Sunday, December 30, 2012

In my heart...

Shakespeare - "Never Play With The Feelings Of Others, Because You May Win The Game But The Risk Is That You Will Surely Lose The Person For Life Time"

Let it go!

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. -- Mahatma Gandhi

我是一片雲

我是一片雲 天空是我家 朝迎旭日昇 暮送夕陽下 我是一片雲 自在又瀟灑 身隨魂夢飛 它來去無牽掛 -瓊瑤

Saturday, December 29, 2012

I need this in my head!

Often in life, you might take a wrong turn, but at the time, you may not be aware that it IS a wrong turn. So you’ll coast along for a while, thinking that the scenery looks a bit different to what you expected, but that things seem okay. It may take ages, but suddenly you might come up against an immoveable boulder on the path, one that you can’t climb over or go around. Or the road you are on ends at a cliff with the equivalent of the Grand Canyon beyond. This is the moment of truth, when you realize not only that you took a wrong turn, but that you’re going to have to retrace your steps. You may feel so very far from your destination that you despair, and you just can’t believe that you wasted your time, how stupid of you, etc. DON’T DESPAIR! Don’t give yourself a hard time either. If you think back and look really hard, there will have been something positive (maybe many things!) that came out of your little detour. It doesn’t matter that you made a side journey: it was just that – a side journey – and it won’t necessarily prevent you from reaching your true destination. It just means that you weren’t concentrating, or you need to be more ‘on it’ if you really want to get where you’re going. Time passes and so does the moment. Soon you’ll be back on the right path. Reality checks in at different times with different hats on. The view from the top is always changing and rarely, if ever, replicates itself. Getting anything that’s worthwhile is always full of wrong turns, dead ends, and sometimes dark despair. But that serves to make it all the sweeter when you finally arrive. The source

Friday, December 28, 2012

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Fiona

Happy birthday, love!

Monday, December 24, 2012

Friday, December 21, 2012

Connected in mind.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Facebook fine-tunes Messages filters, tests $1 option
The Cost of Romney’s Government-Assisted Transition: $8.9 Million
Do Armed Civilians Stop Mass Shooters? Actually, No. Teachers are not police or bodyguards.. they don't need guns on school grounds
Scandal Alert: Congress Is Quietly Abandoning the 5th Amendment The Bribery Aisle: How Wal-Mart Got Its Way in Mexico; Wal-Mart: Probe Continues In Mexico Bribery Case ; Persistence, Bribes Got Wal-Mart Into Mexican Town
Unitaskers And Other Foodie Gifts We Don't Need Or Want, ore crap we don't need
H&M Sourcing Child-Picked Uzbek Cotton, Claims Anti-Slavery Group, this is awful.. i need to think twice when i shop at H&M
FAA Pressured To Give E-Readers A Pass During Takeoff, Landing
12 Items Walmart Apparently Considers More Dangerous Than Assault Weapons
Darden Restaurants Profit Plunges 37 Percent After Bad Publicity Over Attempt To Skirt Obamacare, they are just awful!
State Department responds to claims that Clinton faked illness... these ppl are disgusting!
Everyone Is Ignoring the Much Bigger Problems With Instagram's New Privacy Policy
Quoting Rush Limbaugh Verbatim Is the Easiest Way to Discredit Him
Single-Issue Solidarity Behind NRA's Clout
Rape Case In India Provokes Widespread Outrage, this is awfuL!
White House Reporters Hammered For Fiscal Cliff Questions At Obama Gun Control Press Conference
Time For Gun Owners To Be Good Sports About Gun Restrictions
Let Teachers Carry Guns? Some State Lawmakers Say Yes
How the U.S. gun industry became so lucrative
Welcome to Buck-a-Hit Day
'#Instagate': Instagram Claims Right to License Users' Photos to Advertisers; Users Protest
“Why Do We Laugh?”
A first: state recycles more than it throws away
Facebook Is Killing Instagram
Investment Firm Selling Stakes In Gun Makers
Coverage Rapid, And Often Wrong, In Tragedy's Early Hours
Your iPhone was Built by 13 Year Old Children Working 16 Hours a Day, I want proof!
Cathay Pacific Airways Staff Threaten To Withhold Smiles, Booze Over Pay Dispute :(

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Explore. Dream. Discover.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

Monday, December 17, 2012

Sad moment.

First Of Shooting Victims Buried In Newtown, Conn.
"Now it's our responsibility to bring heaven down to earth - act by act, good deed by good deed, until we reach a world filled with goodness and light."

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Hell has begun! I am destroyed long time ago.

教您如何毀掉一個孩子 以下方法家長和老師可以通用,不同的是:家長毀一個,老師毀一群。 首先應該做的是摧毀孩子的自尊,將孩子貶到卑微的地位上。 ----------------------------------------------- 具體方法有這樣幾條: 1、讓孩子覺得自己什麼都不行,沒人賞識他。 例如學習不行,長相不行, 交際不行,干家務不行,馬虎,粗心,讓家人為他受累……總之,他沒有行的地方。 2、經常拿比他「行」的人刺激他。 例如,這種話要時常掛在嘴邊: 「看人家XX!」,「從不讓父母操心!」這類話最具打擊力和摧毀力,是毀孩子的王牌語錄。 3、父母把自己塑造成為家庭犧牲者的形象,這樣會使孩子產生罪惡感。 而一個有罪惡感的人往往採用自暴自棄的方法度過一生。 具體方法舉例如下:經常告訴孩子,自從有了他,你連電影也沒看過,你為他操碎了心,都累出病來了。 最好再具體說出你身上的哪種病是由於他造成的。 或者說,如果不是為了照顧他,自己早就在事業上有大發展了。 4、和孩子說話時口氣絕不能和藹,切不可使用商量的口吻,一定要使音量達到七十分貝以上, 一定要使用命令式的口吻。 如果還能配合一些挖苦諷刺的漢語詞組,則效果更佳。 如「你真蠢」、「你混」、「沒見過你這麼傻的」、「怎麼生了你這麼個東西」等等。 5、孩子的一切要由你來決定,切不可給他一點兒自由,他的行蹤你要密切注視。 他如果有日記,一定要設法查看;他如果有信件,一定要審查。 這樣做能在他心裡造成他不是人的感覺,造成他是一個受人操縱的木偶的感覺。 一個懷疑自己不是人的人是絕不可能奮發上進的。 6、要學會遷怒的本事。單位上遇到不順心的事, 回來後要想方設法找理由給孩子潑狗血。 無論什麼事都歸功於孩子的過錯然後教訓他, 並制止他流眼淚。 這樣做可以有效地打擊孩子的自尊心, 增強孩子的自卑感,同樣可以造成他不是人的感覺。 7、當眾出孩子的醜。 前六條都是在家庭裡的「單練」。真正要徹底毀掉他, 這第七條才是殺手鑭。 你一定要當著外人(或同學或親友或鄰居)損他,貶他,讓他無地自容。 從心理學角度講,這樣做能使一個人產生懼怕社會的心理,產生自慚形穢的念頭。 而一個懼怕社會和自慚形穢的人是很難立足於社會的。 ----------------------------------------------- 您掌握了以上七條,就基本上可以毀掉自己的孩子了。 當然, 還得在實踐中不斷總結經驗,做到運用自如, 這樣才能將你的孩子徹底毀掉,使他終身一事無成。 能做到這七點的父母,肯定是很愛孩子的這不假,但是方法欠妥當。 這文章故意反著說話的目的是為了以後我們不要這樣對自己的孩子。 ----------------------------------------------- 唉,只能說現在的家長幾乎都這樣,還能說什麼…?!= = 尤其第二點最多,比較來比較去的,比到最後孩子都叛變了。

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Monday, December 10, 2012

Hellish.. time

This is real.

Human Rights Day 2012

Human Rights Day presents an opportunity, every year, to celebrate human rights, highlight a specific issue, and advocate for the full enjoyment of all human rights by everyone everywhere.

Saturday, December 08, 2012

Thursday, December 06, 2012

Is that really possible?

You are perfectly exactly as you are. With all your flaws and problems, there's no need to change anything.All you need to change is that thought that you have to change.

Poor vs Rich

If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich. John F. Kennedy ( inaugural address, January 20, 1961)

Wednesday, December 05, 2012

I need to kill that radio.

Christmas music is driving me nutzzzz!

Thursday, November 29, 2012

I need to be me.

"Happiness is when you feel good about yourself without feeling the need for anyone else’s approval." "You are your most important relationship. – Happiness is when you feel good about yourself without feeling the need for anyone else’s approval. You must first have a healthy relationship with yourself before you can have a healthy relationship with others. You have to feel worthwhile and acceptable in your own eyes, so that you’ll be able to look confidently into the eyes of the people around you and connect with them."

Painful.

只知要飛 但是不知高處 會抽光我的氧氣 當初我這班客機 曾羨慕空中的鳥 要展開我的兩臂 跌痛了 我會努力從原地起 到了最終 總算 學會飛 但為什麼 捉到浮雲 才想起 誰的光 如常為我築起 這空港 何時若覺不安 都清楚燈塔會於哪方 迷失了到底要飛哪方 雲蒼蒼 茫茫長夜裡感激 有空港 雲層上滿星光 星星不知道我的怯慌 人間卻有殷切的眼光 仰望 我下降 只知要飛 但自當天出發 已經飛過千百里 今天我屈指算起 曾為自己爭口氣 也聽到過些讚美 我慣了 世界各地來回地飛 卻怕有一天我 下了機 站在陌生的星球時 才傷悲 誰的光 如常為我築起 這空港 曾忙着破天荒 不清楚心要放於哪方 誰給我蓋好被講晚安 雲蒼蒼 茫茫長夜裡感激 有空港 雲層上滿星光 星星不知道我的怯慌 人間卻有殷切的眼光 每夜 往上看 (從高處) 往下看 (迷失裡) 你的愛好比一個網 往下看 (颱風裡) 的空港 (唯一你) 會等我心足了飛夠了 再下降

Friday, November 23, 2012

Beat DUCKS!

Quack!.. Nope.. Go Beavs!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Ayako and Koji!

Wishing you all the best! Mr. & Mrs.!

Monday, November 19, 2012

Ting and Tucker, Taka and Motoko!

Congrats to the new additions! Babies news are non stop!

Sunday, November 18, 2012

HEART BROKE HOTEL! Shattered!

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans. - John Lennon

Friday, November 16, 2012

Beat Cal

Go Beavs!

PDX SW

Woohoo!.. I am excited! Please hope that I have a good weekend!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Monday, November 12, 2012

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Friday, November 09, 2012

Beat Stanford!

Go Beavs!

Thursday, November 08, 2012

My Heroes!

VA PA

I have a busy day reading and listening to RHCP!

Obama victory tweet becomes his most-retweeted ever
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Who Is Most Pissed Off After This Election I LOVE THIS ARTICLE
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Hyesung "Hace" Oh, dancing his Asian ass off at campaign headquarters in Chicago. Takano beats Tavaglione in nationally watched race, the first openly gay Asian American to serve in Congress
Duckworth defeats Walsh in congressional contest, the first Thai American woman and first disabled woman ever elected to Congress
New York’s First Asian-American Congresswoman on Her ‘Historic’ House Victory
Tulsi Gabbard becomes first Hindu-American in US Congress, GOP, nevertheless
Hawaii's new senator breaks glass ceiling, the first Asian-American woman elected to the Senate.
Exit Polls Show Asian Americans Backed Obama by Wide Margin
Donald Trump: Irrelevant , so well said.
The New Gay Marriage Map
Why Mitt Romney Lost: A Simple, Overriding Theory
Mass. Town-By-Town Election Results
Mitt Romney's Unread Acceptance Speech
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The Saddest Sad Faces in the World: A Janna Ryan Election Night Mosaic, I think that is her regular face
Paul Ryan Will Return To Congress, Budget Committee Chairmanship
With Obama's Victory, Health Law Stays On Track
Republican Response Likely To Be Tactical, Not Transformative
Media Circus: Fox Struggles With Obama's Win, I just had to post it again!
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R.I.P., Mitt Romney, his political ambition, that is.
An Idea for Our Conservative Friends
Massachusetts election results 2012: Elizabeth Warren defeats Scott Brown in Senate race; Congress once again has a Kennedy
Obama: ‘More work to do’
President Obama wins re-election: 17 hysterical GOP reactions, end of the world to them.. they should pack and run and live in church bunker and be rescued by GOD!
The funniest tweets from Election Night 2012
Victoria Jackson On Obama's Win: 'I Can't Stop Crying, America Died'
Why Mitt Lost. He couldn’t separate himself from the Republican Party’s growing extremism.. Mitt is the extremism!
Four More Years: The View From the Other Side
Allen West loses ugly, West got to go!
Election night 2012 was a good night for California, civility and statheads
Obama victory spells trouble for Israel's Netanyahu
What Happened to the Tea Party?
Karl Rove vs. Fox News
Obama's lease renewed despite tough economic times
President Obama’s Election Night Speech
State Educational Ranking vs Electoral College map
World Reacts To Obama's Re-Election
VIDEO: An Awkward Moment, As Karl Rove Objects To Fox's Ohio Call
Tea Party favorite Michele Bachmann wins tight race in Minnesota, this is wrong, how could still have her office?????!!!
13 Must-See Moments From Election Night (VIDEO)
New Hampshire Becomes First With All-Female Congressional Delegation, Governor
On Ballot In Maryland, 'Dream Act' Wins Big On Election Night
How Obama Won Re-election