不了,我真的想死掉算了。」
最近,一名被朋友出賣後更被「惡人先告狀」,把他的事情扭曲散播,讓所有人都怕了他,以為他就是那人所描述的那樣。他覺得自己每天上班都像被無數眼睛窺視,每人交頭接耳都彷彿在談論他的是非,害他幾乎崩潰。他想過辭工、搬家、換過一批朋友,但是,我跟他說,這樣真的有用嗎?
李嘉誠曾經說過:「太在乎別人看法只有兩種結果,一個是自己很累,另一個就是被別人玩死,因為人家知道怎麼弄你。」?
受傷是我們無法控制的一回事,但是,是否示弱人前,又是另一回事。如果真的問心無愧,幹嗎要逃避?你愈是介意甚麼,人家愈是懂得如何把你置諸死地。所以即使我們無法讓自己真的沒事,至少,也得在人前若無其事,才能避開二度傷害,避免被他人落井下石的機會。?
不累死便被玩死?
不一定只有位居高處的人,才得面對這個問題,即使是讀幼稚園的小朋友,以至一言一行都被注視的公眾人物,同樣面對着他們自認為剛好超過他們承受負荷的重量。中學生會因為承受不了同學的排擠與嘲笑而自殺,成年人也會因為受不了同事與他人的閒言閒語,做出各種自毀或者同歸於盡的儍事。在網絡如此發達的今日,即使你是Nobody,你也可能因為不小心得罪了某人而被人扭曲傷害,把你的照片貼在討論區,讓大眾把你「凌遲處死」。?
太在乎別人看法,不是累死,便是被玩死,不管怎麼死,都只會讓討厭你的人笑死,教珍惜你的人心痛死而已。?

Monday, January 28, 2013

I am soo stupid today and you can't fix stupid.
夢想不會放棄人,只有人才會放棄夢想- H.C

Saturday, January 26, 2013

阿超炒飯 阿菁整糕

阿超炒飯 阿菁整糕
轟烈的愛情不一定能開花結果,留下的殘影卻最令人難忘。雖然最終沒成果,但能在...中遊走,盡看這燦爛又迷人的花園,實在感恩。- HC

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Looking for love.

"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone, we find it with another." — Thomas Merton

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Scary!

Do think TWICE BEFORE you put THAT into your mouth.

Alone

“Alone” By Edgar Allan Poe
From childhood’s hour I have not been
As others were—I have not seen
As others saw—I could not bring
My passions from a common spring—
From the same source I have not taken
My sorrow—I could not awaken
My heart to joy at the same tone—
And all I lov’d—I lov’d alone—
Then—in my childhood—in the dawn
Of a most stormy life—was drawn
From ev’ry depth of good and ill
The mystery which binds me still—
From the torrent, or the fountain—
From the red cliff of the mountain—
From the sun that ’round me roll’d
In its autumn tint of gold—
From the lightning in the sky
As it pass’d me flying by—
From the thunder, and the storm—
And the cloud that took the form
(When the rest of Heaven was blue)
Of a demon in my view—

National Pie day!

But I have banana bread on my mind.. :) The best pie in Stumptown

'Late Autumn' Kiss

Hyun Bin, Tang Wei

Happy birthday Mocha!

I love you!

Pass it on.

-You are worthy. -You are strong. -You are brave. -You are loved. -Somebody cares.

Keep. Moving. Forward

“If you can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if you can't walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” Martin Luther King Jr.

花樣年華

春光乍洩。兩個人太習慣對方,太依賴對方,所以不想也不敢改變- Linda T.

Alone time..?!?!

“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.” ― Olivia Wilde

Thursday, January 17, 2013

VERY FUNNY! Sad.. but true

Stop saying those shit!

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud

I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud By William Wordsworth 1770–1850 William Wordsworth I wandered lonely as a cloud That floats on high o'er vales and hills, When all at once I saw a crowd, A host, of golden daffodils; Beside the lake, beneath the trees, Fluttering and dancing in the breeze. Continuous as the stars that shine And twinkle on the milky way, They stretched in never-ending line Along the margin of a bay: Ten thousand saw I at a glance, Tossing their heads in sprightly dance. The waves beside them danced; but they Out-did the sparkling waves in glee: A poet could not but be gay, In such a jocund company: I gazed—and gazed—but little thought What wealth the show to me had brought: For oft, when on my couch I lie In vacant or in pensive mood, They flash upon that inward eye Which is the bliss of solitude; And then my heart with pleasure fills, And dances with the daffodils.

A positive perspective on being alone

The Solitude of Night By Li Po It was at a wine party— I lay in a drowse, knowing it not. The blown flowers fell and filled my lap. When I arose, still drunken, The birds had all gone to their nests, And there remained but few of my comrades. I went along the river—alone in the moonlight.

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Be happy, be giving!

Word of the year...
Why Does Coffee Make You Poop?
About That Overpopulation Problem
This Google Map of the Flu Outbreak Is Not Comforting
There's More to Life Than Being Happy
America Is Number One (At Obesity, STDs and Dying Young), do you feel like you in the wrong place sometime?
Agreed, Baby Pandas Are Cute. But Why?
40 Ways to Find Joy in Your Everyday Life I LOVE THESE! THESE ARE VERY IMPORTANT TO ME!
This Butter Sculpture Could Power A Farm For 3 Days
Feeling Miserable? You're Not Alone, And The Flu Epidemic Has Yet To Peak, I need to run out and get a lottery ticket!
The Improbable is the New Normal
Brown-Eyed Men Perceived As Trustworthy, Says Study
Traditional Gender Roles Encourage Women To Avoid Marriage, Says Study
You Will Not Be Able to Escape the Worst Flu Season in 10 Years (Unless You Move to Connecticut)
10 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Love and Sex
港續居最自由經濟憂法治排名跌
GPS Guide: Living Life Backwards, I am lonely. Is happiness near me?
Where Americans Are Moving, Dallas crazy!
My year without makeup... she is a hit.. and this makes HK read really BAD... not all expats wives are liked that..
Beautiful Existence, Seattle Woman, Plans To Eat Only Starbucks For One Year, her Living with good will blog
Study: Female premature orgasm is uncommon but awful
Washington National Cathedral to Hold Same-Sex Weddings
Cheers! Boston Wins the Title as America’s Drunkest City For the 2nd Year in a Row

Friday, January 11, 2013

Forgive and forget

愛, 人 沒有不改

The best of it all. Hypocrisy Irony Sarcasm (HIS BS) at its fullest

“Cut me open please,"
"Thank you.."
"Now; pour the salt into the open wound.."
"Now go..” ― Afaf intabi

oh.. you are so decent.. shame on you.

It's beautiful when two strangers become best friends, it's terribly depressing when two best friends become strangers.
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind. - Buddha
"The people who hurt me the most were the people who swore they never would."
“A true friend stabs you in the front.” ― Oscar Wilde
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword” ― Oscar Wilde, The Ballad Of Reading Gaol
“Et tu, Brute?” ― William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar
“It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them.” ― Confucius
“True love is tested when betrayed.” ― Toba Beta, Master of Stupidity
“Shattered legs may heal in time, but some betrayals fester and poison the soul.” ― George R.R. Martin

Thursday, January 10, 2013

I did it. 15.5 years to ashes.

I Will Survive At first I was afraid I was petrified Kept thinking I could never live Without you by my side But then I spent so many nights Thinking how you did me wrong And I grew strong And I learned how to get along And so you're back From outer space I just walked in to find you here With that sad look upon your face I should have changed that stupid lock I should have made you leave your key If I've have known for just one second You'd be back to bother me Go on now go Walk out the door Just turn around now 'Cause you're not welcome anymore Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I I will survive Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give And I'll survive I will survive, hey hey It took all the strength I had Not to fall apart Kept trying hard to mend The pieces of my broken heart And I spent oh so many nights Just feeling sorry for myself I used to cry But now I hold my head up high And you see me Somebody new I'm not that chained up little person Still in love with you And so you felt like dropping in And just expect me to be free But now I'm saving all my loving For someone who's loving me Go on now go Walk out the door Just turn around now 'Cause you're not welcome anymore Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I I will survive Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give And I'll survive I will survive, oh Go on now go Walk out the door Just turn around now 'Cause you're not welcome anymore Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I I will survive Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive I've got all my life to live I've got all my love to give And I'll survive I will survive I will survive...

Wednesday, January 09, 2013

Saw this from fb friend's wall.


Parents rap about maintaining their household by videosonlytube LOL, I am not discouraged, my friend, I think I found my 'THE ONE'...Will he want to rap with me and my R&D?

Am I loved?

I once knew a girl In the years of my youth With eyes like the summer All beauty and truth In the morning I fled Left a note and it read Someday you will be loved. I cannot pretend that I felt any regret Cause each broken heart will eventually mend As the blood runs red down the needle and thread Someday you will be loved You'll be loved you'll be loved Like you never have known The memories of me Will seem more like bad dreams Just a series of blurs Like I never occurred Someday you will be loved You may feel alone when you're falling asleep And everytime tears roll down your cheeks But I know your heart belongs to someone you've yet to meet Someday you will be loved You'll be loved you'll be loved Like you never have known The memories of me Will seem more like bad dreams Just a series of blurs Like I never occurred Someday you will be loved

Choose Your Own Crime Stats

How Many People Have Been Killed by Guns Since Newtown?

Monday, January 07, 2013

Losing A Best Friend By Mila Jaroniec

When it happens, you won’t want to believe it. You’ll take their word for it when they say they’re busy, swamped at work, “just doing me.” You’ll make excuses for them, put your ringer on extra loud in case they call. But you’ll still feel the change, and because you can’t rationalize it, you’ll try to ignore it. It’s a specific kind of loneliness that hits you like a wave of nausea. When the two of you are having a beer and you realize that you have both been staring out the same window for twenty minutes, nothing to say, the opposite of a comfortable silence. When they cancel plans consistently and stall when giving you reasons. When you scroll through your contacts and stop at their name and almost call but don’t, feeling suddenly, inexplicably, abandoned and confused. Sometimes there’s no huge fight that marks the end of a friendship. No falling out, no major disagreement. Sometimes it just falls apart for no good reason. Distance. New relationships. Priorities. Somehow these things can become more important than your connection; they shouldn’t but they do. And as we get older we tend to downsize, prioritize. Trim the corners of our lives, keeping what’s important and discarding what isn’t. Sometimes we stop needing people in our lives and it isn’t even conscious. No one wakes up in the morning actively thinking “Hmm, I think I’ll stop being friends with so-and-so today.” It just goes out with an empty fizz, like a cigarette hitting the bottom of a Coke can. In so many ways, losing a close friend is worse than losing a lover. Lovers are transient for the most part but friends are supposed to be there for you always, or so we like to believe. Friendship is a special kind of love that’s not supposed to fade. You never expect the one person you thought you could always depend on to disappear without saying goodbye. And when they do you feel sickeningly stupid and cheated, wondering what you meant to them all along, whether you were just convenient or in the right place at the right time. You never really know for sure. You look through pictures from back when you were happy — holding each other up drunk and ecstatic, working on art projects on a rainy Sunday afternoon — and can’t understand what happened. Reach for the phone. Attach a photo to an email, start the subject line with some fusion of “Remember this?” and “I miss you…” Get suddenly overwhelmed by a horrible emptiness and discard the draft, leaving the phone untouched. History. So much history flushed down a dirty sink. And the worst part is, you don’t even know how to explain yourself. You know if you bring this up with them they’ll give you a blank expression and a blank excuse. You don’t want to explain how you feel. You can’t. You just want them to get it, to read you like they used to be able to. You want to take them by the shoulders and shake them, screaming Where are you? What happened?! Until you’re blue in the face. But you can’t do that either, because you’re no longer on the same level and it’s going to make you feel crazy. In life, it’s a given that you will lose people. People will flow in and out like curtains through an open window, sometimes for no reason at all. But losing someone important to you will feel like a suckerpunch every single time, and you’ll never see it coming. Which makes the friendships that do hold out, the ones that make it through countless breakdowns and breakthroughs and changes and years, so damn important. TC mark

Saturday, January 05, 2013

Saddness

Betrayal..Please don't use me. Can I heal? Can I forgive? How do I trust? Perpetrator: Say you’re sorry and then be sorry. Victim: Avoid self-blame. Victim: Practice forgiveness. Betrayals are perhaps the most painful aspect of long-term relationships and the most difficult to overcome. However, by viewing the path to resolution as a two-way street, both you and your relationships will benefit.

Thursday, January 03, 2013

Hold That Mini-Burger: Restaurants Forecast Food For 2013
For Many Kids, Winter Break Means Hungry Holidays
John Boehner re-elected as speaker of the House, oh he survived..
20 Inventions The World Would A Better Place Without, I like SOCKS!
5-Hour Energy Accused Of False Advertising Over 'No Crash' Claim.. are businesses getting so greedy that they are all about telling lies to the consumers?
Interactive: Do you look like America?
Clinton soars, Palin plummets in most-admired survey
Paul Krugman: Obama Could 'Go Down In History As The Wimp Who Threw It All Away' Obama is no wimp, he is not an economist, Mr. Krugman. He is trying his best, but I do agree.. we should fall off the cliff to let ppl know that we do NEED a functional government, top2% & teabaggers!
Congress OKs cliff deal, signaling future fights
New Year's Quotes: Inspirational Sayings To Inspire A Fresh Start In 2013
Stress Is the New Fat
Can't Stop Craving Carbs?
A delicious roundup of conservative-on-conservative violence
Can Skinny Models Undermine Your Dieting Goals?
Well, It Is In The Dictionary: Boehner Reportedly Aimed 'F-Bomb' At Reid
A Little Extra Fat May Help You Live Longer
Clean up me in the net!!!!
Must-Have Job Skills in 2013
Docs Discover Drug-Spiked Eggplant Sent Beijing Diners To Hospital
What Do Food Labels Like 'Cage Free' Hide From You?
Fiscal Cliff Deal's Winners And Losers
It's civil war time for House Republicans
Men: Improve Your Image in 2013 With These Tips
Speaking vs. Stuffing Your Truth
How Gratitude Can Improve Your Life

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing. ---Abraham Lincoln

Tuesday, January 01, 2013

Happy happy happy

Best of 2013!