Sunday, December 30, 2012

In my heart...

Shakespeare - "Never Play With The Feelings Of Others, Because You May Win The Game But The Risk Is That You Will Surely Lose The Person For Life Time"

Let it go!

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. -- Mahatma Gandhi

我是一片雲

我是一片雲 天空是我家 朝迎旭日昇 暮送夕陽下 我是一片雲 自在又瀟灑 身隨魂夢飛 它來去無牽掛 -瓊瑤

Saturday, December 29, 2012

I need this in my head!

Often in life, you might take a wrong turn, but at the time, you may not be aware that it IS a wrong turn. So you’ll coast along for a while, thinking that the scenery looks a bit different to what you expected, but that things seem okay. It may take ages, but suddenly you might come up against an immoveable boulder on the path, one that you can’t climb over or go around. Or the road you are on ends at a cliff with the equivalent of the Grand Canyon beyond. This is the moment of truth, when you realize not only that you took a wrong turn, but that you’re going to have to retrace your steps. You may feel so very far from your destination that you despair, and you just can’t believe that you wasted your time, how stupid of you, etc. DON’T DESPAIR! Don’t give yourself a hard time either. If you think back and look really hard, there will have been something positive (maybe many things!) that came out of your little detour. It doesn’t matter that you made a side journey: it was just that – a side journey – and it won’t necessarily prevent you from reaching your true destination. It just means that you weren’t concentrating, or you need to be more ‘on it’ if you really want to get where you’re going. Time passes and so does the moment. Soon you’ll be back on the right path. Reality checks in at different times with different hats on. The view from the top is always changing and rarely, if ever, replicates itself. Getting anything that’s worthwhile is always full of wrong turns, dead ends, and sometimes dark despair. But that serves to make it all the sweeter when you finally arrive. The source

Friday, December 28, 2012

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Fiona

Happy birthday, love!

Monday, December 24, 2012

Friday, December 21, 2012

Connected in mind.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Facebook fine-tunes Messages filters, tests $1 option
The Cost of Romney’s Government-Assisted Transition: $8.9 Million
Do Armed Civilians Stop Mass Shooters? Actually, No. Teachers are not police or bodyguards.. they don't need guns on school grounds
Scandal Alert: Congress Is Quietly Abandoning the 5th Amendment The Bribery Aisle: How Wal-Mart Got Its Way in Mexico; Wal-Mart: Probe Continues In Mexico Bribery Case ; Persistence, Bribes Got Wal-Mart Into Mexican Town
Unitaskers And Other Foodie Gifts We Don't Need Or Want, ore crap we don't need
H&M Sourcing Child-Picked Uzbek Cotton, Claims Anti-Slavery Group, this is awful.. i need to think twice when i shop at H&M
FAA Pressured To Give E-Readers A Pass During Takeoff, Landing
12 Items Walmart Apparently Considers More Dangerous Than Assault Weapons
Darden Restaurants Profit Plunges 37 Percent After Bad Publicity Over Attempt To Skirt Obamacare, they are just awful!
State Department responds to claims that Clinton faked illness... these ppl are disgusting!
Everyone Is Ignoring the Much Bigger Problems With Instagram's New Privacy Policy
Quoting Rush Limbaugh Verbatim Is the Easiest Way to Discredit Him
Single-Issue Solidarity Behind NRA's Clout
Rape Case In India Provokes Widespread Outrage, this is awfuL!
White House Reporters Hammered For Fiscal Cliff Questions At Obama Gun Control Press Conference
Time For Gun Owners To Be Good Sports About Gun Restrictions
Let Teachers Carry Guns? Some State Lawmakers Say Yes
How the U.S. gun industry became so lucrative
Welcome to Buck-a-Hit Day
'#Instagate': Instagram Claims Right to License Users' Photos to Advertisers; Users Protest
“Why Do We Laugh?”
A first: state recycles more than it throws away
Facebook Is Killing Instagram
Investment Firm Selling Stakes In Gun Makers
Coverage Rapid, And Often Wrong, In Tragedy's Early Hours
Your iPhone was Built by 13 Year Old Children Working 16 Hours a Day, I want proof!
Cathay Pacific Airways Staff Threaten To Withhold Smiles, Booze Over Pay Dispute :(

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Explore. Dream. Discover.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

Monday, December 17, 2012

Sad moment.

First Of Shooting Victims Buried In Newtown, Conn.
"Now it's our responsibility to bring heaven down to earth - act by act, good deed by good deed, until we reach a world filled with goodness and light."

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Hell has begun! I am destroyed long time ago.

教您如何毀掉一個孩子 以下方法家長和老師可以通用,不同的是:家長毀一個,老師毀一群。 首先應該做的是摧毀孩子的自尊,將孩子貶到卑微的地位上。 ----------------------------------------------- 具體方法有這樣幾條: 1、讓孩子覺得自己什麼都不行,沒人賞識他。 例如學習不行,長相不行, 交際不行,干家務不行,馬虎,粗心,讓家人為他受累……總之,他沒有行的地方。 2、經常拿比他「行」的人刺激他。 例如,這種話要時常掛在嘴邊: 「看人家XX!」,「從不讓父母操心!」這類話最具打擊力和摧毀力,是毀孩子的王牌語錄。 3、父母把自己塑造成為家庭犧牲者的形象,這樣會使孩子產生罪惡感。 而一個有罪惡感的人往往採用自暴自棄的方法度過一生。 具體方法舉例如下:經常告訴孩子,自從有了他,你連電影也沒看過,你為他操碎了心,都累出病來了。 最好再具體說出你身上的哪種病是由於他造成的。 或者說,如果不是為了照顧他,自己早就在事業上有大發展了。 4、和孩子說話時口氣絕不能和藹,切不可使用商量的口吻,一定要使音量達到七十分貝以上, 一定要使用命令式的口吻。 如果還能配合一些挖苦諷刺的漢語詞組,則效果更佳。 如「你真蠢」、「你混」、「沒見過你這麼傻的」、「怎麼生了你這麼個東西」等等。 5、孩子的一切要由你來決定,切不可給他一點兒自由,他的行蹤你要密切注視。 他如果有日記,一定要設法查看;他如果有信件,一定要審查。 這樣做能在他心裡造成他不是人的感覺,造成他是一個受人操縱的木偶的感覺。 一個懷疑自己不是人的人是絕不可能奮發上進的。 6、要學會遷怒的本事。單位上遇到不順心的事, 回來後要想方設法找理由給孩子潑狗血。 無論什麼事都歸功於孩子的過錯然後教訓他, 並制止他流眼淚。 這樣做可以有效地打擊孩子的自尊心, 增強孩子的自卑感,同樣可以造成他不是人的感覺。 7、當眾出孩子的醜。 前六條都是在家庭裡的「單練」。真正要徹底毀掉他, 這第七條才是殺手鑭。 你一定要當著外人(或同學或親友或鄰居)損他,貶他,讓他無地自容。 從心理學角度講,這樣做能使一個人產生懼怕社會的心理,產生自慚形穢的念頭。 而一個懼怕社會和自慚形穢的人是很難立足於社會的。 ----------------------------------------------- 您掌握了以上七條,就基本上可以毀掉自己的孩子了。 當然, 還得在實踐中不斷總結經驗,做到運用自如, 這樣才能將你的孩子徹底毀掉,使他終身一事無成。 能做到這七點的父母,肯定是很愛孩子的這不假,但是方法欠妥當。 這文章故意反著說話的目的是為了以後我們不要這樣對自己的孩子。 ----------------------------------------------- 唉,只能說現在的家長幾乎都這樣,還能說什麼…?!= = 尤其第二點最多,比較來比較去的,比到最後孩子都叛變了。

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Monday, December 10, 2012

Hellish.. time

This is real.

Human Rights Day 2012

Human Rights Day presents an opportunity, every year, to celebrate human rights, highlight a specific issue, and advocate for the full enjoyment of all human rights by everyone everywhere.

Saturday, December 08, 2012

Thursday, December 06, 2012

Is that really possible?

You are perfectly exactly as you are. With all your flaws and problems, there's no need to change anything.All you need to change is that thought that you have to change.

Poor vs Rich

If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich. John F. Kennedy ( inaugural address, January 20, 1961)

Wednesday, December 05, 2012